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How can you find LGBTQ+ women?

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Lauren Sanders is a Professional Matchmaker, Dating Coach, and the Founder of Dating for the Soul. With over four years of experience, she specializes in helping singles find love. Lauren is also the author of Lipstick Faith: A Collection of Inspirational Writings and Life Lessons, You Deserve the World, Rainbows and Strawberries: 100 Devotions for the Brighter Side of Life, and Let's Go Outside Mommy. Lauren holds BS from Dillard University and a Masters from The University of North Georgia.

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One of the best ways is via LGBTQ+-centered dating apps. However, you can also try meetup groups on meetup.com, LGBTQ+ nightclubs, LGBTQ+ Facebook groups, LGBTQ+ matchmaking services, and LGBTQ+ events such as different Pride weekends in different cities.

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I have ED, but I still want the attention of a bi man. Can I still find someone who will be interested in me?

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Yes, you can find someone who will be interested in you despite your ED.

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How do I find a bisexual guy if I'm a woman?

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You can follow most of the steps in this article the same, but I would recommend signing up for some dating websites and filtering your matches by sexuality in order to only see your bisexual matches.

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Is it possible for a straight man to be in love with a gay man?

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If a straight man was in love with a gay man, then it wouldn't really be accurate to call him straight.

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What if I am not classically attractive?

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Everyone's attractive to someone! Put yourself out there, and stop worrying that you're not perfect or model material. Confidence is key to finding a man who'll adore you and will help you shine.

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I'm married, are there any apps I can hide where I can find other married bi men?

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If you are unhappy with your marriage, I'd first recommend talking about seeing other people with your significant other, then find other single bi men.

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I am married and secretly bi. What can I do?

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Being bisexual is not an excuse to cheat on your partner. If you want to be intimate with men, you will need to come out to your wife and tell her that you're interested in an open marriage.

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How do I find a gay life partner?

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Try to meet new people through a dating app. Many dating apps allow you to choose what gender/sex you're interested in and/or looking for.

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I'm looking for love, and not just sex. I'm bisexual and tired of just getting people who want one thing. What should I do.

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Follow the steps in this article. Get onto dating sites/apps and specify what you are looking for.

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I an gay and I have a crush on a straight man. What should I do?

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There isn't really anything you can do about it. If they're straight and don't like males, then you can't really change that.

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