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What if the girl blocks you?

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Don't pursue it further. If she blocked you, she wants no further contact and you should respect her wishes.

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What if the girl is not interested?

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If the girl isn't interested, don't push it any farther. You might come across as a creep.

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How can I sext someone that I'm not dating?

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Start off slowly, joking flirtatiously, and see if things develop from there. Approach cautiously, as you don't want to come across as creepy.

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What if we are both naked and I start sending pictures and stuff? What do I do if they are playing with a sex toy in the picture and it really turns me on and I want to do the same?

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Tell them how horny it makes you and that you want the same. Tell them how sexy they are with it and that it's really hot.

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What should I reply after a girl says she's thinking dirty?

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Say something along the lines of "Oh really, what are you thinking" it will turn her on.

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I know a girl who sent me some sexy pics but now she doesn't me send any more. Why?

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She might've gotten less confident or uncomfortable. If you've received photos from her before, tell her how much you love her body and that you'd love to see it again.

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What if I accidentally send a sexy snap to the wrong person while sexting?

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Just say that it was meant for someone else, but that's all you can do. That's one of the risks of sexting.

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How do I know which girls would be interested in this?

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Sometimes you can tell from context clues - if a girl is getting a little bit sexual herself, she might be indicating that she wants you to take things further. Sometimes you'll know because she will send you dirty texts first. If nothing else, you can always just ask her if you could be blunt with her about how attractive you find her.

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How do I end the conversation?

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You could say something like, "we should do that again another time" or "I really liked that but I have to go. Talk again soon?"

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How do I turn a girl on without sexual movement?

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Dirty texts can turn her on. Follow the tips here for best results.

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Can I do a video chat with my partner and expose myself to him?

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Of course! Video chats are encouraged. They're a great way for you and your lover to show how dirty you can be face-to-face (or to-screen, rather). Exposure is extremely encouraged too!

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How do I write dirty texts to a girl?

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Make sure the girl is interested in exchanging dirty text messages with you before sending any dirty texts. You can start off by saying something along the lines of, "Hey (girls name/pet name) I couldn't stop thinking about you and how sexy you are" and see were it heads from there.

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What if I send something stupid and ruin the moment?

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Just say that it was the fault of autocorrect. Then continue being dirty.

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What if I haven't gotten my bikini wax yet and he asks for a sexy picture of "down there"?

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He probably wouldn't really care if you haven't been waxed, but if you're not comfortable, just tell him no.

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How can I start a freaky conversation?

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To start off, try something like, "I'm feeling horny right now babe. Wanna sext?"

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What is the best way to tell a guy I like him and ask if he likes me back?

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If you are confident tell him in person and see what he says, but I think the best option is to tell him on text or on social media.

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What if my partner is turned off by the masturbation part?

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Just tame things down a bit. If they aren’t interested, don’t push it.

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How do I get people to send me dirty texts initially?

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You should lead them on and tease them, make them feel like they want more and want to send dirty texts.

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Is it possible to send sext to my friend's girlfriend? Will it work?

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You shouldn't try to sext someone who has a boyfriend, and definitely not when your friend is the boyfriend. If he found out, he may feel that you are selfish and don't care about him.

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What if I like a guy but he's asking me for nudes, and I don't really want to send them?

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Explain to the guy that you don't feel comfortable sending them to him. He may feel as if you would be willing to do it because you like him, and that could be a sign of him trying to use you. If he continues to ask or harass you about it, then block him.

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Should I send pictures of myself?

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You can, but you don't always need to. Do it only if you are comfortable with and trust the other person. Also, remember that once you send those pictures, you lose control over them and they're out there forever.

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How can I take the conversation to the next level?

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Tell them you would like to get a bit more explicit, and remind them you really care about them and don't only want them for their body.

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How do I get the confidence to send dirty texts?

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Remember that if they're interested, they're interested, and if they're not, they're not. Rejection just means you can try again later or with someone else. You could ask the individual if they'd like dirty texts. There's no rush.

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How do I make sure when I sext her, she won't tell anybody?

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As soon as you send it, it leaves your control and she is free to do with it as she pleases; you have absolutely no control after this point. So if you don't want her to tell anybody, either don't send it, or ask her not to share. But life will be simpler if you just accept that people talk about everything, especially your performance in bed.

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How do I get my boyfriend to become more of a dominant guy.

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Tell him you like that trait in a man and ask him how he feels about it.

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How old do I have to be to sext?

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You should be old enough to really understand what you are doing and the potential consequences. im 12 btw

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What do I do if someone wants to sext me but I don't want them to? How do I say no without them getting upset?

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Just say it makes uncomfortable and you don't want to do it. If someone gets upset at that, then just block them––you gave them the chance to stop and they disobeyed your wishes. If they can't respect your boundaries and your wishes, then they are almost definitely a creep. Sexting is still a sexual act and requires complete consent from all parties involved.

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My boyfriend has never done anything like this, he says he wants to but he doesn’t know how. Both of us are really awkward. How do I initiate it?

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Just go for it and see if he responds. Something along the lines of “Hey babe, I was thinking of you during biology today” will get things started.

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What if they sext that they want to have sex but you don't?

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Tell them how you feel without making it awkward. Try saying, "I'm not ready for that yet."

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What if he finds my texts boring?

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Spice it up or change the topic.

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