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  • Question
    How do you start a letter of complaint?
    Tami Claytor
    Etiquette Coach
    Tami Claytor is an Etiquette Coach, Image Consultant, and the Owner of Always Appropriate Image and Etiquette Consulting in New York, New York. With over 20 years of experience, Tami specializes in teaching etiquette classes to individuals, students, companies, and community organizations. Tami has spent decades studying cultures through her extensive travels across five continents and has created cultural diversity workshops to promote social justice and cross-cultural awareness. She holds a BA in Economics with a concentration in International Relations from Clark University. Tami studied at the Ophelia DeVore School of Charm and the Fashion Institute of Technology, where she earned her Image Consultant Certification.
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    One, you want to be very clear about what you're dissatisfied with. And only state the facts, not the emotion. So, yes, you may be extremely upset and distraught, but whoever you're sending this letter of complaint to doesn't need that because it's going to overshadow the real issue. Address the letter to whomever the appropriate person is. You could say something like, "I dined at your restaurant yesterday. Typically, I have a wonderful experience. However, on this particular evening, I had trouble with my server Kate. She took a long time to bring us our food. She was very curt with us. She took a long time to bring the bill.”
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    How do you start a thank-you letter?
    Tami Claytor
    Etiquette Coach
    Tami Claytor is an Etiquette Coach, Image Consultant, and the Owner of Always Appropriate Image and Etiquette Consulting in New York, New York. With over 20 years of experience, Tami specializes in teaching etiquette classes to individuals, students, companies, and community organizations. Tami has spent decades studying cultures through her extensive travels across five continents and has created cultural diversity workshops to promote social justice and cross-cultural awareness. She holds a BA in Economics with a concentration in International Relations from Clark University. Tami studied at the Ophelia DeVore School of Charm and the Fashion Institute of Technology, where she earned her Image Consultant Certification.
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    The first rule of thumb is to always say thank you first. Whatever the gesture is, be very specific and say thank you for X, Y and Z. Explain to the person, if it's a gift, how it will be used. If it's for a job interview or business interview, you can say “Thank you for your time.”
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    How do I write a letter to a friend?
    wikiHow Staff Editor
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    When you’re writing to a friend, you have a lot of freedom to “break the rules.” If you and your friend have a lighthearted and easy-going relationship, you might go super informal (“Hey, Bob! What’s up? Yrs Truly, Hank”). However, you can also keep it more formal if you enjoy the traditional art of letter writing. End with a signoff that captures the mood of the letter and your relationship, like “Yours,” “Your friend,” or “Cheers.”
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    How do you write a letter in MLA format?
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    Place your mailing address at the top lefthand side of the page, without your name. Skip a line and then enter the date in month, day, year format (“November 7, 2019”). If it’s a formal or business letter, skip another line and then enter the title, name, and mailing address of the recipient. Skip down again and write your salutation, followed by a colon (“Dear Mr. Jones:”). Start each body paragraph of the letter with an indentation. At the end of the letter, center your signoff (such as “Sincerely”) and skip down 2 lines to write your name, also centered.
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    What’s the best way to start a letter?
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    That depends a lot on the recipient and how formal the letter is. If it’s someone you know well, you can probably greet them by first name (“Dear Lucy”). For more formal situations, use their title (such as Mr., Mrs., or Dr.) followed by their last name. “Dear” is a universally acceptable salutation in most cases, but you can use “Dearest” or “My Dear” for someone you’re closer to.
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    My English is not very good. How can I still write a good letter?
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    Ask for help from native English speakers or online English forums. If you know very little English, have someone write the letter for you. He should start the letter with "I am writing on behalf of (your name)."
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    What is the difference between a comma and a colon?
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    A comma is used when there is a pause in the sentence. For example: I like cooking, ponies and my friends. A colon is used to mean "note what follows". It is used to introduce a list, a quote or an example. For example: chicken, pineapples, beetroot. A semi-colon is used when you have two independent clauses. Basically, it is used instead of a full stop. For example: I like the colour blue; my friend likes the colour pink.
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    How do I write an inquiry letter?
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    Begin with a formal greeting, such as 'Dear Sir/Madam' if you do not know the person's name. Be polite and specific. If you are inquiring for information, simply state "I am inquiring for information about..." Briefly explain why you are writing the letter to them. End by thanking them for their assistance. See the article above for more detailed help on the rest of the letter's contents.
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    Why is Dear such a common greeting?
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    Dear sounds too familiar to many people, but it's an old convention that doesn't imply anything in particular. Dear is almost always used for formal letters, which has led to some informal letter writers to open with the friendlier "Hi" instead.
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    Where does my signature go on the page?
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    The close ("Yours sincerely") and signature can go on the left margin or the right. The left is slightly more formal.
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    Which side is suitable for the address?
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    Write your address in the top right corner of the page. Write the address of the person to whom you are writing, the recipient, on the left side of the page.
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    Should a thank you letter be formal or informal?
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    Thank you letters are usually formal unless writing to a close friend, but adjust to the recipient. Tell your grandmother about your life, but stick to your enthusiasm and job skills when thanking a job interviewer.
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    How do I start a letter if I don't know who will read it?
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    "Dear Sir or Madam" is the fallback option, but a specific title such as "To the Lead Editor" will get a better response. Better yet, call the organization and ask the receptionist who would handle the topic in your letter.
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    How do I inform a client about our services?
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    Open with a clear statement on the purpose of the letter: to explain the services available. List each service in a separate short paragraph, using examples wherever helpful. If writing to one client, focus on the most relevant services.
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    Can I use "You're loving..." at the end?
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    It would be "your," but yes, you could. However, it's not appropriate to close all letters this way. You should stay away from using it in a formal letter, as you are writing it to someone with respect rather than affection.
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    How should I start and end a formal letter?
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    Start with "Dear Mr./Ms. (Last Name)" or use a professional title. End with "Sincerely yours," followed by your signature.
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    I'm not sure whether a formal or informal letter is appropriate. How do I choose?
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    When in doubt, think about the person you're writing to. Is she more reserved and formal, or laid back and casual? If you don't know her well enough to decide, stick to a formal letter.
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    What is the body of the letter?
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    The "body" of the letter is the actual content, everything in between your introduction and your closing.
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    What if I don't know where to send it?
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    You will have to find the address if you want to mail the letter. Try googling the location, or if the person you're writing a letter to is a friend, simply ask them for their address.
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    I'm a 5th grader asking my teacher for less homework (I have 1 major assignment and 3 minor). How do I address him? Do I use his first name? Do I use his last name? How do I not anger him?
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    Let your parents know you are distressed over your assignments. If they cannot help you in figuring out how to complete them, let your teacher know you are having difficulty completing your assignments. Be prepared to tell the teacher "why" you are having trouble. Talk in person instead of writing.
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    How do I write a formal letter to my teacher about the holidays?
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    Start by writing "Dear Mr./Miss/Ms./Mrs." and their last name. Your first paragraph should be a brief summary. The next paragraphs should go into detail about specific parts of your holiday. Your final paragraph should be a summary and judgement of whether it was a good, okay, or not-so-good holiday. Then, end by saying "Yours sincerely," and signing your name.
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    How do I write a letter to my older self?
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    Start by introducing yourself, then discuss your current concerns in your letter. Give yourself some advice and encouragement. You may find more ideas and suggestions in How to Write a Letter to Your Future Self .
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    How do I make my letter stand out?
    Community Answer
    For a personal letter, include little stories from your life. For a formal letter where you need to make a good impression, stay positive and direct, without making excuses or unnecessary apologies.
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    Can we include Dear in front of the name of the organization?
    Community Answer
    Not really. Your salutation should be addressed to a person or persons, not to an organization.
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    What program can I use to type a letter and letterhead?
    Community Answer
    You can use any text editor to type the body of your letter. If you want to design a letterhead, download free Microsoft Office letter templates from the product website.
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    Should we write dear or respected in formal letter?
    Community Answer
    Not necessarily. "Dear" is a preface usually used in more intimate exchanges, and "Respected" as in "Respected board member" is a little old-fashioned.
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    How would I write a letter to an imaginary character from a book?
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    You would probably be really informal, as you've developed a bit of an intimacy with that character.
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    How do I write and address a letter from one business to another?
    Community Answer
    Write a formal letter and include the company names underneath the names of each individual (yours and the recipient's).
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    Where should I write the date in the letter both in formal and informal
    Community Answer
    On the top of the page, on the right margin.
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    Is there an app that allows me to use an iPad like an old-fashioned typewriter?
    Community Answer
    Yes, there are a few. You can find them by going to the App Store and searching for "typewriter."
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