Q&A for How to Write a Thank You Note After a Funeral

I would address the person by name, then thank them for whatever it is they did, whether that was sending flowers, helping with arrangements, or just being at the funeral. Conclude the card by letting them know you appreciate their kindness. Finally, tell them you look forward to seeing them again.

Only if you want to, perhaps to a special person or someone who did something special, such as read or sang at the funeral or helped with the wake or something. It is not really expected as people know you have suffered a loss, but a quick line for a special thing done or extra generous memorial donation would be fine.

As it says above, sign the notes either with your own name or “Family of [Deceased’s Name]."

Yes, you can definitely use the blank cards with your mother's name on them. On the inside message you can express your thanks to whomever you send the cards.

Write a thank you note to the group, not one person. Send the note to the leader or someone you know that is involved. Be sure to address the entire group, as the note will be shared with the group.

Write something like this: "I wanted to thank you for the flowers you sent me. They were very thoughtful." If the flowers carried a meaning you're away of, then you could make a mention of that (see the meaning of flowers ) or you could mention that they were the deceased's favorite, if this was the truth, such as: "Thank you for the flowers. They were Marie-Claire's favorites. I know she'd have appreciated your caring thoughts."

I've written something along the lines of: "Thank you for the kindness and caring you showed in providing such a delicious dinner. Your love for [the deceased] was so sincere in every dish - and all homemade! For many of us, this was the first real meal we could sit down and enjoy since s/he passed. Your thoughtfulness is so appreciated. Sincerely, the ___ Family"

Thank them for their time and compliment them on their planning abilities. A phone call, letter, or quick in-person visit will do.

Say something like: Thank you so much for generously donating your time and beautiful talent at such a difficult time for me, it's greatly appreciated.

Say thank you by going in person into their class. You could award small prizes such as a piece of jewelry, a book, a gift voucher, etc. to class members who were particularly helpful. Or, throw the whole class a morning tea.

If you're struggling to write the card with young children around, ask a family member or friend to mind them for a hour or two. If you don't know what to say, keep it simple and don't be afraid to let tears flow.

Yes, but you should sign your name.

I would send thank you notes to those who gave you the envelopes. If you don't know who gave you the envelopes, I would send thank you notes to those who attended and just thank them for their presence.

Follow the instructions listed in the article above.

Look up plants that you can have delivered to someone's funeral service, and some pictures should pop up. If you don't easily find matches, just say "Thank you for your flower arrangement".

You could write a thank you note to everyone who sent something, even if you don't know what they sent, and briefly explain what happened. You can still thank them for sending a flower arrangement and being so thoughtful.

Yes, I would send them personalized thank you notes. Alternatively, you could call them to thank them.

Many people will have wanted to attend the funeral, but simply couldn't due to other obligations. So start from that idea when you write a thank-you note. For example: "I felt in my heart that you were there mentally to support me, and appreciate your message."

You should bring a flower and a card about how you will miss her.

Yes, sending thank you notes to his family shows that you are grateful and appreciate their contributions.

Thank him for his kind words and the time he gave up to come and speak at the service. If you can, describe more specifically how his words impacted you.

You can write a thank you note politely thanking those who gave monetary gifts for their generosity and consideration.

You can use a blue or black pen for writing thank you notes after a funeral.

Yes, you can if you want to since they are family. You can also thank the wife, but it depends on your personal preference.

Say something along the lines of "The [last name of deceased family member] appreciates your writers taking time to document the horrible death. We will continue to grieve with tears and family hugs."

Ask around and see if anyone knows who the person is. If they do, then ask for the their address or phone number so you can contact them to say thank you.

Yes, it will be good for them to know that you care about them, even though you haven't been in touch for awhile.

Write a formal and cordial thank you note to the House of Representatives explaining your relation to the deceased and thanking them for their thoughtful gesture.

Yes, it would be polite for you to return their gesture with a gesture of your own.

No; however, it would be the proper thing to do. I recommend sending a thank you card even if people couldn't attend. The family member will always be missed, and you could thank them for spending time with the family as you are suffering with the heavy grief.