How to Reply to “What Are You Doing?” over Text: Creative Answers to Sound Fun & Flirty

PDF download Download Article
The best responses for your crush no matter what you're doing
PDF download Download Article

“What are you doing?” is such a simple question, but it’s easy to feel like a deer caught in headlights when it’s your crush that wants to know. Do you respond honestly? Do you make up something funny or cool? Why do they want to know? Whether you share exactly what you’re doing or not, it’s easy to still be yourself and have a great, flirty conversation. We’ve put together the best responses to “What are you doing?” to help you have fun with your crush over text (and maybe even secure that first date). So, what are you doing? Reading this article, that’s what!

Things You Should Know

  • Get flirty by making jokes about how you’re not doing anything, using flirtatious emojis like the winky face, or telling the person you’re thinking about them.
  • If you’re feeling bold and you’re certain they like you, reply with something like “I was just wondering when you were going to ask me out” to make a move.
  • If you’re not close with the person or you’re unsure what they want, keep things polite and vague with phrases like “I’m not up to much, thanks! How are you?”
1

“Truly nothing. My life is so exciting!”

PDF download Download Article
  1. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/6\/65\/Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-1.jpg\/v4-460px-Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-1.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/6\/65\/Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-1.jpg\/v4-728px-Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-1.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    If you’re not busy and hoping your crush will ask you to do something or go somewhere, make it clear your schedule is wide open. Then, make a little joke to keep the conversation light and flirtatious. [1]
    • “Not much, just keeping myself busy with important things like laying down, watching Netflix, tweeting.”
    • “Nothing right now, besides looking at my vacuum and hoping it will just clean my apartment for me”
    • “Nothing. Might do something really fulfilling and make a PB&J soon. You?”
    2. Advertisement
2

“Watching Breaking Bad , have you seen it?”

PDF download Download Article
  1. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/a\/a2\/Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-2.jpg\/v4-460px-Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-2.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/a\/a2\/Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-2.jpg\/v4-728px-Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-2.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    Tell your crush or friend what you’re watching, even if you don’t have it on your screen at that exact moment. Then, ask if they’re familiar with it. If they are, you’ve got something to talk about. If not, you have something new and interesting to share with them!
    • “Just started watching the new Dr. Strange movie. Are you a Marvel person?”
    • “I can’t stop watching House of the Dragon . Have you seen it?”
    • “Listening to the new Carly Rae Jepson on repeat! You’ve gotta listen if you haven’t heard it.”
3

“Playing with my dog. Want to meet him?”

PDF download Download Article
  1. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/9\/94\/Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-3.jpg\/v4-460px-Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-3.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/9\/94\/Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-3.jpg\/v4-728px-Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-3.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    Send a photo or short video of your dog, cat, lizard, or other animals (bonus points if you’re in the photo looking happy and cute, too). This is a great way to be open and friendly without directly flirting, in case you’re not sure how they feel about you (or vice versa).
    • “Just giving Mittens some scritches. Look at how cute she is!”
    • “Playing fetch with Roger! He goes nuts for nerf footballs.”
    • “It’s bath time for Bella. Look at this spoiled pup 😍”
    2. Advertisement
4

“Trying to figure out this trig assignment!”

PDF download Download Article
  1. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/3\/31\/Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-4.jpg\/v4-460px-Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-4.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/3\/31\/Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-4.jpg\/v4-728px-Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-4.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    Use this if your friend or crush is in your class and you’re not sure how to keep the chat going . It gives you both an opportunity to complain or talk about something you have in common, plus you might actually get some good help out of it!
    • “I’m staring at my computer wondering why I signed up for AP European history 🤦”
    • “I’m trying to find the motivation to read for class tomorrow. Have you done it yet?”
    • “Trying to coordinate my group for this comparative politics project. How’s your group managing?”
5

“I’m about to grab coffee, want to come with?”

PDF download Download Article
  1. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/3\/3b\/Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-5.jpg\/v4-460px-Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-5.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/3\/3b\/Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-5.jpg\/v4-728px-Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-5.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    Ask if they want to grab a drink, get lunch, or even run some errands with you. Invite them to almost anything you like as long as it’s low-pressure or convenient (for example, asking them to be your plus one to a wedding at the last minute might be too much).
    • “Hey! I’m starving and was just about to grab lunch. Wanna come?”
    • “I was just about to buy tickets to see Don’t Worry Darling tonight. Want me to get you one?”
    • “Gotta run some errands downtown. Wanna come?”
    2. Advertisement
6

“Oh, nothing much 😉”

PDF download Download Article
  1. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/6\/66\/Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-6.jpg\/v4-460px-Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-6.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/6\/66\/Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-6.jpg\/v4-728px-Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-6.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    Add a flirty emoji to make a mundane answer seem playful. Do this to show you’re open to some flirting over text and invite someone to make the next move. Try popular flirting emojis like 😉 ( winky face ), 😘 ( blowing a kiss ), 😈 ( smiling devil ), or 🙈 (see no evil). The possibilities are endless! [2]
    • “Just relaxing at home 😈 how about you?”
    • “I’m getting ready for bed 😉”
    • “Hey there 😘 just winding down for the day. You?”
7

“That’s for me to know and you to find out!”

PDF download Download Article
  1. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/8\/87\/Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-7.jpg\/v4-460px-Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-7.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/8\/87\/Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-7.jpg\/v4-728px-Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-7.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    Tease your crush by keeping your activities a mystery . Keep things vague and lighthearted to make them want to keep texting you and “crack the code.” Try a winky face emoji or an “lol” to make sure they know you’re being flirty or playing a little hard-to-get —otherwise, it might seem rude.
    • “I could be doing a lot of things right now. Why do you want to know? 😉”
    • “Maybe something, maybe nothing…who’s to say? Lol”
    • “What do you think I’m doing? 3 guesses, go!”
    2. Advertisement
8

“Wondering when you’re finally going to ask me out.”

PDF download Download Article
  1. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/4\/4c\/Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-8.jpg\/v4-460px-Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-8.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/4\/4c\/Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-8.jpg\/v4-728px-Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-8.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    This is a bold move, so be sure about how they feel about you—maybe they’ve hinted at it before, or a mutual friend gave you the scoop. If all goes well, their next message will be an invitation to your first date.
    • “Not much, just waiting for a text from you that says ‘Coffee?’ so I can say ‘I’d love to’ 😉”
    • “Thinking about how great it would be if you finally asked me on a date lol”
    • “Just wondering how much longer I have to wait before you ask me to dinner!”
9

“Brainstorming a good way to ask you out.”

PDF download Download Article
  1. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/7\/7d\/Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-9.jpg\/v4-460px-Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-9.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/7\/7d\/Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-9.jpg\/v4-728px-Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-9.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    Ask them on a date creatively by joking that you’re still figuring out how. If there’s good chemistry between you and you’re ready to make the first move , go for it! Say something about how you’re thinking up a funny, unique text to ask them out with. As an extra joke, mention you’ll let them know once you think of something.
    • “Just trying to figure out the best way to ask you out for coffee this weekend 🤔”
    • “I’m crafting the perfect text message to ask you to grab dinner with me tomorrow night. I’ll send it once I think of it!”
    • “Thinking of the best ways to ask you out. I think I’ll go with this: Want to grab smoothies and go for a walk in the park later?”
    2. Advertisement
10

“Just thinking about you.”

PDF download Download Article
  1. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/b\/ba\/Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-10.jpg\/v4-460px-Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-10.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/b\/ba\/Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-10.jpg\/v4-728px-Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-10.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    Save this for after you’ve been flirting with each other for a few days or weeks to avoid coming on too strong (it might be a bit much if you just met yesterday). Try adding a specific memory or thought about the person to make it more personal or touching. [3]
    • “Just thinking about how fun our date was last night 😊”
    • “Thinking about how gorgeous your smile is”
    • “Just sitting here hoping you’d text me soon 🙂”
11

“Missing you 😢”

PDF download Download Article
  1. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/a\/a9\/Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-11.jpg\/v4-460px-Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-11.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/a\/a9\/Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-11.jpg\/v4-728px-Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-11.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    Tell them you miss them if you’ve been apart for a long time. Wait to use this reply until you’ve established your feelings for each other—it might be awkward if they just had a question about an assignment! Follow up with a question about when they’ll be back, or what you want to do once you’re reunited.
    • “Just wishing you were here!”
    • “Missing you. Are you sure you can’t cut your trip short? 😉”
    • “Laying dramatically on the sofa, longing for your presence. I’m treating you to a nice dinner when you’re back!”
    2. Advertisement
12

“I was about to shower. Care to join? 😉”

PDF download Download Article
  1. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/e\/e9\/Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-12.jpg\/v4-460px-Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-12.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/e\/e9\/Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-12.jpg\/v4-728px-Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-12.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    Send a suggestive text if you have or want a physical relationship. Always test the waters or ask if your crush or partner is comfortable with these kinds of messages before getting too explicit. If they are, send something cheeky to invite them over or start a sexting session if getting together isn’t practical.
    • “Not you, unfortunately. But that could change soon.”
    • “Just laying alone in bed, thinking of what we could do if you were here…😈”
    • “Just thinking about how hot you are 🤤”
13

“Eh, not much.”

PDF download Download Article
  1. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/2\/22\/Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-13.jpg\/v4-460px-Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-13.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/2\/22\/Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-13.jpg\/v4-728px-Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-13.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    Try this when you’re not sure what the person wants or you don’t know them very well—if they want to keep talking, it’ll be up to them to let you know what their point is. A lot of times, “What are you doing?” is just a generic conversation starter. [4]
    • “Hey! Nothing in particular.”
    • “Not a lot, just getting ready for the day.”
    • “Nothing much, just typical Monday stuff.”
    2. Advertisement
14

“Not a whole lot, thanks! How about you?”

PDF download Download Article
  1. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/b\/bc\/Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-14.jpg\/v4-460px-Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-14.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/b\/bc\/Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-14.jpg\/v4-728px-Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-14.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    Answer with a neutral phrase like “Not much” or “Not a whole lot,” then thank them and ask how they are in return. Also try this for people you know, but you’re not sure what your relationship with them is (like if you’re unsure whether they have a crush on you or are mad at you, for example). [5]
    • “Hi there, I’m not up to much. Thanks for asking! How are you?”
    • “Oh not too much, thanks. You?”
    • “Nothing much! How about you?”
15

“I’m having a bad day, actually.”

PDF download Download Article
  1. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/7\/7c\/Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-15.jpg\/v4-460px-Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-15.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/7\/7c\/Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-15.jpg\/v4-728px-Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-15.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    Be prepared for a heavier or surprised response since most people expect a neutral or positive reply to “What are you doing?” If you don’t know the person well enough to be open and honest, a generic “Not much!” is more appropriate.
    • “Ugh I’m laying in bed with the worst head cold ever today.”
    • “I’m running late to work. The bus is so unreliable these days!”
    • “Lol I’m bandaging up my finger. Turns out knives are really slippery when you’re washing them!”
    2. Advertisement
16

“I’m working.”

PDF download Download Article
  1. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/3\/38\/Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-16.jpg\/v4-460px-Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-16.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/3\/38\/Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-16.jpg\/v4-728px-Respond-to-What-Are-You-Doing-Step-16.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><p>\u00a9 2024 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. wikiHow, Inc. is the copyright holder of this image under U.S. and international copyright laws. This image is <b>not<\/b> licensed under the Creative Commons license applied to text content and some other images posted to the wikiHow website. This image may not be used by other entities without the express written consent of wikiHow, Inc.<br>\n<\/p><p><br \/>\n<\/p><\/div>"}
    If you’re actually slammed and want to talk later, make sure to mention you’ll text back when you’re free. If you’re trying to shut down the conversation or aren’t interested in the person texting you, keep it short and sweet to get your point across.
    • “I’m just about to start an important Zoom call. I’ll text you when I’m out!”
    • “I’m really busy right now, sorry.”
    • “Hey, I can’t talk. Long day today.”

Community Q&A

Search
Add New Question
  • Question
    What should I answer when someone (my crush) types "k" as an answer and I wasn't expecting that? How should I keep the chat going?
    Eggyolk
    Community Answer
    Do not respond to “k”. That is desperate. Responding to “k” is pretty embarrassing. Sometimes you need to know when to end the conversation.
    Thanks! We're glad this was helpful.
    Thank you for your feedback.
    If wikiHow has helped you, please consider a small contribution to support us in helping more readers like you. We’re committed to providing the world with free how-to resources, and even $1 helps us in our mission. Support wikiHow
    Yes No
    Not Helpful 21 Helpful 91
Ask a Question
200 characters left
Include your email address to get a message when this question is answered.
Submit
      Advertisement

      Video

      Tips

      • Share as much or as little about what you’re doing as you like. If you’d rather not tell someone exactly what you’re doing at that very moment, you have no obligation to.
        Thanks
        Helpful 0 Not Helpful 1
      • Consider who’s asking you “What are you doing?” when you answer. You might want to be coy and flirty if it’s a crush, but weird and funny if it’s a close friend. It all depends on your relationship with the person.
        Thanks
        Helpful 0 Not Helpful 2
      • Remember, most people ask “What are you doing?” as a simple conversation starter. There’s no right or wrong answer, and maybe you could simply state what you're doing to keep the conversation going.
        Thanks
        Helpful 0 Not Helpful 0
      Submit a Tip
      All tip submissions are carefully reviewed before being published
      Name
      Please provide your name and last initial
      Submit
      Thanks for submitting a tip for review!
      Advertisement

      Warnings

      • Make sure your partner or crush is comfortable with and consents to receive suggestive texts before sending one out of the blue. If they don’t enjoy it, it might end your chances of getting to know them better or eventually having a physical relationship.
        Thanks
        Helpful 15 Not Helpful 3
      Advertisement

      You Might Also Like

      Virtual Truth or Dare Questions to Keep Things Interesting
      10 Ways to Keep a Girl Interested over Text
      "Message Blocking is Active:" What to Do if You Can't Send Texts
      How to
      Make a Guy Horny over Text
      How to
      Talk to a Girl by Texting
      How to
      Prank Someone over Text
      How to
      Respond to a "How Was Your Day?" Text
      The Best Messages to Send that’ll Make Him Smile
      11 Texts to Tell a Girl She's Beautiful
      12 Ways to Make Him Miss You Like Crazy over Text (with Examples)
      13 Things to Do When a Girl Doesn't Reply to Your Texts
      How to
      Respond to an "I Miss You" Text
      How to
      Make a Girl's Hormones Rise over Text
      How to
      Text a Girl for the First Time
      Advertisement

      References

      1. ↑ https://www.sweetyhigh.com/read/what-to-respond-when-crush-texts-wyd-011620
      2. ↑ https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a37411573/best-flirty-emojis/
      3. ↑ https://mentalstyleproject.com/flirty-response-to-what-are-you-doing/
      4. ↑ https://selfdevelopmentjourney.com/how-to-respond-to-wyd-from-a-guy/
      5. ↑ https://grammarhow.com/best-answers-to-what-are-you-up-to/

      About This Article

      In other languages
      Thanks to all authors for creating a page that has been read 596,990 times.

      Is this article up to date?

      Advertisement