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For a lot of people, a three way is pretty high on their list of fantasies. But if you’re actually serious about getting a third person into the bedroom, convincing your girlfriend is the first (and most important) step. In this article, we’ll walk you through bringing up your sexy idea and talking it through with your partner to see how she feels about it. We’ll also help you communicate your boundaries and listen to your girlfriend so that she feels totally comfortable throughout the entire process.
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QuestionHow can I be more affectionate towards my partner?Dr. Lena Dicken is a Clinical Psychologist based in Santa Monica, California. With over eight years of experience, Dr. Dicken specializes in therapy for anxiety, depression, life transitions, and relationship difficulties. She utilizes an integrative approach combining Psychodynamic, Cognitive Behavioral, and Mindfulness-based therapies. Dr. Dicken holds a BS in Integrative Medicine from the University of Hawaii at Manoa, an MA in Counseling Psychology from Argosy University Los Angeles, and a Doctor of Psychology (Psy.D) in Clinical Psychology from the Chicago School of Professional Psychology at Westwood. Dr. Dicken’s work has been featured in GOOP, The Chalkboard Magazine, and in numerous other articles and podcasts. She is a licensed psychologist with the state of California.So, everyone’s different when it comes to physical touch. Some people love all forms of touching, while others prefer none. The most important thing is to make sure you discuss what your partner likes and dislikes. Maybe they want hugs and kisses. When you want to try something else, make sure that it is out in the open and address it directly to your partner so that you both understand each other clearly. Remember, communication is key, especially when heart matters are involved.
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