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Plausible reasons for a delayed text response
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So it’s been a few hours (or even a few days) since you texted someone back, and you’re trying to come up with a good excuse for the late response. You’ve come to the right place! In this digital age, it can be hard to keep up with the near constant stream of texts from family, friends, and coworkers. Luckily, we’ve come up with a list of understandable reasons for your delay in responding, including example messages you can use if you’re not sure what to say. Keep reading for everything you need to know!

Best Excuses for Not Texting Back

  • Your phone died.
  • You were driving.
  • You were in a meeting at work.
  • You turned your phone off to study.
  • You were seeing a movie.
  • You had a super busy day.
  • You weren’t feeling well.
1

You didn’t see the text.

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  1. With the constant stream of notifications coming through on phones nowadays, it’s completely plausible that their text got lost in the mix. In fact, 18.7 billion texts are sent worldwide each day, and this doesn’t even include direct messages in apps! [1] If you tell someone that their text got buried in your notifications, they’ll likely understand, and chances are they’ve even been in the same situation themselves.
    • What to say: “Hey, I’m so sorry for the late response! I completely missed this text somehow.”
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2

You wrote a response, but forgot to press “send.”

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  1. This excuse may seem far-fetched, but it’s actually super plausible. Multitasking takes up a lot of mental energy, and it increases the likelihood of mistakes when you’re trying to do a relatively complex task, like texting. [2] If you were trying to do two things at once, it would be possible to write out a response but forget to press “send.”
    • What to say: “Oh my gosh, I wrote out a response to this text while I was doing my workout this morning, but I got distracted and forgot to press send. My bad!”
3

You didn’t have reception.

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  1. In fact, cell phone reception has been getting worse recently, with users reporting more coverage problems in 2023 than they did in previous years. [3] As a result, an issue with your reception is a completely plausible excuse. The only caveat is that this excuse works best for a delay of a few hours, rather than a few days, since you probably wouldn’t be stuck in a location with bad cell reception for a prolonged period of time.
    • What to say: “I’m so sorry for the delayed response! I was on a hike and didn’t have reception.”
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9

You got stuck in traffic.

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  1. Texting and driving is incredibly dangerous (and illegal), so the other person will understand why you weren’t looking at your phone while you were in the car. [7] Just make sure you come up with a story about where you were driving to or from, in case they ask.
    • What to say: “Sorry it took me so long to text you back! I was driving back from a doctor’s appointment that was pretty far from my place.”
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12

You were at a party.

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  1. If you were trying to live in the moment at a social gathering, it would make sense that you weren’t paying much attention to your phone. Just make sure that the other person wouldn’t be offended by being left out of the “party.” For example, you could say that it was a family member’s birthday party, or a party thrown by friends the other person doesn’t know.
    • What to say: “Hey, sorry for missing this text last night! I was at my cousin’s birthday party and didn’t get home until super late.”
13

You were on a date.

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  1. It’s considered good dating etiquette to put your phone away so you can be fully present in the moment and get to know the other person. [9] As a result, it would be pretty understandable if you took awhile to respond to a text while you were on a date with someone.
    • What to say: “So sorry for the late response! I was on a date (it went well 🥰) and I wasn’t looking at my phone.”
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15

You weren’t feeling well.

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  1. If you had a migraine, food poisoning, cold, or the flu, it would be completely understandable that you weren’t on top of replying to texts. This excuse works well if you didn’t respond to the other person for a few days, but just make sure to keep up with your story. It's a good idea, for example, to make sure you didn’t post any photos of yourself out and about while you were supposed to be "sick."
    • What to say: “Hey! Sorry for going missing for the past couple of days. I caught a terrible cold and I’ve been sleeping it off.”
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16

You got grounded and your phone was taken away.

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  1. This is a pretty plausible excuse, as parents often take away their childrens’ phones when they’re grounded. [11] This excuse works well if you didn’t reply to the other person for a week or two, since it’s possible to get grounded for that long. If you do use this excuse, just make sure the other person hasn’t seen you being active on social media when you were supposed to be “grounded.”
    • What to say: "So sorry I didn't reply to this earlier. I was grounded for this past week and my parents took my phone away."
17

You were dealing with personal or family issues.

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  1. When someone is dealing with family issues, work stress, or friend drama, it may be harder to stay on top of their texts. As a result, these types of personal problems make good excuses if you haven’t replied to someone in awhile. Since these things can be sensitive topics, the other person will likely accept your excuse at face value without prying.
    • What to say: “I’m really sorry it’s taken me so long to reply to your text. I’ve been dealing with a lot of drama with my family recently, but things are finally starting to calm down.”
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18

You were trying to think of a response.

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  1. This excuse works well if the other person sent you an emotionally charged text and you didn’t reply right away. For example, if your ex texted you saying that they want to try to be friends, you could say that you needed to figure out how you felt about the situation before texting them back.
    • What to say: “Hey, I apologize for taking a while to text you back. To be honest, I was surprised to hear from you, and I needed to take a second to process my feelings and decide what I wanted to say.”
19

You’ve been doing a digital detox.

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  1. People are expected to be available through their devices almost 24/7, and this can easily lead to stress and digital burnout. [12] To combat this, many people go on temporary digital detoxes . For some, this means taking a break from their phone for a couple hours. Others do more extreme cleanses from their devices for a few days. As long as you weren’t publicly active on your device, you can easily use a digital detox as your excuse.
    • What to say: “Sorry for being gone for so long! I was doing a digital detox over the past few days because I've been feeling a bit anxious lately.”
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