How to Flirt in Church

Reviewed by John Keegan

Last Updated: July 15, 2024

Meeting a crush in school and flirting with them is easy. When you have a crush that you see at church, it is not always as easy to figure out how to go about flirting without rubbing anyone the wrong way. Whether you’re sitting quietly in the pews or listening attentively to the sermon, there are plenty of tips and tricks to connect with your crush. If you want to know how to flirt in church, we’ll walk you through everything you need to know!

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That will make it easier on you, and the flirt partner. You will not be as pressured and nervous.
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Right before service, sit with your bible. Once they are sitting they will not be able to change pews.

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This usually works, but keep them in view!
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smile and wave goodbye.
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Hand them a piece of paper with your phone number. If they take it and call, then you know you have connected. If they just walk away without accepting the paper, try to find someone new to flirt with next time.
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Have a friendly conversation about his week, what they did over the weekend, etc.
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Remember that most kids and teens who go to church regularly want a healthy, clean relationship centered on Jesus/God, so don't come across as all over dating and romance.

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Grab pencil and paper so that you can write down what they say before the service.

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If you are just going to church to flirt with, that's wrong. Church is there for you to worship, it is not a dating service, or at least not a good one.

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When sitting at the pew that your crush is sitting at, remember to whisper. This is a church and not a playground, and people are there to meditate, worship, and listen to the sermon.

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