Flirty, Funny, and Deep Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend or a Guy You Like

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Witty and unique questions to keep a guy interested while texting
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So, you’re texting a guy, but all you can think to ask is, “Wyd?” While updating each other on your daily routines is totally fine, it does tend to get a little boring after a while. That’s where we come in: we’ll give you the best funny, flirty, and deep questions to ask a guy over text so you can keep the conversation going all day long. Whether he’s your boyfriend, your crush, or just a friend, you’ll never run out of things to talk about with our handy list.

Things You Should Know

  • Ask him questions about his personality to get to know him better, like if he has any hidden talents or if he likes horror movies.
  • Get silly by asking questions about his most embarrassing moment or his favorite joke of all-time.
  • Try some serious questions to make the conversation more intimate, like asking him about his childhood memories.
  • Flirt with him over text by asking if he’s okay with PDA or if he’s crushing on anyone right now.
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Question to Ask a Guy Over Text

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    How do you usually spend your weekends?
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    Do you have any hidden talents?
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    What’s one of your oldest memories?
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    Do you have any pet peeves?
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    What’s the funniest text you’ve ever gotten?
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    Coffee or tea?
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    Did you ever have an imaginary friend?
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    What would you do if you only had 24 hours to live?
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    Are you a morning person or a night owl?
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    What is your least favorite food?
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    If you could only eat 1 meal for the rest of your life, what would it be?
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    What’s the biggest lie you’ve ever told?
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    What’s your worst habit?
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    Who’s your celebrity crush?
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    What is your favorite quality about yourself?
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    What did you want to be when you grew up?
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    What’s your favorite dessert?
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    Do you collect anything?
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    What’s the weirdest thing on your bucket list?
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    What’s one of your most embarrassing moments?
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    What’s your go-to video when you need a laugh?
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    What’s your best joke?
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    What’s the best WiFi name you’ve ever seen?
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    Do you hang your toilet paper over or under?
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    What would you do if you could live forever?
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    Pineapple on pizza: yes or no?
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    What’s the weirdest thing you’ve seen a stranger do in public?
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    Have you ever fallen asleep during class?
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    If animals could talk, which species would be the rudest?
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    What’s the most creative insult you can think of?
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    If you were a girl for a day, what’s the first thing you would do?
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    What’s your greatest accomplishment in life so far?
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    What do you value most in a friendship?
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    Do you believe in giving people second chances?
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    What’s your star sign?
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    Are you close to anyone in your family?
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    What are your passions in life?
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    What’s your favorite way to relax?
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    Who inspires you?
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    If you could redesign society, what would you change?
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    Do you believe in marriage?
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    Do you want to have kids?
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    When was the last time you cried?
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    What are your major goals in life?
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    Do you prefer being single or in a relationship?
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    What’s your favorite type of kiss?
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    What’s your favorite pickup line?
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    Do you have a crush on anyone right now?
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    Would you rather be the big spoon or the little spoon?
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    What physical feature do you find most attractive?
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    Do you believe in love at first sight?
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    How do you feel about kissing in public?
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    When’s the last time you felt butterflies?
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    What’s your idea of a perfect partner?
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    If I could take you out right now, where would you want to go?
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    What 3 qualities are you looking for in a partner?
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    Do you have any terrible first date stories?
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    What’s your idea of a perfect date?
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    Do you prefer cuddling or making out?
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    What are the signals you give someone when you like them?
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