How to Address a Catholic Bishop

If you have to write a letter to a bishop, you might stumble at the first line. Likewise, you might want to greet a bishop at church, but are afraid of being disrespectful. While it’s true that there are formal guidelines for how to address a bishop or archbishop, they’re not that difficult. Once you learn a couple of basic forms to use, it will all feel quite natural. When in doubt, just say “Your Excellency,” followed by their title (bishop or archbishop) and last name.

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Writing to a Bishop

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  1. When writing to a bishop, you’ll want to use the most formal mode of address. Church etiquette dictates that you should use the form “Most Reverend,” followed by the bishop’s first name and last name.
    • For instance, if you are writing to bishop Alastair Booneswyth, the header of your letter should read “Most Reverend Alastair Booneswyth.”
    • In Great Britain, it is common to refer to Bishops as "The Right Reverend."
  2. Include the word "bishop," and then write their location. Write this out on the envelope when you address it, and also use it as a header at the top of the letter itself. When you're done, it should look something like:
    • ”Most Reverend Alastair Booneswyth, Bishop of Rockville.”
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  3. When writing to them you should use a proper greeting. “Your Excellency” will always work, but if you know the bishop personally, you can also greet them with “Dear…” Follow the salutation with the bishops’ last name.
    • For instance, either “Your Excellency, Bishop Booneswyth” or “Dear Bishop Booneswyth” can work, depending on how well you know the bishop.
  4. The phrase “Respectfully yours in Christ” will work in any case. Add this to the end of your letter, then sign your name.
  5. Archbishops hold higher office, so it is even more important to follow proper etiquette. Overall, the guidelines are much the same as addressing a bishop, with a few variations:
    • Use “His Excellency” as a header (“His Excellency, The Most Reverend Thomas Tallis”).
    • Add “Archbishop” or “Apostolic nuncio to…” to his title (“His Excellency, The Most Reverend Thomas Tallis, Archbishop of Dunkirk” or “His Excellency, The Most Reverend Thomas Tallis, Apostolic nuncio to Dunkirk”).
    • Use a salutation like “Your Excellency, Archbishop Tallis” or “Dear Archbishop Tallis.”
    • The same closing, “Respectfully yours in Christ,” will work just fine.
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Speaking with a Bishop or Archbishop

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  1. In speaking, as in writing, you should address a bishop or archbishop honorably. Using the phrase “Your Excellency” followed by the bishop's last name is good etiquette. For instance, you could try something like “Your Excellency, Bishop Kirkland? I was wondering if you’d be joining us for the community supper on Saturday.”
  2. The Catholic Church officially recommends its standard greetings, and they are always acceptable. However, in some areas, exceptions to these recommendations are also ok. For instance, British speakers may address a bishop or archbishop as “Your Grace” rather than “Your Excellency.” [1]
    • If you aren’t sure if there are any exceptions in your area, ask some of your fellow churchgoers.
  3. Even though you are expected to use formal modes of address, this doesn’t mean you can’t have an everyday conversation with Catholic leaders. Just make sure to address them respectfully, and they’ll be happy to talk to you. [2]
    • For instance, start a conversation with “Your Excellency, how are you today?” or “Bishop Sethwynd, how was your week?”
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    Just be respectful while standing straight and smiling. Keep your hands at your sides.
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    The letter to the bishop ends with a show of respect. Like being written for an older person. There is no obligation for Jewish to write the letter in some exceptional way. The Catholic could write at the end of the letter, "In the communion of Christ, John John" or "In the love of Christ...".
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    Does one include name suffixes such as "OFM Conv." after a bishop's name in a letter header?
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    The main criterion is from which country you are. In most countries, affiliation is not a significant factor. (For example, Pope Francis is a member of a Jesuit monastery but nowhere is it written: Pope Francis SJ.) Under Catholic Church law, when a priest and a monk become bishop, he is not subordinate to the monastic authority. It is possible to write and thus show greater respect for the bishop.
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      1. ↑ https://www.catholiceducation.org/en/culture/catholic-contributions/how-to-address-church-officials.html
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      The most appropriate way to address a Catholic bishop in person is to use "Your Excellency" followed by their last name. For example, you would say, "Your Excellency, Bishop Kirkland." If you're writing to a Catholic bishop, address them as "Most Reverend" followed by their full name. For example, you would write, "Most Reverend Alastair Booneswyth.” Be sure you always use these formal titles when you're speaking with or writing to bishops and archbishops. If you want to learn regional variations on how to address a bishop, keep reading the article!

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