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It’s easy to fall for Gemini men. They’re chatty, witty, and curious socialites who know a little bit about everything and everyone. Attracting one is no easy feat, though—they’re equally stimulated by brains and beauty and don’t really have a type, so you’ll have to engage their sharp minds before you can pique their physical interest. Luckily, there are subtle tricks you can use to grab a Gemini man’s attention and rev up his engine. Keep reading for a list of looks, touches, and flirting tips you can use to attract your Gem to you, mentally and physically.

Attracting a Gemini Man

  1. Wear trendy and cool outfits that represent your unique style.
  2. Be a social butterfly when you’re together, but give him space when he needs it.
  3. Showcase your fun side with witty jokes and adventurous dates.
  4. Appeal to his mind with interesting conversation topics and flirty banter.
  5. Send him light and playful sexts, like raunchy jokes and flirty innuendos.
  6. Touch his hands and arms, and kiss and rub his neck.
  7. Be direct about what you like about him and give him lots of flirtation attention.
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Engage him in rapid-fire conversation.

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  1. Ever. Stay up-to-date on current events, the news, gossip, and random fun facts so you always have a conversation topic up your sleeve. He wants to know a little bit about everything, so the more you can bounce around between different ideas and subjects, the better. [4] A quick flow is more interesting to him than a deep discussion, and he’ll go wild for anyone that can keep up with his mile-a-minute mouth. [5]
    • Stimulating his mind with new ideas and topics is the first step toward attracting a Gemini man. Be prepared to talk a lot on your journey to reel him in.
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Flirt with him nonstop.

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  1. Reeling in a Gemini man takes a lot of flirtatious determination, so get ready to lay it on thick. He thrives on attention, so engage him on social media to let him know you’re thinking about him and show that you know how popular he is. Tell him he’s interesting and fascinating outright—the more shameless the flirting, the more responsive he’ll be. [6]
    • Even though your flirting is unabashed and direct, keep your personal self a little mysterious. Geminis don’t like head games, but they’re attracted to a little puzzle.
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Keep his attention on you with playful sexting.

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  1. They’re hard to offend and their signature sense of humor applies to all things sexy too. Send him your raunchiest jokes and innuendos without fear because he’ll eat it up. A Gem man’s mind and body will both be aroused by flirty and offbeat messages, and he’ll appreciate having the concrete knowledge that, yes, you are into him. [10]
    • Gemini men love written communication because of their planet Mercury ruler and won’t be turned off if you blow up their phone now and then. [11]
    • Keep your texting and sexting light and funny. If the conversation turns too serious or emotional too soon, he’ll start putting distance between you.
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Keep things spontaneous and unpredictable.

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  1. Geminis like spontaneity. [14] He’s an active guy that loses focus easily, so keep him engaged with surprises like last-minute dinner plans at a restaurant he’s never been to, thrilling dates like zip lining or hiking an unknown trail, or even just a random night out at the bars when he wasn’t expecting one. When he sees how adventurous and fun you are to be around, his physical attraction to you will grow stronger. [15]
    • Spontaneity will help get your Gem into bed, but you’ll need to keep the surprises coming to keep him there. Play with new toys, positions, or role playing to keep things fresh. Geminis feel shackled by routine, so be flexible with when (and even where) the two of you get intimate.
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Let him have space.

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  1. He’ll start to pull away from a potential lover the second he thinks his freedom is getting stepped on. Let him socialize freely (he is the life of the party, after all) and spend time away from you so he doesn’t feel tethered down. You’ll know he’s attracted to you when he keeps coming back. [18]
    • A Gemini man is ultimately attracted to someone who can be his equal partner and maintain their own independent life. Explore your own interests, hobbies, and social groups while he spends time with his to show that you don’t need him. He’s a curious guy and will want to know all about what you’ve been up to the next time you see him.
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Be a social butterfly.

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  1. Gems run in 100 social circles and are always on the go, so you’ve got to keep up! They are constantly making plans and soaking up attention and gossip like their life depends on it. Join him on impromptu nights out, weekend trips, parties, and high-profile special events. Geminis are attracted to people they can call their equals, and this definitely includes matching his ability to party. [19]
    • Most Geminis will love anyone that can keep up with their bustling social lives. You’ll know that your Gemini man is attracted to you specifically when he invites you to meet his friends or shows interest in joining your social life.
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Make your moves fast.

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  1. They’ll lose interest in you if you don’t keep them mentally engaged and wondering what you’re going to say or do next. Skip the small talk and ask him out for drinks sooner than later, or even just flat out tell him that you’re attracted to him after you’ve gotten to know him a little bit. Geminis are communicators, and they’re attracted to people who talk to them clearly and directly. [20]
    • Geminis don’t respond well to partners who play hard-to-get. Mind games and reverse psychology might work for attracting men of other Zodiac signs, but a Gemini will always see right through them.
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Gemini men are outgoing, witty, and often flirtatious. This air sign is easily distracted, but we've put together this expert series to help you attract the Gemini of your dreams.

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    What type of a sign is Gemini?
    Jessica Lanyadoo
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    Jessica Lanyadoo is an astrologer with over 20 years of consulting experience. She is the author of Astrology for Real Relationships: Understanding You, Me, and How We All Get Along and is the host of the popular astrology and advice show, Ghost of a Podcast. Lanyadoo co-hosted TLC’s digital astrology show Stargazing and writes weekly and monthly horoscopes that help you heal.
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    Gemini is a mutable sign and an air sign. Mercury is its ruling planet which is a planet of communication.
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    What are the qualities of a Gemini?
    Jessica Lanyadoo
    Astrologer & Psychic Medium
    Jessica Lanyadoo is an astrologer with over 20 years of consulting experience. She is the author of Astrology for Real Relationships: Understanding You, Me, and How We All Get Along and is the host of the popular astrology and advice show, Ghost of a Podcast. Lanyadoo co-hosted TLC’s digital astrology show Stargazing and writes weekly and monthly horoscopes that help you heal.
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    Gemini people are curious to know things. They are interested in a lot of things. So you can communicate effectively with them by sharing a wide variety of ideas.
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