How to Be Holy

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Instead of striving for fame, fortune, or material happiness, Christians must strive for holiness. Holiness comes from God, and as such, one must first understand God's holiness before implementing that holiness in their own life. Even after you understand what perfect holiness is, however, striving for holiness in your own life will still take self-discipline and dedication.

How to Live a Holy Life

  1. Surrender desires and live for God.
  2. Participate in holy rites, like baptism.
  3. Pray for God to guide you on the path.
  4. Resist outside temptation to your journey.
  5. Read and follow scripture.
  6. Be intolerant of sin without hating other people.
  7. Divest yourself of sin.
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Understanding God's Holiness

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  1. God is perfect in every way possible: perfect in love, perfect in mercy, perfect in anger, perfect in justice, perfect in everything. This perfection is directly connected to the holiness of God. [1]
    • God is without temptation and without sin. As indicated by James 1:13, "God cannot be tempted with evil, and he himself tempts no one."
    • The things that God does and desires may not always make sense from a human perspective, but being a believer means trusting that God's actions, commands, and desires are all perfect, even when you cannot comprehend them.
  2. God is holy, but in another sense, God is holiness itself defined. There is nothing and no one more holy than God, and holiness itself is only fully embodied in God.
    • God is unlike any other, and God's holiness is the root of that "otherness."
    • Humankind can never be perfectly holy as God is, but humans should seek to emulate God's holiness since humans were created in the likeness of God.
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  3. Striving for holiness in your own life is something that God has commanded you to do as a believer. The task at hand might seem overwhelming, but you should take comfort in the knowledge that God will never ask or demand you to do something you cannot do. As such, holiness is within your reach.
    • In Leviticus 11:44, God states, "For I am the Lord your God: ye shall therefore sanctify yourselves, and ye shall be holy; for I am holy."
    • Later, in 1 Peter 1:16, God reiterates, "Be Holy, for I am Holy."
    • By understanding how God moves in your life, you can train yourself to trust in God and never give up the hope of heaven. This sort of hope provides you with an anchor, and this anchor can keep you grounded in God's truth in your pursuit of holiness.
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Striving for Holiness in Your Own Life

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  1. True holiness will only come once you give your life fully to God. In doing so, you will recognize how you have starved for holiness in the past and how you hunger and thirst for it in the present.
    • To belong to God, you must be “born again.” In other words, you need to accept Christ and let the Holy Spirit work in your life.
    • Before you can truly "thirst" for holiness, you need to reach an understanding about why it is important for you to do as God wants. God does not demand things from you simply to test you. Instead, God wants what is best for your eternal well-being and issues commands to you based on that.
    • Even though humanity naturally thirsts for holiness, the world offers so many distractions that the appetite for holiness is often spoiled. The distractions of the world will never offer the spiritual nourishment the soul needs, however.
  2. Even though it is possible to achieve holiness, doing so is not often easy. You need to dedicate your mind and your heart to the practice if you have any hope of accomplishing the task. Be baptized by receiving the Holy Spirit as The Lord promised His followers, to be your guide and comforter, abiding with you forever.
    • Read the Bible, pray daily and meditate upon the word of God to strengthen against spiritual sin and to learn godly ways.
    • In 1 Peter 1:13-14, the believer is instructed to "gird up the loins of your mind." If transcribed more literally, it would mean, "prepare your mind for action."
    • Setting your mind to action means making a clear, determined effort to abandon sinfulness and follow God in holiness.
    • There will be plenty of outside influences that try to lead you astray. If you do not fix your mind on a clear, definite goal, you are more likely to slip off the path you need to walk down in order to reach it.
  3. [2] Many people often get the wrong idea about holiness and think that it can be achieved simply by following a strict set of rules. Rules and rituals have their place, but when you start to care more about looking holy than being holy, you tread into the realm of moralism.
    • For example, if you pray in public for the sake of being seen by other people, your attitude toward prayer is not as healthy as it could be. You can pray in public if the situation warrants it, but when you do so, your prayers must be for the sake of communicating with God.
    • There is nothing inherently wrong with being viewed as a spiritual or religious person, but that view must come about naturally. You must abandon the desire to appear holy to other people. If people still develop that view of you after the fact, then there is nothing wrong with it, but there is no guarantee that those around you will perceive your desire for holiness.
  4. As noted, God's law does have a part to play regarding holiness. God commands his believers to set themselves apart from the sinfulness of the world. This does not mean shutting yourself off from the secular world, but it does mean following God's law even with secularism criticizes you for doing so. [3]
    • In Leviticus 20:26, God explains, "And ye shall be holy unto me: for I the Lord am holy, and have severed you from the other people, that ye should be mine."
    • In essence, being "severed" from other people means severing yourself from the worldliness of other people. You need to sever yourself from influences that are not of God.
    • Understand that you do not need to shut yourself away in a monastery or convent to sever yourself from worldliness. You do exist in the world, and if God did not want you here, God would not have placed you here.
  5. You will never escape temptation, even if you do start exercising holiness in your life. When you face temptation, though, you will need to control the harmful desire to give into it to maintain any degree of holiness.
    • Temptation does not always come in a tangible form. It is relatively easy for many people to resist the temptation of stealing something from the store or physically hurting someone who angers you. It is much more difficult to resist the root temptations of greed and hate, though.
    • To really practice self-control, you need to do more than simply stopping the obvious sins. You need to guard yourself against the weaknesses of character that can distract you from God. These weaknesses include things like pride, envy, greed, hate, slothfulness, gluttony, and lust. [4]
  6. [5] For the most part, this means being intolerant of sin in your own life. Being intolerant of sin also means rejecting it in the world around you, though. No matter how much you may love someone, when that person sins, you must not make excuses for the sin or accept the sin itself.
    • Words like "intolerance" and "judgment" are often thrown around carelessly and used as criticisms, but the concepts themselves are not wicked. After all, few would claim that it is a bad thing to be intolerant of hate or to judge something as safe or dangerous. The error lies not with intolerance itself, but how it is practiced.
    • Do not tell someone that you disapprove of their actions unless they are hurting others or they ask you directly.
    • Be intolerant of sin, but do not use that intolerance as a justification for hating others. God is all that is good, and love is good above all else.
    • Be at peace with all people without which nobody shall see the Lord. If I regard iniquity in my heart, the Lord will not hear me.
    • Treat others as you wish to be treated.
    • Be faithful to yourself by serving God in true sense. Whatever you do to or for the least of God's children you do to The Lord.
    • At the same time, you should not allow the love and sympathy you have for others to blind you to sinfulness. You cannot judge or control the hearts of others, but you should not accept someone else's sin as "right" since doing so damages the purity of your own heart.
  7. Dying to self means surrendering any desire that is not of God. That being said, God created you to be who you are, so you need not despise your existence. [6] If anything, you need to love yourself in the same way that God loves you before you can approach God's level of holiness.
    • God created you just as you are, which means that you are beautiful just as you are. Your beauty includes all of your struggles, weaknesses, and past mistakes.
    • Even though you are beautiful just as you are, you also need to recognize your struggles and weaknesses for what they are. Seeking holiness means committing to the practice of leaving these vices behind for the sake of God.
  8. Some spiritual practices can serve as catalysts that help propel you toward a holier, more enriched existence. You do not always need to practice these catalysts to be holy, but they may guide you toward holiness when used.
    • For instance, in order to strive for holiness over the way you view food and eating, you could try fasting for one day, or even for half a day.
    • In some cases, holiness in a certain area of your life cannot be achieved without practicing the catalyst, even though the catalyst itself is not holiness. For instance, you must love and submit yourself to your spouse in order to have a holy marriage, and you must love your enemies in order to have holy relationships overall.
  9. Being holy is a difficult task and cannot be done in the absence of God. Prayer is a powerful resource—one of the most powerful tools available to the believer, in fact—so praying for holiness on a regular basis can help you become and remain holier.
    • Your prayers for holiness do not need to be long, extravagant, or eloquent. Something simple is perfectly fine as long as you pray it from your heart.
    • For example, your prayer could be as simple as, "God, let me thirst for holiness more than I thirst for worldliness, and make me holy in every aspect of my character and actions."
    • Ask the Lord Jesus to bless your soul. When you desire to live Holy -- dedicated or devoted to the service of God, realizing that you must serve others, you must ask God to help you.
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    Liz Cooledge Jenkins is a Christian Theology Expert based in Seattle, Washington. She is a freelance writer and preacher. Liz’s writing is focused at the intersections of faith, feminism, and social justice. She is the author of Nice Churchy Patriarchy: Reclaiming Women's Humanity from Evangelicalism. She also blogs at her own Substack, and has written for outlets such as Sojourners, The Christian Century, Premier Christianity, Christians for Social Action, Red Letter Christians, and Feminism & Religion. She worked as a Chaplain for King County Fire District in Burien Washington. Prior to that, she served as College Ministry Director at Peninsula Bible Church in Palo Alto, California. She received a Master of Divinity degree from Fuller Theological Seminary. She earned a BS in Symbolic Systems from Stanford University.
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    Being holy also means you set apart in how you think, act, and treat others. One of the best places to start looking at living a more holy life is where Jesus taught his followers in the Sermon on the Mount. It’s full of practical ways to live differently, like showing mercy, being a peacemaker, and forgiving others, even when it’s hard. Also, think about how you treat people around you. Do you show kindness, patience, and generosity? Caring for the poor, comforting the hurting, and standing up for justice are all ways to live out holiness. It’s about looking at the world through God’s eyes and acting with compassion.
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    Signs of holiness include: Observance of silence and listening; beauty of face and character; mature personality; absence of greed, envy, pride, slothfulness, gluttony, lust and hate; service to the poor; and material and spiritual poverty. You will know you have reached holiness when the world and its ways are no longer important to you, and your mind and strength are set only on God.
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      1. ↑ https://www.gotquestions.org/holiness-Bible.html
      2. ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/when-god-talks-back/201212/imagining-god
      3. ↑ https://bible-truth.org/msg4.html
      4. ↑ https://www.bible.ca/ef/expository-1-peter-1-13-16.htm
      5. ↑ https://utmost.org/updated/destined-to-be-holy/
      6. ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/emotional-sobriety/201305/turning-it-over

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      Through prayer and self-control, you can practice holiness in your life which can help you to grow as a Christian. Start by trying to avoid moralism in your life and focusing on being holy rather than looking holy. For example, don’t pray in public just for the sake of being seen praying, but rather only if the situation warrants it. Next, practice self-control against temptation as much as you can. Practice avoiding greed, envy, and lust by focusing on different emotions instead and working on your thoughts. Praying for holiness regularly is another way to become a more holy person. Your prayers don’t have to be long or elaborate, but simply honest and truthful conversations with God. For more advice on how to be holy, such as how to understand the true, biblical meaning of holiness, read on.

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