How to Find Lost or Missing Relatives Online

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If you've been searching for a lost family member, you're in the right place. We'll explain multiple ways to track down missing relatives online, including which sites and databases to use. All you need is an internet connection, so let's get started.

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Starting a Search for a Lost or Missing Person

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  1. Before you start searching, spend some time thinking about the person you're trying to locate. Consider any details you can recall about their personality, such as hobbies, favorite idioms, maybe even try to remember middle initials or where they were born. If you know their date of birth, this will also come in handy on your search. You need to try to remember any specific aspects of their personality, likes, dislikes or quirks about the person.
  2. As soon as you have gathered your information on the missing person, begin your search. Don’t put off your search for a lost or missing person. The sooner you start, the better your chances of finding the person will be.
  3. If you were searching for a while and then stopped, don’t start over or start from scratch. Even if you hit a dead end, pick up where you left off in your search and continue from there.
  4. Use a popular search engine to begin your search, such as Google, Bing, or Yahoo. Type in details about the missing person such as their name, age, state (if known or suspected), and occupation. The University of Buffalo has a librarian curated list of the best search engines for web searches as well as for people searches.
  5. Just because you don’t turn up any results the first time you try to locate your lost or missing person does not mean you should give up. If you don’t find anything on your first try, try again in a few days and keep trying.
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Searching Different Kinds of Websites for a Lost or Missing Person

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  1. Genealogy websites like Ancestry.com or FamilySearch.org provide online access to records that can help you to build a family tree and find out about relatives you didn't know that you had. Some online genealogy services even provide DNA testing to complement your findings in the online databases.
    • Consider using DNA testing services to enhance your search. DNA genealogy services have successfully reunited siblings as well as children with their parents. If the missing person is a blood relative of yours, a DNA genealogy service may help you locate the person. [1]
  2. If you know the profession of your lost or missing loved one, search corresponding trade organizations' member databases. Using this method, you may be able to find out where the person works or at least narrow their location down to a city or region.
  3. Visit popular social networking sites, such as Facebook and Twitter, and search for your missing friend or relative. Try searching for different variations of the person’s first and last name, first and middle name, and nicknames. [2]
  4. If you still cannot find any information on your lost friend or relative, consider searching the prison system. The Federal Bureau of Prisons website features an inmate locator tool that allows you to search for inmates in the United States by name. [3] [4]
  5. Try searching for your missing friend or relative using people search websites like Pipl, Zabasearch, and YoName. [5] These websites search social networking sites, blogs, and other potential places where your friend or relative’s name might turn up. [6]
  6. The Department of Motor Vehicles website has a court records search feature that may help you to locate a lost or missing person. You can easily search using the person’s name and select from a list of names and details that most closely resembles the person you are seeking. [7]
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Using Online Databases to Find a Missing Person

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  1. Create an account with a missing persons database, such as NAMUS. NAMUS, also known as the National Missing and Unidentified Persons System, is a United States government funded website that allows law enforcement professionals and the general public to add and track missing person cases. [8]
  2. Include basic details as well as photos and more specific information about the missing person. Provide as much information as possible that might help strangers identify the person you are looking for. Consider how they might look now as opposed to when they went missing. [9]
  3. NAMUS allows account holders to make and print missing persons posters. [10] After you have created and printed some posters with information on your missing loved one, post and distribute these posters locally as well as in the areas where the person was last seen.
  4. Persistence is very important to finding lost or missing persons, so check your account daily and get involved in the website’s forums to connect with others who are going through the same thing as you are.
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    Are there any other ways to find missing relatives?
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    Mari Cartagenova is a Psychic Medium & Animal Communicator based in Westford, Massachusetts. Mari has been seeing and speaking to Spirits since she was a child, and she loves to share her psychic gifts and abilities to help others. She specializes in mediumship, intuitive psychic guidance, past life or soul reading, and animal communication. Mari is the 2019 Award-Winning Best American Psychic and a Certified Advanced Spirit Worker.
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    Sometimes, the reason you can't find any active records is that your relatives may have passed away. In this case, you can use Findagrave.com. This website allows you to research where your relatives may be buried. By locating their graves, you can gather valuable information that might lead you to other relatives or clues about their whereabouts. 
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    How can I find my mom I never met? I only have a first and last name and place of residence, I'm not sure if it was the birthplace.
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    If you were abandoned/left with your father or other adult, you could ask them. If you're not comfortable with that, check ZabaSearch, WhitePages, or Google for their names. Since you have a place of residence, you can check RealEstate and see who owned the house/apartment around the time your mother lived or stayed there. Then you can track the owners down and get more info.Using ZabaSearch, you can run her first name and address through their database and hopefully find something. Warning, if it was a closed adoption, all her records are sealed.
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    How can I find two uncles if I only know their full names and that they were born in the late 1940s?
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    If they are deceased, you can check mortuaries for their records, orcheck a search engine for their obituaries. If they are still alive, or you found no record of their death, you could check nursing homes or generic or task-specific search engine.
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      2. ↑ http://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/8-tools-to-find-someone-online.html
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      6. ↑ https://pipl.com/
      7. ↑ http://www.dmv.org/court-records/
      8. ↑ https://www.findthemissing.org/en
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      With the power of the internet, it’s easier than ever to track down and contact lost or missing relatives. One way is to register for a missing persons website like NAMUS and open a case so people can keep an eye out for your loved one. People-search websites, like Pipl, Zabasearch, and YoName, are also useful for finding any mention of your loved one online. You can also search court records through the DMV website and the prison system through the Federal Bureau of Prisons website in case your loved one has been convicted or incarcerated. For more advice, including how to use a genealogy website, read on.

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