Many babies and children suck on their fingers during the first few years of their lives. Finger sucking provides them a sense of security and happiness. It is a completely natural instinct and generally harmless for a child to suck their thumbs, but it can lead to problems with your child’s teeth or social adaptability as they grow. [1] X Trustworthy Source American Dental Association World's largest dental professional organization and advocate for proper oral health Go to source
Things You Should Know
- Ignore the problem if your child is still young, as most kids stop finger sucking between ages 2 and 4.
- Identify if something is triggering your child's habit, like stress or anxiety. Work to get rid of those triggers for them, like putting a night light in their room at bedtime.
- Give your child something distracting, like a fun toy or activity, to keep them from sucking their fingers.
- Cover up your child's fingers with a bandage or sock so they're less likely to suck on them.
Steps
Expert Q&A
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QuestionI'm 10 and I still suck my fingers although I've tried all the tactics listed below? Any other ideas?Dr. Marusinec is a board certified Pediatrician at the Children's Hospital of Wisconsin, where she is on the Clinical Practice Council. She received her M.D. from the Medical College of Wisconsin School of Medicine in 1995 and completed her residency at the Medical College of Wisconsin in Pediatrics in 1998. She is a member of the American Medical Writers Association and the Society for Pediatric Urgent Care.Have your parents talk to your doctor. They may recommend a counselor to help you learn how to stop sucking your fingers. Try to think about when or why you suck your fingers? Is it when you are stressed, or when your are bored? You could ask your parents to buy you an inexpensive finger anti-stress toy, and have it around during times you are tempted to suck your fingers.
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QuestionCan finger sucking trigger asthma in my 4-year-old son?Dr. Marusinec is a board certified Pediatrician at the Children's Hospital of Wisconsin, where she is on the Clinical Practice Council. She received her M.D. from the Medical College of Wisconsin School of Medicine in 1995 and completed her residency at the Medical College of Wisconsin in Pediatrics in 1998. She is a member of the American Medical Writers Association and the Society for Pediatric Urgent Care.This should not cause asthma symptoms. However, stress or anxiety can lead to asthma symptoms as well as finger sucking.
Tips
- Keep trying with your child until they break the habit. Remember that your child is just that—a child—and is apt to make mistakes and have setbacks.Thanks
References
- ↑ http://www.ada.org/~/media/ADA/Publications/Files/patient_77.ashx
- ↑ http://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/childrens-health/in-depth/thumb-sucking/art-20047038
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About This Article
Most children naturally stop sucking their fingers between age 2 and 4, but if your child is older or causing other problems with their finger sucking, there are many things you can do to help them break the habit. Try giving them toys to play with when you notice them sucking their finger, which will distract them. Stress balls and fidget spinners are especially effective for older children. If your child is sucking their finger in bed, try playing lullabies or white noise over a speaker, which will help them calm down and fall asleep. It’s also important to give your child positive encouragement whenever they stop sucking their finger. For example, say something like, “I know it’s hard to stop sucking your finger, but you’re doing a great job.” For more tips from our Medical co-author, including how to stop your child sucking their fingers by covering their hands, read on!