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I like this guy, but I don't really know if he feels the same way. When we hang out and talk, he's chatted about relationships once or twice. What does he mean by that? Also, why hasn't he asked me out yet?

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It's tough to really know exactly what's on anyone's mind if they don't share their feelings! It's totally understandable why you're a little confused. However, it's a safe bet that he's extra comfortable around you and may even have a crush. If he's bringing up relationships but he isn't asking about how you can set him up with someone else, he may be testing the waters. For example, if he says that honesty is important for him in a relationship, he may be hinting at what he's looking for if you two were to date. Right now, he might be too nervous to directly ask you out. To start off small, plan a low-key hangout, like a trip to the movies. Later, tell him you feel super close to him. That may give him the extra push he needs to confess he wants to start dating you.

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How do you get his attention if you have a really strict teacher that doesn't let you talk to the opposite gender?

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That's definitely a tricky situation! It sounds like your teacher is a bit extreme when it comes to classroom management. Still, there's hope. Make sure to study, pay attention in class, and finish all your assignments to get on your teacher's good side. Once you're dismissed, try to catch up with your crush once you leave the room. The two of you can bond over how unique your teacher is. Just make sure your instructor can't hear you! You might want to offer to do homework with the guy you like. That way, you two can have a fun and unfiltered conversation once you're off campus.

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how would you look infront of your crush

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It is best to be yourself and embrace your own style but be sure to practice good hygiene so as not to put off your crush with bad odors or disheveled appearances.

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I have a crush on a guy and he doesn't even know me

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Find a way to introduce yourself, join a club or activity that he participates in, ask a classmate to introduce you two, or say hello to him if you bump into him somewhere.

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What if he is in a relationship already?

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If he's in a relationship, it's silly to even consider trying to attract him and break them up. How cruel would that be, especially if they are in love? However, if you feel very, very strongly, you can tell him your feelings.

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