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I’m a girl who is attracted to crossdressing men. Does this mean there’s something wrong with me?

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Not at all! Everyone finds different things attractive. There’s nothing wrong with being into men dressing a particular way or bending the “rules” of how gender is usually expressed in your culture.

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Do girls like guys who crossdress?

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Every woman has her individual opinions and preferences, so there’s no universal answer to this question. However, there are definitely many women out there who like it when guys crossdress.

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Where can I find someone who can help me learn how to crossdress and be more feminine?

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One great way to start is by checking for tutorials online. There are tons of blogs, websites, and YouTube tutorials by experienced crossdressers out there. If you want to meet someone in person who can help you, try checking Meetup or a similar website for a drag group in your area. You can also try talking to a close female friend and getting advice about styling your clothes and makeup.

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What can I do if I'm shy about my cross-dressing?

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Find a girl who seems forward-thinking, and take your time before bringing it up. She might not even realize that she's into it until you show her how it's done.

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Why do I get beaten up when I try this?

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Because we live in a time where a lot of people are still unfortunately uncomfortable with anything outside of the gender binary, and some of those people feel like it's acceptable to act out their discomfort on others using violence.

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I want to be a feminized sissy. How do I find a girl that likes to feminize me?

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You can search online for people in your community who would be okay with that.

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Can this work with girls as well?

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Both girls and boys can be cross-dressers. Cross-dressers mean exactly what it sounds like: dressing as the opposite gender.

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How should I find someone who would feminize me?

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Try to talk with some of your girl friends and ask you to give you some tips.. Also, if there is someone you really trust, ask them to help you find someone who´ll enjoy helping you. Sometimes the right person is nearer than they seem.

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What about middle aged cross dresser? Will these tips work for them too or do you have another approach for this age group.

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It would be slightly different because middle aged women seek different things in men and middle aged men have a different mindset. That said, it is your life and if these things are appealing to you, go for it and enjoy yourself.

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Where can I find someone to date?

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Search Tinder or contact an LGBTQ+ group in your area for advice.

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I'm so close to asking my cousin to help me with my cross-dressing and looking more feminine, but I still think she will talk, that's what can't happen. I really want to tell her I'm into guys. What should I do?

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The only true way to keep a secret is if no one knows it exists. If you want to hide a chest full of gold, don't just keep it a secret that there's gold in it, keep the existence of the secret itself secret. Therefore, if you tell your cousin, you tell the world. Sure, you can and should ask her to respect your privacy and keep it secret; who knows, she might even do it. But you're likely wanting to tell her not because you need help cross-dressing, but because you want to tell someone who you are. That's fine. My advice? Go for it; trust your cousin.

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I am a cross-dresser who wants to date men, am I wrong?

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No, you are not wrong at all. People have preferences and that is completely okay. Love who you love!

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