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What if they have a crush on another person and you have a crush on them?

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You can try to make them notice you using these steps. They may develop feelings for you instead.

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How do I make someone that I have a crush on view me as "girlfriend" material?

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Up your confidence and interact with them regularly. Don't be shy. Talk to them and make a few flirtatious remarks (but avoid sexual innuendo). Be yourself. If they don't get the message after a while, just tell them how you feel about them.

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I have a crush on this guy, and he is always staring at me, but I think he is talking to another girl. What should I do?

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You can try making casual small talk. Eventually, you may learn whether or not he's dating the other girl. If he isn't, try doing things like casual flirting to get his attention.

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Do you think this would work for an ex who is still a friend?

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It might, it depends on the situation. You might also want to read the article on How to Get Your Ex Back .

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What do I do if I am very nervous about talking to them?

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Try to be more confident, as the article states. People tend to be more attracted to self-confidence, so try to talk normally like you would with close friends or close family.

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A guy I like seems to be interested in me, but he hasn't asked me out. What should I do to get him to take that step?

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Discuss feelings with him, past crushes and relationships. Hint that you are into him. Hopefully he will open up and ask you out, or tell you how he feels about you.

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How do I know if someone likes me?

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They will show signs that they are into you.

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I'm very shy, and so is my crush. We barely ever talk, even though we have some classes together. How can I approach him?

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Just follow the steps in the article. If you are allowed to sit anywhere you want, then sit somewhere near him so you can chat. You'll never get anywhere if you're both too shy to make a move, so just put yourself out there. Get to know him better.

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I have a crush on this kid but I don’t know if they like me back because my friends try to get us together but I always deny it. What should I do?

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When like your friends ask "Oh do you like them?" be flirty and casual and be like "Maybe" and smile when you do it. Use a very flirty, interested tone with your voice. Just try to be conversational with whomever is your crush. Also, add in a little flirt with most things you say. Over flirting can make the other person uncomfortable.

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