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    How can you tell if your partner is comfortable with public displays of affection?
    Lauren Sanders
    Matchmaker & Dating Coach
    Lauren Sanders is a Professional Matchmaker, Dating Coach, and the Founder of Dating for the Soul. With over four years of experience, she specializes in helping singles find love. Lauren is also the author of Lipstick Faith: A Collection of Inspirational Writings and Life Lessons, You Deserve the World, Rainbows and Strawberries: 100 Devotions for the Brighter Side of Life, and Let's Go Outside Mommy. Lauren holds BS from Dillard University and a Masters from The University of North Georgia.
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    You can tell that your partner is okay with PDA if they feel at ease when you touch them. For instance, they'll never push you away or act as if you're bothering them when you lean in for affection (like a hug, kiss, etc.). They may also initiate public affection without you having to always initiate it (or they may even initiate it more than you). They will also appear happy about it. A person who like PDA enjoys doing it, and it's never a hassle or burden for them to show that they like you in front of other people.
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    Can my boyfriend and I hold hands in church when we are both 15?
    Community Answer
    That depends on various people's opinions: parents and church officials in particular. Some people would have no problem with that. Others might find it inappropriate. Ask the people you care about.
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    Is it okay to do PDA with a co-worker in front of your CEO?
    Max Wolf
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    It might be better to save your affection for outside of work, as your boss might not be too fond of your display of affection. Giving a quick hug or a kiss on the cheek may be acceptable but keep your PDA to a minimum, and keep it professional so as not to let your partner distract you from work.
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    I’m not much of a physical touch fan but my partner loves it. What physical touch gestures can I do in public with him?
    Max Wolf
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    hold his hand and caress his arm. With not too much touching you'll make him feel special, even if you're not as clingy as your partner. Hug him more often and longer than you would friends or family. (Seven seconds is a good rule of thumb.)
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    Is hugging your best guy friend on your birthday PDA?
    Max Wolf
    Community Answer
    Yes and no. While hugging is a form of PDA, you are more concerned about your gesture implying something romantic. Hugs can be platonic as well as romantic. Giving him a hug on a special occasion would probably not be interpreted as anything more than a friendly gesture.
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    Is hugging allowed in school?
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    It depends on the school. Most schools are probably okay with it, but if a teacher or supervisor says anything, you might want to show your affection away from school.
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