10 Ways a Pisces Man Shows He's Sexually Interested

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Learn how to tell if a Pisces man is into you

Co-authored by Angel Eyedealism and Jennifer Mueller, JD

Last Updated: September 27, 2024 Fact Checked

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Ways a Pisces Man Shows Attraction

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Attracting a Pisces Man

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Pisces Compatibility

You've got your eye on that dreamy, creative Pisces—but is he sexually attracted to you? It can be tough to tell with this water sign, especially since he's a true romantic who doesn't differentiate between feelings of sex and love. That's why we talked to astrologer Angel Eyedealism and psychic astrologer Stina Garbis to get the low-down on how you can tell if a Pisces man is sexually attracted to you—plus, what you can do to capture his interest.

Signs of Pisces Male Sexual Attraction

If a Pisces guy is sexually attracted to you, he'll pour on the romance. The dreamers of the zodiac, Pisces fellas have a hard time separating love and sex—they'd rather have both! Expect him to woo you with flowers and grand romantic gestures.

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Ways a Pisces Man Shows Attraction

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He smiles whenever he sees you. That sweet, gentle smile that lights up a Pisces guy's face is a good sign that he's sexually attracted to you. He knows that he feels good whenever he's around you and looks forward to seeing you whenever he can.
- He also smiles to communicate to you that he's friendly and wants to get to know you better. Pisces guys typically aren't the type to just jump in the sack with someone without knowing them on a deeper level first.
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He sits close and always faces you. When you're having a conversation with a Pisces guy who's sexually attracted to you, he's going to focus entirely on you. He sits close enough to create a private bubble of personal space around the two of you so that you'll feel more at ease.
- He also wants you to know that he's seriously interested in whatever you have to say. A Pisces man loves to dive deeply into the heart and soul of anyone he gets worked up about.
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His gaze lingers on you. You know a Pisces guy is into you if he literally can't tear his eyes away from you. From across a crowded room, he'll return to you even if his attention is pulled in a different direction. When you're one-on-one, you'll feel like you're the only person in the room.
- Pisces men have a reputation for being a bit shy, so it's likely you'll feel his gaze from across the room for a while before he actually engages you in conversation.
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He makes an effort to touch you. If he's sexually attracted to you, he won't be able to keep his hands off of you any more than he can keep his eyes off of you. You might notice this in the way he seems to "accidentally" bump into you a lot or the way he suddenly needs to tap you to get your attention every few minutes.
- When the two of you are engaged in conversation, the touches may become more lingering. For example, he might grab your arm to make a point and then let his hand rest there.
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He laughs at all of your jokes. A Pisces guy has a great sense of humor. But if he's sexually attracted to you, that means he's going to laugh at all of your jokes—even the groaners that aren't actually that funny. He just wants to show you how much he appreciates you (and your sense of humor).
- If you really want to test this, you might try intentionally making a cringe-worthy pun to see if you can still get a laugh out of him.
Pisces is an emotional and creative sign. When a Pisces guy is attracted to you, he lets you know all of the things he likes about you. If there's any part of you that catches his eye, he'll make sure you know about it. And don't be surprised if he praises you to other people as well.
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He frequently starts deep conversations with you. A Pisces guy typically isn't one for small talk, preferring to dive into the deep end of the conversational pool and never leave. If he's attracted to you, he'll ask probing questions about your thoughts and feelings on a wide range of topics. ^{[1]
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- Pisces men are typically pretty shy, so the fact that he's initiating a conversation with you is a sign of his interest in and of itself.
- Pisces guys also tend to be pretty engaged conversationalists. If you get on a topic you're both into, the two of you could easily talk for hours.
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He treats you with tenderness and concern. Pisces men are sensitive, gentle people who genuinely care about the people they like. If he's attracted to you, it will seem like he's constantly looking out for you and making sure that you're doing well and your needs are being met. If there's any kind of problem, he'll do whatever he can to help you.
- According to psychic astrologer Stina Garbis, if a Pisces man likes you "he will ask all the time, 'Are you okay?'" In this way, he shows that he's concerned about you and your well-being.
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He goes out of his way to free up time for you. When a Pisces man is into you, he wants to spend as much time with you as possible. He might even rearrange his schedule just so that he can cross paths with you more often.
- For example, if he sees you one day at a neighborhood café and you mention that you come there every morning after your run, don't be surprised if you start seeing him there every morning.
- Psychic astrologer Stina Garbis agrees that if a Pisces man is attracted to you, "he will show up for you and make an effort to see you. If he keeps coming around and you see him all the time he is most likely into you."
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He sends you flowers and little love notes. A Pisces man is about as romantic as they come, so you can be sure he's sexually attracted to you if he's wooing you old-school style. He loves for his romances to be picture-perfect, so he's going to pull out all of the stops to make sure you are swept off of your feet by his gestures.
- Pisces guys are also pretty creative, so you can expect him to come up with some unique ways to show you that he's interested in you.

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Attracting a Pisces Man

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Highlight and emphasize your femininity. Soft, flowy fabrics and muted pastels create the kind of aesthetic a Pisces guy typically goes for. Choose beautiful, creative pieces that drape loosely over your curves and he won't be able to take his eyes off of you.
- Astrologer Angel Eyedealism agrees that a Pisces man usually wants "a very sensitive, feminine type of partner... somebody who is... displaying their sensitivity and creativity in some way." So this could be through how you dress or through how you move through the world.
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Show him your vulnerable side. Sensitive Pisces fellas thrive on vulnerability. They love feeling as though others feel safe and comfortable opening up to them and expressing their innermost thoughts, fears, and desires. He also loves to feel as though you're telling him something that most other people don't know about you.
- He'll likely grow more attracted to you if you lead him to believe that he understands you better than anyone else does. He'll feel incredibly honored that you let him into the depths of your soul.
- Reader Poll: We asked 307 wikiHow readers what they, as a Pisces, value most in a relationship, and 58% of them said loyalty. [Take Poll] So, he’ll likely appreciate that you trust him enough to share your true feelings with him.
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Tell him how special he is. If you're really into him, let him know! Pisces guys love compliments, so if you tell him all the things you love about him, he'll be eating out of the palm of your hand. Focus on how safe and comfortable you feel with him as well as how gentle and loving he is.
- If you emphasize the things that he feels proud of about himself, he'll feel as though you really understand him, which will likely increase his attraction towards you.
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Confide in him about your feelings and emotions. Opening up emotionally is one of the most important things you can do if you want to attract a Pisces man. For him, emotions are more important than reason and this is the best way to get to know someone and understand them better.
- Astrologer Angel Eyedealism notes that this is very important for Pisces men because "they're all about vibes and instincts and feelings." A Pisces guy typically isn't going to hop into bed with anyone unless he feels like he has an emotional connection with them.
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Give him an opportunity to help you. Pisces guys love to help people out and feel useful so this is a good way to get him thinking about you. He's likely to wonder if the fact that you actually asked him for help means that you're thinking about him in a romantic or sexual way.
- Psychic astrologer Stina Garbis notes that this is a good way to tell if a Pisces man likes you, because "he will do things for you. He will try to be your friend and will do things in hopes that you open up to him."
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Demonstrate your compassion for others. Pisces guys are super compassionate and expect anybody they get involved with to be compassionate as well. Talk about your volunteer work or a nonprofit organization that you support.
- For example, if the two of you are having coffee at a café, you might buy a coffee and a donut for an unhoused person sitting outside on the sidewalk.
- Astrologer Angel Eyedealism emphasizes that with Pisces, "it would be more that you are a compassionate person, that you're a sensitive person, that you try to relate to them."

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Pisces Compatibility

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Water signs (Pisces, Cancer, Scorpio) All water signs are great matches for a Pisces guy. Because they're all emotional signs, they tend to understand each other on an intuitive level. They simply flow together until you can't tell where one ends and the other begins—an ideal state for the Pisces guy, who prefers to merge with his lover. ^{[2]
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- Pisces is often most attracted to Scorpio . Scorpios have a reputation for being very private and mysterious, which makes Pisces guys feel really special when they finally let them in.
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Earth signs (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn) Pisces guys tend to form deep connections with earth signs. He's naturally attracted to strong women and earth sign ladies have that tenacity and resilience he admires. They're also very down-to-earth and practical, which can help ground his tendency to float off into the realm of fantasy.
- Astrologer Angel Eyedealism notes that of all the earth signs, Pisces is perhaps most compatible "with their opposite sign Virgo because Virgo... is also a fluid sign."
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Air signs (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius) Pisces can have difficulty understanding air signs. He's all emotion and they're all rational logic, so might be too cold for the Pisces guy's taste. But if they do make a connection, Pisces can lead his air sign lady into a deeper emotional connection while she helps him better express his feelings.
- Aquarius is perhaps the biggest standout here. Natives of both signs are deeply visionary humanitarians, so they'll often have the same interests and values—and that can be a foundation for a beautiful relationship.
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Fire signs (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius) When a Pisces guy and a fire sign woman meet, it's a case of opposites attracting. Pisces is all about dreams and fantasies while fire signs are all about taking action in the real world. He also might find air signs to be a bit too brash for his sensitive nature. But Pisces can help a fire sign woman infuse more emotions into her potent blend of sexuality. ^{[3]
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- Of all the fire signs, Pisces is most likely to connect with Sagittarius . They're both spiritually inclined and have a great love of art and beauty, which can translate into a loving and potentially steamy relationship.

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