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How do you know if he's flirting or just being friendly?

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A flirty guy will offer you compliments and try to initiate physical contact. Plus, he'll give you extra attention instead of treating you like one of the guys.

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How do I know if I am on a date?

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Laura Bilotta is a Dating Coach, Matchmaker, and the Founder of Single in the City, her dating and relationship coaching service based in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. With over 18 years of experience, she focuses on helping singles date more intentionally, encouraging them to let go of negative patterns so that they can attract the love that they deserve. Her experience, skills, and insights have led to thousands of successfully united over 65,000 singles through events and one-on-one matchmaking coaching sessions. She has been the host of The Dating and Relationship Show on Global News Radio 640 Toronto (AM640) for 6 years and is known as The Hookup Queen of Clubhouse; her popular singles club, Single in the City, has over 95.5K members who regularly join in weekly dating and relationship-focused rooms.

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You're probably on a date if your meet-up was scheduled in advance. It probably isn't a date if you made a last-minute decision to catch-up because you both had nothing better to do.

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So is it flirting to have a sexual relationship with a person you are not in love with?

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Generally, if you're having sex, you've moved past flirting. There's nothing wrong about having sex with someone you don't love as long as both parties understand the nature of the relationship. If the other person thinks you're in a committed, loving relationship when you're not, you're leading them on and abusing their feelings for you.

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A girl who has a boyfriend may be flirting with me. What do I do?

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It's your choice as to whether or not you do anything. If you are uncomfortable with the situation, let the girl know.

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A boy always holds eye contact with me and he touches my shoulder. What does that mean?

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That could be flirting, or it could be that person's version of friendly interaction. If you want to know if he's flirting, ask him.

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If a boy says I'm weird and then smiles at me, what does that mean?

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That could mean any number of things. It may be a flirtatious behavior, but it could also be friendly. If you're confused, ask him if he's flirting with you.

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