How to Attract a Taurus Woman

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Taurus women (born April 19 - May 20) are known for being strong, loyal, and loving. It’s no wonder you’re captivated by one! If you’ve got your eye on a special Taurus woman in your life, you’ve come to the right place. We’ve compiled a complete guide on how to woo a Taurus woman, complete with expert advice from astrologers Stina Garbis and Angel Eyedealism. Keep reading for everything you need to know to win her heart!

How to Engage a Taurus Woman

Taurus women appreciate stability, so be consistent, honest, and dependable when wooing her. Sweep her off her feet with classic romantic gestures, like a bouquet of roses or a fancy candlelit dinner. As things get more serious, show her you share her values and that you’re committed to building a future with her.

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Wooing a Taurus Woman

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  1. As a steady earth sign, Taurus women usually want something real—not a casual romance or a short-lived fling. They can also be shy or reserved at first. [1] Because of these things, Taurus women tend to be pretty intentional about the people they date, and they won’t let just anyone into their circle. If you want to grab her attention, put in the time to get to know her slowly. This will show her you’re serious about her!
    • Don't worry about getting too deep into the friend zone—because Tauruses value trust and reliability so much, it can actually work in your favor if you two start out as friends . [2]
    • If you start to feel like she’s making an effort to hang out with you, you’re in a good place.
    • “Taurus tends to keep their social circle small, and it's hard to break in. If a Taurus is going out of their way to spend time with you and is trying to invite you into that circle, then that is a sign that there's some interest,” Garbis explains. [3]
  2. Taurus is ruled by Venus, the planet of love, so it’s no surprise that Taurus women appreciate an old-school romantic gesture. [4] Try things like bringing her a beautiful bouquet of flowers, writing her a sweet letter, holding doors open for her, or giving her a kiss on the cheek when you say goodbye. These chivalrous, romantic actions can definitely go a long way to get her thinking about you.
    • If you’re buying her flowers, try to pick something on the higher-end side. Their ruling planet Venus is also associated with beauty and wealth, so Taureans are suckers for luxurious gifts, explains Garbis. [5]
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  3. Due to their connection to Venus, Taurus women have a deep appreciation for beauty and aesthetics. They’re also very sensual, so they respond well to soft textures and nice smells . Because of this, a well thought-out outfit and a luxurious fragrance can definitely make you more attractive to a Taurus, Garbis explains. [6]
    • “Dress your very best in nice textiles and patterns. Wear silk ties and luxurious suits made of soft fabric. She likes touching and is drawn towards fancy fabrics and patterns. Make your hair touchable, and don’t load it with too much product—she likes running her fingers through hair, so make sure it’s not gunky,” Garis suggests.
    • “Wearing expensive cologne will make her go crazy, and she is into status symbols, so wear a nice watch and bring roses to the first date,” Garbis adds. [7]
  4. Garbis explains that the best way to a sensual Taurus’s heart is through her stomach. “They love food and would enjoy a savory home-cooked meal,” says Garbis. [8] And, since Tauruses are also suckers for luxury, “she would be extra impressed if you invited her to a very expensive restaurant,” Eyedealism adds. [9]
    • If you do decide to cook her a meal at home, make sure to appeal to all her senses with your decor and ambiance. Luxurious scented candles , mood lighting, beautiful flowers, and nice place settings on your table are all key!
  5. Luxury-loving Taurus always appreciates a nice gift. Tauruses also love to make their living spaces a cozy sanctuary, so home decor items make amazing presents for them. “Getting a richly scented candle or a fancy pillow would be a good choice,” says Garbis. [10]
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Deepening Your Relationship with a Taurus Woman

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  1. A no-nonsense Taurus woman doesn’t respond well when people play hard-to-get. “Tauruses don’t want to run, and they don’t want to jump through hoops or chase,” says Garbis. [11] Don’t be all over her one day and indifferent the next. She won’t appreciate this inconsistency, and it may drive her to end things. If you really like her, being direct and honest about it from the get-go is the best course of action.
  2. A Taurus woman “wants to know that you’re loyal, and they’re not really trusting,” says Eyedealism. [12] So, if you “show them that you’ll show up…they’re more likely to fall in love with you,” she says. [13]
    • Don’t be flaky. Show up on time to your dates, and don’t cancel plans at the last minute. If you absolutely have to be late or reschedule, make sure to communicate this with her as early as you can so she doesn’t think you’re blowing her off.
    • Stick to your word. If you say you’re going to do something for her, follow through and do it. When you’re true to your word, she’s more likely to trust you and see you as a reliable potential partner.
  3. Eyedealism explains that a Taurus woman likes stability and tends to be very traditional, so she wants a partner who will work toward these ideals with her. [14] If you show her that you’re on the same page about things like financial security, career goals, buying a house, and planning your lives out together, she’s much more likely to see a future with you, says Eyedealism. [15]
    • Show off your ambitious side when you’re around her. Let her know what you’re hoping to achieve in your career, or mention the projects you’re working on that you’re passionate about. She'll want to know more about your plans and goals!
  4. A sensual Taurus usually prefers a lot of touch in romantic relationships. [16] If you want to make her feel super connected to you, try going out of your way to show her physical affection . Snuggling, holding hands, putting your arm around her, hugging, and kissing are all great ways to melt a Taurus’s heart.
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Making It Last with a Taurus Woman

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  1. “Taurus is a fixed sign and is the stubborn bull. It’s hard to get a fixed bull to move unless it really wants to move,” says Garbis. [18] As a result, Taurus women have a reputation for being a bit set in their ways, and it’s hard to get them to change their opinion about something (even when they’re wrong). If you’re building a long-term relationship with a Taurus woman, you’ll need to be patient with her when she’s showing her bull-headed side. [19]
    • Luckily, there's also a super positive side to Taurus's fixed nature—it makes her very strong in her convictions, and she has no problem standing up for what's right.
  2. Known for their tendency to be homebodies at times, Taurus women are more likely to want a cozy night in than a crazy night out on the town. [20] If you’re in it for the long haul with a Taurus woman, understand that she prefers safety and security, and she isn’t huge on taking risks or doing wild, spontaneous things.
    • No, she's not super adventurous, and she doesn't get caught up in fantasy land. What's wrong with that? She lives in the real world and has real things that matter to her.
    • Some people may see her desire for stability as boring, but it also makes her incredibly dependable, steady, and hard-working. These are all major attributes!
  3. Yes, Taurus women are dependable, loyal, reliable, and sweet — but that doesn't mean you can mess with her. She's also very into respect and treating others as they deserve to be treated. So, if you aim to manipulate or use her, she'll show you the door. Taurus’s symbol is the bull, and those horns of hers can be quite pointy if you do something that causes her to charge at you! [21]
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    Reverend Stina Garbis is a Psychic Astrologer and the Owner of Psychic Stina. With over 30 years of experience, she specializes in providing personal and professional advice through astrology and tarot card readings. Reverend Stina has experience working with high-profile celebrities, sports figures, politicians, and CEOs. She has been featured in many publications, including Bustle, Vice, The New York Post, and Readers’ Digest and she also has a 200k+ following on TikTok. Stina holds an Ordained Minister License from The International Metaphysical Ministry University Seminary.
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    Tauruses have a tendency to hold grudges. So if you did something pretty bad, you may have a hard time finding forgiveness from this Bull. Don't try to talk your way out of it or appeal to their emotions—you're better off appealing to their physical senses, through food and physical touch.

  4. Once you've got her, try your hardest to treat her as well as she treats you. Taurus women are known for being incredibly loyal, patient, and trustworthy partners. If she falls in love with you, she’ll stand by you and show up for you no matter what. Pay her back by matching this energy! [22]
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Taurus Woman Fast Facts

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  1. “Due to their fixed earth natures, Tauruses tend to be loyal, materialistic, stable, financially secure, honest, and sometimes stubborn," says Garbis. "Being ruled by Venus also brings out a highly sensual and physically affectionate side that is very tactile. They enjoy luxury, the best of everything, and having luxurious houses filled with velvet and satin and lots of pillows and fine art." [23] Here’s a quick breakdown:
    • Element: Earth
    • Modality: Fixed
    • Planet: Venus
    • Symbol: The Bull
    • Most Compatible Signs: Virgo, Capricorn, Pisces, Cancer, Scorpio, Libra
    • Keywords: strong, persevering, stable, steady, stubborn, dependable, reliable, sensual [24]

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    Dress your very best in nice textiles and patterns. They like touching and are drawn towards fancy fabrics and patterns. Also, they like running their fingers through hair, so don't load it with too much product.
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    They tend to keep their social circle small and restricted to family and a few friends. If a Taurus is going out of their way to spend any time with you, trying to invite you into that circle, then that is a sign that there's some interest.
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      • Reassure her with genuine compliments, attention and displays of loyalty. Betraying her trust means losing her for good. Tauruses take commitment very seriously.
      • Understand her traditional, pragmatic ways. She seeks a stabilizing partnership. Support her interests and you’ll discover a deeply caring, devoted companion.
      • Let intimacy build slowly with gentle affection at first. Draw out foreplay extensively until the passion is unbearable. This sensual sign loves to be seduced.
      • Be patient winning her affections. Rushing a Taurus woman overwhelms her. Build trust gradually through dependability and small thoughtful gestures over time.
      • Plan creative date ideas like concerts, museums, or wine tastings. Engaging her artistic nature and love of fine things will draw her interest.
      • Cook a simple but elegant meal utilizing quality ingredients to please her refined sensibilities. Candlelight and flowers also set the mood.
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