How to Throw Ashes in the Ocean

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If you're hoping to scatter ashes into the ocean to honor a loved one, there are a few rules to keep in mind to ensure it goes smoothly. According to the US EPA (Environmental Protection Agency), you should spread the ashes at least 3 nautical miles from land. By using a boat to travel out into the ocean and making sure you're using environmentally-safe containers, the ashes will find their resting spot in the ocean.

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Following Proper Protocol

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    This is stated by the US EPA, meaning you can’t just stand on the shore and scatter ashes into the breaking waves. While each state has its own rules and regulations, traveling at least 3 nautical miles away from the shore is what the US EPA expects you to do. [1]
    • For example, in California you need to be at least 500 yards (460 m) from the shore to scatter ashes, while the water has to be 1,800 feet (550 m) deep for you to scatter them in Florida.
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    To get at least 3 nautical miles from shore, you’ll need to either use your own boat or borrow someone else’s. You can charter a boat operator for a couple hours, and there are even boat operators that specialize in the scattering of ashes. [2]
    • Make sure the boat is big enough to fit all of the people planning on attending.
    • Go online to find options for boat rentals near your chosen destination.
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    Anything you’re putting in the water has to be able to decompose. If the container you’re using isn’t decomposable, you’ll need to bring it with you back to shore. [3]
    • Things such as plastic or metal flowers, tombs, gravestones, and monuments aren’t allowed to be released in the water.
    • You can release flowers into the water, but they should be able to easily decompose.
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    This is one of the rules the US EPA states, and they require that you fill out a form to tell them the details of the event. The form asks for information such as the name of the deceased, the date the scattering took place, and the location of the spreading. [4]
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Packaging the Ashes

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    While this container will ideally be environmentally-safe, it's okay if it's just a plastic bag or something similar if you bring the container back to shore with you. Avoid bringing a material that will break easily, such as glass. [5]
    • If you don't plan on distributing all of the ashes, remove a portion from their original container before the trip and leave the rest.
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    It’s best if you do this before coming together with everyone. You can separate them into plastic bags, cups, or any other kind of small container. Just make sure you don’t dispose of them in the water unless they will decompose. [6]
    • Know how many people will be spreading the ashes ahead of time so you have the right amount of containers.
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    If you want the ashes placed in the ocean without having to physically spread them, you can purchase a water-soluble urn. After you place the urn in the water, it will dissolve and scatter the ashes in the water. [7]
    • Do a quick online search to find urns that will dissolve in the water.
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Spreading Ashes in the Ocean

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    Check which way the wind is blowing before spreading the ashes. While you’re on the boat, position yourself upwind so that your back is against the breeze. This way, when you scatter the ashes the wind won’t blow them back in your direction. [8]
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    If there are only a couple people involved in the spreading of ashes, you can bring one container and use a small shovel or scoop to distribute them. For more people, using cups is an easy way to spread the ashes individually. [9]
    • Fill the cups with ashes before getting on the boat to avoid having to separate them in cramped quarters or windy conditions.
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    Ashes are sterile and won’t harm you if ingested, making them completely safe to handle with your hands. If you do use your hands to spread them, bring a towel or napkin to wipe your hands off afterwards so you don't have to wipe the ashes all over your clothing. [10]
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      References

      1. ↑ https://www.epa.gov/ocean-dumping/burial-sea
      2. ↑ https://www.epa.gov/ocean-dumping/burial-sea
      3. ↑ https://www.epa.gov/ocean-dumping/burial-sea
      4. ↑ https://www.epa.gov/ocean-dumping/burial-sea
      5. ↑ http://modernloss.com/will-bones/
      6. ↑ https://www.everplans.com/articles/how-to-scatter-ashes
      7. ↑ https://www.everplans.com/articles/how-to-scatter-ashes
      8. ↑ http://modernloss.com/will-bones/
      9. ↑ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qOcs1MdjgCE
      1. ↑ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qOcs1MdjgCE

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