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It’s your best friend’s birthday! You’ve got your present, the cake, and plans for the day, but now you have to think of the perfect birthday message to send them. You probably feel all kinds of love and affection for your bestie, but how can you sum up all of those feelings in just one message? There’s no need to worry! We’ve come up with a bunch of touching birthday messages to inspire you. The important thing is that you write from your heart and make this message your own.
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Send them something short and sweet. You don’t need to write a novel to wish your bestie the happiest of birthdays. A short and sweet message paired with a thoughtful gift or a day spent together will be just as memorable and touching. [1] X Research source
- “Happy birthday to my best friend for life! 🎉🥳”
- “Sending the warmest wishes to you on this special day.”
- “Today is your special day, bestie! Let’s make the most of it.”
- “Happiest of birthdays to one of the most amazing people I know.”
- “Happy birthday! May all your wishes come true!”
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Send them lots of love on their special day. Remind them just how much you love and appreciate them with some touching words. Your heartwarming message will most definitely tug at their heartstrings and let them know just how much they mean to you.
- “Wishing you nothing but love and happiness on this special day.”
- “I know I don’t say it enough, but I love you, bestie! 🥰”
- “Sending you all the love in the entire world on your big day!”
- “I love and cherish you more than words could even describe ❤️”
- “On your birthday this year, I hope you know just how loved you are by everyone around you.”
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Remind them that they’re a one-of-a-kind best friend. Take this time to tell your friend just how special they truly are. They’re unique and make the world so much better because of it. Remind them that a friend like them is truly irreplaceable.
- “Your birthday should be a national holiday because you’re just that wonderful!”
- “Out of all the best friends in the world, it’s no secret that I have the best one!”
- “A best friend only comes once in a lifetime. I’m so happy I was able to find you.”
- “Best friends are like rare gems 💎 And you’re the most precious of them all.”
- “Today’s a day to celebrate you and what makes you special.”
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Reminisce about the good old days. You two probably have your fair share of funny, sweet, sad, and exciting memories together. Take them on a trip down memory lane as you look back on all the time you spent together. Your past is what led you to today, so tell them just how much you’ve cherished every single moment.
- “Whenever I think of the best moments from my life, you’re always there.”
- “I can’t believe that we’ve been friends for 10 years already 😮 Time really does fly when you’re having fun.”
- “When we met, I just knew that we would be best friends for life 😘”
- “We’ve sure had our share of ups and downs, but I’m just happy we could do it all together.”
- “From the day I met you, my life has been so much brighter. Thanks for being my best friend!”
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Let them know how you want to celebrate their big day. Your friend’s birthday should definitely be a day full of festivities, whether you’re celebrating together or not. If you get to spend some time together, up the excitement by telling them everything you plan on doing to make the day extra special. If you’re not able to get together just yet, then give them some suggestions about what they can do on their big day.
- “Happy birthday! 🎉🎊🎂 Let’s eat lots of cake and have lots of fun!”
- “It’s your birthday! Eat good food, spend time with family, and relax!”
- “Today is all about you! Your wish is my command.”
- “Let’s celebrate today by making new memories and adding another adventure to the book.”
- “What better way to spend your birthday than with me, your best friend in the whole wide world?”
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Tell them how much better they’ve made your life. Sometimes we don’t truly realize how big of an impact we’ve had on the people around us. Take this time to remind them just how much their friendship has changed your life for the better.
- “You’ve made me realize that anything is possible when you put your mind to it.”
- “It's because I have such a wonderful best friend that I feel so happy every single day 😚”
- “I don’t even remember what my life was like before I met you. You’re one of the best things to have happened to me.”
- “Thanks to you, I now know what it means to be a great friend.”
- “Your presence makes everyone around you so much happier. It’s truly an honor to have someone like you in my life.”
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Send them good wishes for the upcoming year. With every birthday comes a new year full of endless possibilities and opportunities. Wish your bestie all the best things in your birthday message to them. Good health, good luck, and great friendships are just some of the birthday wishes you might send their way.
- “Wishing you love, happiness, and laughter today and every day after 💛”
- “Sending you all of my positive thoughts on your special day!”
- “Here’s to a year full of growth and finding your place in this crazy big universe.”
- “Happy birthday, and may this next year bring you nothing but the best!”
- “You deserve all of the presents and cake today, and all of the love and happiness every day.”
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Tell them everything that makes them so amazing. This is your chance to shower them with all the compliments. Think of every single thing you love about them and put it in your message. Their humor, kindness, wisdom, and reliability; mention every single thing as you wish them a happy birthday.
- “There’s no one more kind and caring than you. Happy birthday to the loveliest person in the world.”
- “I wish everyone was able to have a best friend who’s as lovely and sweet as you 🥰”
- “You’re one of the funniest and craziest people I know. Thanks for always bringing a smile to my face.”
- “No one understands me better than you. Your friendship is the best thing that’s ever happened to me.
- “HBD to the most trustworthy and reliable friend a person could ask for.”
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Send them a funny message to make them laugh. Touching messages don’t have to be serious. Why not make them smile (and possibly laugh until they cry) with something funny to make their day even brighter? [2] X Research source
- “May all your birthday wishes come true…unless they’re illegal. In that case, may SOME of your birthday wishes come true.”
- “I would’ve gotten you a present, but we all know there’s nothing better than my friendship! 😚😘”
- “Happy birthday! Remember to smile awkwardly while everyone sings to you 😬”
- “Research has proven that people who have more birthdays live longer. Happy birthday!”
- “Here’s to another year of questionable life decisions! 🤠”
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Remind them just how old they are with a witty joke. Let’s face it, most of us don’t really enjoy getting older. But that doesn’t mean we can’t joke about it. Send them a lighthearted joke that’ll make them chuckle and remind them that turning one year older isn’t all that bad.
- “You’re like a fine cheese. You just get better as you age.”
- “Count your blessings, not your wrinkles.”
- “I’d say we’re going to party until the sun rises, but I know you usually like to go to bed around 9 😉”
- “When you think about it, getting older just means that you’re closer to getting all those senior citizen discounts!”
- “We might need a fire extinguisher to help blow out all these candles! 😂 Happy birthday!”
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Thank them for always being there for you. A best friend is someone who stays by your side through thick and thin. Show your gratitude to your bestie for sticking with you even when times were a bit tough and remind them just how important their presence is in your life.
- “If there’s one person I know I can always count on, it’s definitely you.”
- “Thank you for sticking by my side through all the ups and downs.”
- “I’m so happy I got to share so many fun and crazy adventures with you ❤️”
- “When times were tough, you were always there to lift me up. I couldn’t be more thankful for having such an amazing friend like you.”
- “I know nothing in the universe could shake a bond as strong as ours.”
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List out the reasons you admire them. A best friend isn’t just a close companion, but they’re also someone who makes us want to be better and work to be our best selves every day. Don’t be shy and use this message to write about everything they do that makes you look up to them.
- “Happy birthday to the person who isn’t afraid to forge their own path.”
- “I’m always so inspired when I watch you chase after your dreams. Keep running and don’t look back.”
- “Keep being your amazing self, no matter what anyone else says 😊”
- “Happiest of birthdays to the person who motivates me to be my best self every day.”
- “I admire your strength even when times get tough. I know that this next year will bring nothing but great things for you.”
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Pass down your own bits of wisdom. You probably also have some wise words to share after going through your own unique experiences. Take this as an opportunity to give them some advice or just some encouraging words as they enter a brand new year.
- “I’ve learned that there’s really no need to worry about getting older. The important thing is that we cherish every single moment.”
- “Don’t count the years that have passed. Count your blessings and all the happy memories 💛”
- “Just because you’re one year older doesn’t mean you can’t live like you’re young.”
- “On your birthday, I hope you can look to the future with excitement instead of looking back on the past with longing.”
- “The moment you were born, you had the entire world at your fingertips. Keep running towards your dreams.”
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Include a touching quote. Just like you and me, famous people also have birthdays, and many of them have left some pretty profound words for us to reflect on. Send your best friend one of these deep and heartfelt quotes to make them feel truly touched on their special day.
- “Today you are you! That is truer than true! There is no one alive who is you-er than you!” - Dr. Seuss
- “Every year on your birthday, you get a chance to start new.” - Sammy Hagar
- “There are two great days in a person's life - the day we are born and the day we discover why.” - William Barclay
- “The greatest gift of life is friendship, and I have received it.” - Hubert H. Humphrey
- “Count your age by friends, not years. Count your life by smiles, not tears.” - John Lennon
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Let them know you’re excited for the many years to come. Even though you have a lot to celebrate in the present, go ahead and mention just how equally excited you are for all the birthdays that have yet to come. A friendship like yours will probably last for a long time, so reassure them that you’ll be by their side for every single one of their special days.
- “We’ve celebrated many birthdays together, and I can’t wait to celebrate even more! 😘”
- “Happy birthday! I can’t wait to see what this year has in store for us.”
- “Even when you turn 100, I know that we’ll still be the bestest of friends.”
- “With every birthday, I feel like our friendship just gets stronger 🥰 Happy birthday to my favorite person!”
- “A true friend sticks around when times get tough. You’ve shown me that you’re in it for the long haul, and I can’t wait to see what the future holds for us.”
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Tell them that they deserve only the best of birthdays. They’re your best friend, so they deserve nothing short of the best, right? This is a day when they get to be the center of attention, so go ahead and tell them just that.
- “Wishing my bestie all the best things on your birthday! 🎉🎉”
- “You deserve a birthday fit for a king/queen.”
- “Today’s your special day. Whatever you say goes, and I’m excited to be there for every single moment.”
- “Wishing you only good things, positive vibes, and happiness on this momentous day!”
- “It’s your birthday! Let’s make today a day we’ll remember forever!”
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Remind them how much you appreciate them. Honestly, they probably already know, but it never hurts to say it again. Make your message all the more touching by writing down your honest thoughts and feelings when it comes to your appreciation for your best friend. [3] X Research source
- “Getting to celebrate your birthday with you is probably the second-best thing to happen to me. Right after meeting you.”
- “I feel so blessed when I think about how much your friendship means to me.”
- “Even though it’s your birthday, I feel like I’ve been given the greatest gift: your friendship.”
- “Every year on your birthday, I’m reminded to count my blessings because I’m lucky enough to have a best friend like you.”
- “You brighten up my life, and I’m so thankful to have you by my side ❤️😊”
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Wish them lots of happiness and joy. There’s definitely a reason why we wish people a “happy” birthday. Wrap up all your happy feelings in your message and make the day a truly joyous occasion.
- “Nothing makes me happier than seeing you so happy on your special day.”
- “I wish you nothing but happiness today and every day after 💜”
- “You’re officially not allowed to be anything but happy on this amazing day.”
- “This is a day that’s all about you, and I hope you feel nothing but the purest joy on a day like today.”
- “Let’s spend the happiest of birthdays together!”
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Let them know that they feel more like family to you than a friend. Our best friends are like the siblings we never had. You probably don’t have to talk every day to stay close, and you likely know each other better than you know yourselves. Remind them that they hold a very special place in your heart.
- “Happy birthday to my sister from another mister.”
- “HBD to my brother from another mother.”
- “You’re not only my best friend, but you’re also practically family ❤️ Happy birthday!”
- “Happy birthday to my twin who just so happens to be a couple of years older than me.”
- “Birthdays are a time when we should be with family, so I’m glad I get to spend today with you.”
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Remind them how perfect you two are as best friends. Whether you’re total opposites or basically identical twins, your best friend is likely someone who compliments you like your other half. You two have a special connection, so be sure to mention that in your birthday message.
- “Wishing the happiest of birthdays to my partner in crime.”
- “Happy birthday to the person who completes me.”
- “You’re the yin to my yang 🖤🤍 the sun to my moon ☀️🌙 the straw to my berry 🍓 Happy birthday to the person I couldn’t live without!”
- “Couldn’t imagine a friend who’s more perfect than you. Happy birthday, bestie!”
- “You’re the “she” to my “nanigans,” and I can’t wait to get crazy with you on your birthday!”