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Is your roommate’s boyfriend over so often it feels like you have a third roommate? Having someone else in your space can be annoying, especially when they’re not paying rent. Fortunately, by talking to your roommate you can set clear boundaries and work on a solution. Read through this article for a comprehensive list of tips that you can use when talking to your roommate about how often their boyfriend is over.
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QuestionWhy do boundaries matter?Kelli Miller is a Psychotherapist based in Los Angeles, California. Kelli specializes in individual and couples therapy focusing on relationships, depression, anxiety, sexuality, communication, parenting, and more. She is the author of “Love Hacks: Simple Solutions to Your Most Common Relationship Issues” which details the top 15 relationship issues and 3 quick solutions to each. She is also the award-winning and best-selling author of “Thriving with ADHD”. Kelli co-hosted an advice show on LA Talk Radio and was a relationship expert for The Examiner. She received her MSW (Masters of Social Work) from the University of Pennsylvania and a BA in Sociology/Health from the University of Florida.Having boundaries helps prevent resentment in a given relationship! It's so important to know your own personal boundaries, and also to have boundaries within a relationship. Everyone has different needs and experiences, and it's really important to communicate those clearly.
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- ↑ https://www.cnbc.com/2018/09/21/5-ways-to-deal-with-a-bad-roommate-.html
- ↑ Kelli Miller, LCSW, MSW. Psychotherapist. Expert Interview. 11 June 2020.
- ↑ https://mhanational.org/how-deal-roommate-problems
- ↑ https://mhanational.org/how-deal-roommate-problems
- ↑ Kelli Miller, LCSW, MSW. Psychotherapist. Expert Interview. 11 June 2020.
- ↑ https://www.bumc.bu.edu/facdev-medicine/files/2016/10/Active-Listening-Handout.pdf
- ↑ Kelli Miller, LCSW, MSW. Psychotherapist. Expert Interview. 11 June 2020.
- ↑ https://mhanational.org/how-deal-roommate-problems
- ↑ https://www.architecturaldigest.com/story/roommate-probems-your-roommates-boyfriend
- ↑ https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a42530/should-you-ask-your-roommates-boyfriend-to-pay-rent/
- ↑ https://www.cnbc.com/2018/09/21/5-ways-to-deal-with-a-bad-roommate-.html
- ↑ https://www.bsu.edu/campuslife/housing/apply-for-housing/roommates
- ↑ https://www.cnbc.com/2018/09/21/5-ways-to-deal-with-a-bad-roommate-.html
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