Making decisions isn’t always easy, and when you’re faced with 2 undesirable choices, it’s even harder. This type of interpersonal conflict is called avoidance-avoidance conflict (AV-AV) and often causes procrastination and anxiety. Even when the conflict is difficult, it can be straining to avoid it, which is why avoidance-avoidance conflicts can be so tricky. In this article, we’ll break down this conflict type. Plus, we even spoke with Dr. Liana Georgoulis, a licensed clinical psychologist, to give you tips on overcoming and dealing with conflicts.
Things You Should Know
- Avoidance-avoidance conflict is when you’re given 2 unpleasant or “bad” choices to choose from.
- An example of AV-AV conflict would be choosing between 2 medical treatments that don’t promise a cure.
- Overcome conflict by weighing your decisions, doing research, and asking for help from someone you trust.
Steps
Expert Q&A
Tips
- Conflict avoidance is when you actively stay away from conflicts, whereas avoidance-avoidance conflict is a type of conflict.Thanks
Expert Interview
Thanks for reading our article! If you’d like to learn more about relationships, check out our in-depth interview with Liana Georgoulis, PsyD .
References
- ↑ https://eprints.unm.ac.id/26309/2/artikel%20PSYCHOLOGICAL%20CONFLICT%20OF%20THE%20MAIN%20CHARACTER.pdf
- ↑ https://www.britannica.com/science/avoidance-avoidance-conflict
- ↑ https://www.umassd.edu/fycm/decision-making/process/
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/relationships-communication/conflict-resolution-skills.htm
- ↑ https://www.uwgb.edu/sbdc/assets/multi/news/201707-Avoiding-Conflict-Can-Often-Cause-Conflict.pdf
- ↑ https://clarke.edu/campus-life/health-wellness/counseling/articles-advice/tips-for-managing-conflict/
- ↑ https://hbr.org/2019/03/an-exercise-to-help-your-team-feel-more-comfortable-with-conflict
- ↑ https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/self-help/guides-tools-and-activities/breathing-exercises-for-stress/
- ↑ https://www.urmc.rochester.edu/encyclopedia/content.aspx?ContentID=4552&ContentTypeID=1