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Texting a girl you haven't talked to before is enough to make anyone a little nervous. Whether you got her number from a friend or a dating site, you want to put your best foot forward so she's comfortable and curious about you. We'll walk you through the do's and don'ts of texting a girl you don't know very well so you can spark her interest.
Tips to Start a Conversation with a Girl You Don’t Know
- Introduce yourself in your initial text.
- Mention the reason you’re texting her.
- Ask an interesting, open-ended question.
- Give her a specific and genuine compliment.
- Talk about things you two share in common.
- Text her a photo to stand out from the crowd.
- Keep your texts casual to avoid coming off too strong.
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- ↑ Christina Jay, NLP. Matchmaker & Certified Life Coach. Expert Interview. 11 February 2020.
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