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It's not uncommon to develop feelings for a friend. In fact, the emotional intimacy you feel in friendship is often similar to feelings of intimacy you would feel in a romantic relationship. [1] X Research source Many successful romantic relationships began as friendships. If you want to ask your guy friend out, it just takes a little time and courage. Spend a bit of time establishing that you're interested by flirting and becoming more physical. When you feel ready, ask him out in a straightforward manner. If you begin dating, work on a smooth transition from just friends to something more.
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QuestionHow do I ask my friend that likes me out?Community AnswerBe straightforward. If you already know your friend likes you, this should take away some of the pressure. Ask if your friend wants to go out to the movies or to go get coffee. Make it clear that you're asking him out on a date.
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QuestionWhat if he is not into dating? How would I convince him to go out?Community AnswerIf someone is not interested in a relationship at this time, it's best not to push it. You do not want anyone to feel pressured into dating you, as this can lead to resentment.
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QuestionThere is this guy and he is my best friend. All my friends think he likes me and I like him. What do I do?Community AnswerIf you're okay pursuing a romantic relationship, ask your friend out on a date. However, you may feel hesitance if you do not want to screw up the friendship. Think for awhile about the possible repercussions of dating a friend. Consider whether you could conceivably stay friends if the relationship ends.
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- Transitioning into a romantic relationship can potentially affect your friendship. Be aware that you may be putting your friendship at risk by pursuing a romantic relationship.Thanks
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- ↑ http://www.scienceofrelationships.com/home/2011/6/3/from-friends-to-lovers.html
- ↑ http://www.hercampus.com/love/relationships/boy-friend-or-boyfriend-how-know-if-your-guy-friend-likes-you
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/valley-girl-brain/201203/how-flirt-without-it-seeming-youre-flirting
- ↑ http://www.aish.com/d/w/7-Ways-to-Go-from-Friendship-to-Relationship.html
- ↑ http://www.scienceofrelationships.com/home/2011/6/3/from-friends-to-lovers.html
- ↑ http://www.huffingtonpost.com/arthur-samuel-joseph/10-tips-for-asking-someon_b_5567406.html
- ↑ http://www.aish.com/d/w/7-Ways-to-Go-from-Friendship-to-Relationship.html
- ↑ http://www.aish.com/d/w/7-Ways-to-Go-from-Friendship-to-Relationship.html
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