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Talking to your boyfriend about his feelings can be super awkward. But, if you’re not sure how he feels about you, having a heart-to-heart talk may help clear things up. The best way to find out is to ask him directly, but you can also learn a lot by paying attention to his actions! Some guys have a hard time opening up, so it might help to break the ice by telling him how you feel, first.
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QuestionWhat does it mean if your boyfriend won't say I love you?Moshe Ratson is the Executive Director of spiral2grow Marriage & Family Therapy, a coaching and therapy clinic in New York City. Moshe is an International Coach Federation accredited Professional Certified Coach (PCC). He received his MS in Marriage and Family Therapy from Iona College. Moshe is a clinical member of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT), and a member of the International Coach Federation (ICF).It's possible he just needs more time to sort out his feelings, so don't despair. Consider giving him more time to fall in love with you.
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- If it’s important to you to hear your boyfriend say “I love you,” let him know. Your relationship will be much stronger if you can both be clear about your needs, wants, and expectations! [15] X Research sourceThanks
- Some people have a hard time saying “I love you.” If your boyfriend struggles to say those 3 not-so-little words, talk to him about ways that he is comfortable expressing his feelings.Thanks
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- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-the-name-love/201412/when-should-you-say-i-love-you
- ↑ Moshe Ratson, MFT, PCC. Marriage & Family Therapist. Expert Interview. 7 August 2019.
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