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How older women flirt and the best ways to respond so she knows you're into her
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You’ve got your eye on a hot older woman—should you make a move? Generally, older women know what they want, and they’re not interested in playing games. If she wants you, she’ll send you subtle signs that she’s into you. We’re here to help you recognize the signs that an older woman wants you so you can make your move. We’ll even tell you exactly what to do to get her attention. Keep reading to learn how you can make a connection.

Things You Should Know

  • An older woman will flirt by playing with her hair and finding reasons to touch you.
  • She’ll ask if you date older women because she wants to know if she’s got a shot with you.
  • She’ll let you know she’s single so you’re more likely to make a move.
  • She’ll pepper you with compliments when she’s totally into you.
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  1. Older women want to connect on a deeper level. She’ll be happy to tell you about her life, her interests, and her past. Be a good listener to show her you care. [12]
    • Say things like, “Wow,” or “Mmhmm,” to encourage her to keep talking.
    • Make comments about what she says to show you’re paying attention. You might say, “It sounds like work has been stressful lately,” or “Your dog sounds hilarious.”
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    John Keegan

    Dating Coach
    John Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.
    John Keegan
    Dating Coach

    Life experience is one of the great parts of being with an older woman. She can introduce you to plenty of new perspectives thanks to her life experience, and she'll likely carry herself with a lot of confidence and emotional depth.


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    How do you subtly flirt with an older woman over text?
    Imad Jbara
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    Imad Jbara is a Dating Coach for NYC Wingwoman LLC, a relationship coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Imad services 100+ clients, men and women, to improve their dating lives through authentic communication skills. He has a BA in Psychology from the University of Massachusetts Dartmouth.
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    Don't tell her your age. If she asks, make a joke by saying something like "Not old enough to be an awesome guy." If you tell her your age, she's not actually getting to know you for who you are. Once she can make an accurate judgment of your character based on who you are as an individual, then it's okay to tell her your age.
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