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Looking for cute ways to show your boyfriend you care about him? Whether you live together, you’re just starting to date, or you’re trying long-distance, you’ve come to the right place. In the article, we’ve compiled a ton of cute, kind gestures to show your boyfriend how much you love and appreciate him.
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Send a sweet letter to your lover. Who wouldn’t like receiving an old-fashioned handwritten letter from the one they love? Write in your love letter about one of your favorite memories with him, the things you love about him, how your life has changed since meeting with him, and your future together.
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Fill a jar with all the reasons why he’s your special someone. Write down a few of the things you love about your boyfriend on separate scraps of paper, and stuff them inside a mason jar. Decorate the outside with construction paper, stickers, and wrap the top with a colorful ribbon. [1] X Research source- If you’re looking for a great Valentine’s Day or anniversary gift, write 365 little notes so he can open a new one each day.
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Surprise him a beautiful bouquet. If your guy is hard to shop for, flowers might be the perfect gift to show your love for him. If you’re on the fence about whether a full bouquet of flowers would make him smile, swap it out with a live plant. Plus, you could decorate the pot with paint markers to make it extra special. [2] X Research source
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Send him a care package. A great way to show your guy you’re thinking about him (especially if you’re long-distance) is to send him a little cardboard box full of cute little things he loves. Decorate the edges of the box with construction paper hearts and stickers and fill it with things he likes. They don’t have to be expensive—send him a few of his favorite snacks, a couple of photos of the two of you together, or something silly that reminds you of him.
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Serve him a delicious breakfast or brunch in bed. What better way to surprise your boyfriend than give him the mouthwatering gift of food? Tailor the menu to fit his likes, or try a new recipe you think he’ll enjoy. Keep it simple, and prepare what you can in advance so you don’t have to wake up extra early. [3] X Research source
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Pamper your boyfriend with a relaxing spa day together. Choose his favorite scented candles, make your own face masks, give him an Epsom-salt bath , eat chocolate-dipped strawberries, and enjoy a relaxing night together.
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Give your partner a soothing massage. Give your boyfriend a full-length massage , from his back to his legs, chest, neck, and feet. If you’re feeling saucy, consider ending the massage with a sexy surprise. [4] X Research source
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Prep a romantic candlelit dinner at home. Make a delicious meal or order in! Break out the tablecloth, light a couple of candles, dim the lights, and play some slow music, perfect for a romantic night at home. [5] X Research source- Have a dinner spot you’ve both been eyeing for a while? Call in to make a reservation, get all dressed up, and enjoy a beautiful night on the town.
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Dial him up just to ask him how his day is going. If calling isn’t your thing, you can also text him and let him know that he’s on your mind.- Try not to call him all the time—instead, use the phone as a place to remind him you’re thinking about him and set up the next time to meet up in person.
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Consider giving him a cute nickname to make him feel special. A fun little pet name for your significant other can show him how much you adore and appreciate him. Try a classic one, like “honey,” “babe,” or “lover boy,” or create one that’s unique and references something specific to him or your relationship. [6] X Research source
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Post little notes around his locker or bedroom. Using sticky notes to show your love can be a great way to surprise him with a shower of compliments. Write 15 to 20 little encouragements and things you love about him, and post them in places where he’ll be most likely to see them—on the bathroom mirror, in his work bag, on his lunch, in his locker… the possibilities are endless! [7] X Research source
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Plan an elaborate scavenger hunt to find a special prize. Create scavenger hunt clues to guide him to locations that are already special or romantic, like the window to watch a sunset or the table where the two of you had your first date. At the finish line, give him a personal gift, whether it’s a handmade scrapbook, an activity the two of you will love, or a romantic dinner for two.
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Make your boyfriend a hot, candlelit bath. Fill a bath with hot water, and create a little tray with snacks, a special drink, his favorite book, or a handheld video game. Light candles and dim the lights for a calming, spa feeling. If you want, you can use bubbles, bath bombs, or rose petals to create an extra relaxing atmosphere. [8] X Research source
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Use the power of poetry to make him feel loved. There’s nothing quite like using the written word to declare your love for your partner. Poetry can be great for letting you communicate your feelings, even if you think that you’re not particularly great with words yourself. Choose a love poem that perfectly expresses your love for your boyfriend, or write one yourself .
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Prepare his favorite meal and eat it together. Everyone knows the best way to get to a guy’s heart is through his stomach. Putting all your love into food you make yourself can be a great way to show him how much you care about him. [9] X Research source
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Take dancing lessons or dance in the kitchen together. Dancing is one of the oldest, most romantic couple activities there is. Dancing with your partner can be the best feeling in the world, even if you’re worried about being uncoordinated—sometimes it’s just fun to be clumsy together! If there’s a song playing that the two of you love, boogie down together, whether you’re at home or in public.
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Spruce up his vehicle inside and out. If your boyfriend drives a ton, or if he just loves his car, a great way to show you love him is to give it a fresh new look. If you’d like to go the extra mile, you could also take it to a detailer to have it cleaned professionally for you. [10] X Research source
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Tell him you love him out of the blue. If you’re ready to take the next step in your relationship, consider telling him how you feel about him . If you’re not ready yet, don’t worry! You can also show him how you feel by doing small things for him, like giving him gifts, doing something nice for him, or just spending time together.
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Hit the road and find all the hidden travel spots. Got the travel bug? Take your boyfriend on a romantic road trip to a place you’ve both been wanting to visit. Don’t forget to stop and enjoy the cheesy tourist traps along the way! [11] X Research source
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Text him a sexy selfie to show him you miss him. If you want to let him know you’re thinking about him, send him a flirty pic of yourself . It doesn’t have to be completely nude, but if that’s something you’d like to try, go for it! Be confident and wear what makes you feel good.
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Gift him a book of “coupons” to show your love. Make a romantic coupon book full of activities you want to do together and romantic gestures to make him feel special. Include specific coupons like a free breakfast in bed, a round of bowling together, or one date at the arcade where the two of you first met.
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Shoot him a text when you wake up or before you sleep. Good morning and good night texts can be a great way to show your boyfriend that you’re thinking about him, especially if the two of you are long-distance. It doesn’t have to be long or complicated—just tell him you miss him and hope he enjoys his day!
- Reader Poll: We asked 292 wikiHow readers how often they text their boyfriend goodnight, and 60% of them agreed that they text every night, no matter what . [Take Poll]
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Surprise your boyfriend with a hug from behind. If your boyfriend has been feeling stressed, a hug from behind can be the perfect way to show him you’re thinking about him and relieve some of his anxiety. Hugging from behind can be especially romantic because you both can stay physically close while admiring the same view. [12] X Research source
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If you have tons of photos of the two of you, create a video compilation. Dedicate the video to your relationship by including a playlist of your favorite songs and tons of pictures of the two of you together, from the first day you met to all your recent adventures. [13] X Research source
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Create a love den out of pillows and blankets. Set it up in your living room and basement, and fill it with pillows and blankets so the two of you can have a cozy romantic movie night. Remember to take some snacks! [14] X Research source
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Craft a card he’ll cherish forever. Cards don’t have to be just for holidays or special occasions! Use your creativity to put all of your love and care into making a beautiful handmade card he can read over and over.
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Call his family members up or invite them over one weekend. If your boyfriend loves his family, it can mean a lot if you keep up with them and ask how they’re doing once in a while. Wish them well on special occasions, or invite them over for a cookout at your place to show your boyfriend that you love his family as much as your own.
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Give your boyfriend a gift that reminds him of his childhood. Gift him his favorite childhood book, or a toy he remembered loving. You could also give him a gift that reminds the two of you of your favorite memories together—revisit the restaurant you had your first date in, bring a picnic to the first place you kissed, or give him a memento of your relationship you might have kept over the years.
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Stick a note or write in one of his favorite books so he can find it later. If your boyfriend is a big reader, a great way to remind him that you love him is to put a small note into one of his books.
- Alternatively, you could also buy one of his favorite books and annotate it as you read so he gets to know all of your thoughts about the story as he rereads it again.
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Highlight the top hits of your relationship. Let your love live on in a playlist full of both of your favorite songs. Include songs that remind you of him or that throwback to a couple of your best dates. [15] X Research source
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Frame a photo he can bring to work or put on his bedside table. Make a wonderful reminder of your love and care for him by framing the perfect picture of the two of you together. That way, he can take you with him to work, put you by his bedside, or display your relationship on the wall for everyone to see.
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Invest time and energy into whatever he’s passionate about. Does your boyfriend like sports, leatherworking, cooking, baking, knitting, woodworking? Whatever he spends his free time doing, ask if you can join him. Let him show you all the ropes—even if whatever he likes isn’t your thing, it’ll show him you care and maybe you’ll learn more about him in the process.
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Set up a fire pit or light the fireplace for a romantic night in. This is the perfect date idea for any season and can show your boyfriend how much you love spending time with him. If you really want to create that cozy camping feel, bring some hot dogs or marshmallows to make delicious s'mores with. [16] X Research source
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Buy tickets to an event that he can go to with his friends. If your boyfriend works really hard or never goes out with his friends, show him you’re looking out for him. Buy him and his friends tickets to a concert or game, or invite them over to have fun while you go have some you-time.
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Get him something he’s been putting off buying. Does your boyfriend need a new chair, a better steering wheel cover, new shoes, or a better hat? Buying him something he wouldn’t buy himself can show him that you love him and care about his well-being. [17] X Research source
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Figure out what your boyfriend’s love language is. According to research, romantic partners who express their love in their partner's love language have greater relationship satisfaction. [18] X Trustworthy Source PubMed Central Journal archive from the U.S. National Institutes of Health Go to source If his love language is words of affirmation, shower him with compliments and describe your feelings for him in detail. If it’s physical touch, give him lots of forehead kisses and make time for cuddling, and so on!
- If you’re not sure what his love language is, have him take our love language quiz!
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Hold his hand, whether you’re in public or at home. Not only can it be a great way to show how much you love him, but holding hands can also reduce stress and lower your heart rate. [19] X Research source
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Shower him with compliments. Almost everyone loves compliments, and they can be a wonderful way to show the ones you love how much you appreciate their company. Tell your boyfriend you love his hair, that he’s handsome, or that you enjoy hanging out with him. [20] X Research source
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Check in on him and support him during difficult times. If your boyfriend is having trouble at home, at work, or in school, show how much you love and support him by asking how you can help and engaging in small, sweet gestures like offering to do things for him. [21] X Research source- If your partner wants space, try to respect his alone time and understand why he might need space.
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Revealing your secrets and wishes can show him you trust him. If you have fears, worries, or doubts that you haven’t told anybody, sharing them with your partner can not only allow him to support you emotionally and practically, but it can show him that you trust him enough to share the deepest parts of your soul with him. [22] X Research source
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Actively listen to his wants and needs. Focus on what your boyfriend says and practice active listening to hear what he needs or wants from you. Listening to your partner can be a relationship game-changer because it can open you up to hearing what your boyfriend would like his relationship with you to look like. [23] X Research source
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About This Article
This article was co-authored by Patti Novak Williams
and by wikiHow staff writer, Cheyenne Main
. Patti Novak Williams is a Professional Matchmaker in Las Vegas, Nevada. With over 20 years of experience, Patti specializes in working with clients one on one to help them find love. She has helped match hundreds of couples, engagements, and marriages. Patti was the star of the critically acclaimed A&E series “Confessions of a Matchmaker.” She has been featured in the New York Times, the New York Daily News, the New York Post, and The Wall Street Journal, and has appeared on The Oprah Winfrey Show, TODAY with Hoda and Kathy Lee, The Rachael Ray Show, CBS’ The Early Show, CNN, The Big Idea with Donny Deutsch, The Nate Berkus Show, and Fox’s The Morning Show With Mike & Juliet. Patti published a book in 2008 with Random House titled “Get Over Yourself!: How to Get Real, Get Serious, and Get Ready to Find True Love.” This article has been viewed 76,128 times.
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