The Ultimate Guide to Dating a Taurus Man

Born between April 20th and May 20th, Taurus men are hardworking, loyal, dependable, and practical. As such, dating a Taurus guy means returning his loyalty and impressing him with your elegance, patience, and compassion. If you’re dating (or wanting to date) a Taurus guy, read on, and we’ll help you better understand him—so you can make sure that your relationship withstands the test of time!

Things You Should Know

Dating a Taurus man requires patience. He might not ask you out right away because he’s cautious and reserved—so work on building up his trust in time.
While dating, show your Taurus guy that you’re loyal and dependable. He can be jealous and possessive, so making him feel secure is important.
Taurus guys are devoted, practical, thoughtful, and sensual in relationships. They tend to express their feelings through action—not words.

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Taurus Male Overview

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Taurus men are devoted partners who prefer long-term relationships. These guys are built for commitment; they’re loyal, honest, hardworking, and committed to building a stable life for themselves and their partners. That’s why dating a Taurus man is all about building trust over time and deepening the connection with support and affection. ^{[1]
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- Taurus dates: April 20th - May 20th
- Ruling planet: Venus
- Element: Earth sign
- Modality: Fixed sign
- Symbol: The bull
- Famous Taurus men: George Clooney, Robert Pattinson, Rami Malek, Stephen Colbert, Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson, Henry Cavill, Channing Tatum, and Keenan Thompson.

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Attracting & Dating a Taurus Man

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Be patient and build up trust with him over time. Taurus guys are incredibly loyal, but their devotion comes with time. It’ll usually take a little longer than most guys for a Taurus to warm up to you—but don’t lose your patience or give up. Take your time, get to know him slowly, and be a consistent presence in his life. Once you gain his trust , you’ll have it forever! ^{[2]
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- Don’t get discouraged if your guy doesn’t seem receptive at first. You’ll know if he likes you because Taurus men make overt gestures like buying chocolate or flowers.
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Talk about your passions and achievements with him. Taurus men are hardworking and career-driven. They love to complete projects and feel a sense of accomplishment with a well-done job. Appeal to this part of him by telling him all about your achievements to date and the passions that drive you; he’ll see you as a kindred spirit.
- Taurus men also love money. Ruled by Venus, the planet of both love and money, Taurus is all about financial stability and abundance.
- So, impress him with your knowledge about finances or the world economy; it’ll make you even more attractive in his eyes.
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Ask for his advice and guidance. Taurus men are dependable by nature and take pride in helping others—either through practical acts of service or by imparting their knowledge and giving advice. They also like to feel in control, so your Taurus guy will be flattered if you come to him for words of wisdom and advice.
- You may have to be more vulnerable with him to ask for help or tell him about a difficult situation you’re in—and he’ll appreciate your honesty.
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Make the first move and ask him out on a classic, conventional date. While some Taurus guys are risk-takers, most of them are pretty traditional (like all earth signs). Rather than hitting up an escape room or going skydiving, your Taurus will probably enjoy going something a little more conventional, like dinner and a movie or hanging out one-on-one at home. ^{[3]
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- Taurus guys are usually not as brash and forward as men born under other zodiac signs. This means that you may have to take the first step and ask him out!
- The more you spend time and get to talk to your guy, the more he’ll desire your company. While they aren’t super chatty, Taurus are great listeners.
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Impress him with your elegance and sophistication. Because of Venus’ influence, Taurus men enjoy the finer things in life—and they won’t be afraid of showing off their lavish lifestyle. So, be sure to dress in your classiest clothes on dates (something well-made and flattering without being too revealing) while showing off your manners and intellect. ^{[4]
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- For example, you could discuss the books you’re reading or current events to demonstrate your knowledge and intellect.
- Charm and good manners also appeal to Taurus guys, so make sure he sees you using them on other people when you’re out in public together.

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Maintaining a Strong Relationship

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Let him take charge in the relationship. Even though they’re quiet and gentle, Taurus men have an inner drive (and obstinate streak) that pushes them to take the lead. They like to be decisive and feel like they’re in control. Of course, that doesn’t mean letting him dictate your life; instead, try reaffirming things you agree with so he feels like he’s the one making the final decision (even if he’s not).
- Remember, letting a partner take charge doesn’t mean changing who you are as a person. If you really don’t want to do something, tell him so—and put your foot down.
- Taurus men often want authority over finances, so as your relationship gets serious, have a conversation about what you both want (and are comfortable with) in terms of finances.
- Reader Poll: We asked 360 wikiHow readers if they think Taureans are generally controlling and stubborn, and 70% of them said yes . [Take Poll]
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Go on outdoor trips and excursions with him. As earth signs, Taurus men tend to enjoy getting in touch with nature, doing activities like camping, hiking, or just enjoying the great outdoors. To make your Taurus man happy, schedule a hike with a great vista or a weekend camping trip and surprise him with it.
- Other activities your Taurus might enjoy include taking a bike ride, having a picnic, or going rock climbing.
- Taurus men are rugged and driven, so they’ll often take charge when setting up a campsite or doing a physical activity!
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Treat him to good food, music performances, and creature comforts. Taurus men love the finer things in life—especially food and music! Melt your Taurus man’s heart by treating him to a gourmet dinner (or a homecooked meal, since he’ll adore that you went to the trouble). Additionally, figure out what bands and types of music he likes, and get him tickets to a show he’ll enjoy.
- If you have the budget, you could even plan to travel to another state or city for the show and enjoy a special trip together.
- Taurus guys have expensive tastes and will enjoy good seats regardless of cost—but don’t feel any pressure to break your budget!
- More traditional Taurus men may enjoy classical music over contemporary music, although each has their own preferences.
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Be loyal and dependable so he knows you’re invested. Your Taurus is incredibly loyal—but that loyalty only exists when it’s reciprocated. So, if the two of you become exclusive, show him you’re committed to that. Avoid flirting with others (even if it’s just for fun), playing hard-to-get, or dating outside the relationship. ^{[5]
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- Instability can also be a problem for Taurus guys. They don’t like drama—so if an argument comes up, don’t lose your head. Instead, try to take a step back and look at the situation with a rational mind .
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Text him daily so he knows you’re thinking of him. Contacting him often will affirm how much you need him in your life, and it’ll make him feel closer to you. Taurus men like it when their partner truly relies on them, so the more you communicate with him over text, the more you’ll be showing him that he’s an irreplaceable figure in your life—which is exactly what he wants!
- Try texting him regularly once or twice a day (since Taurus guys appreciate stability). You could even send him a sweet “good morning” message and follow up later by asking how his day went.
- Just remember not to flood his phone with messages every hour. All things are best in moderation!
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Tell him how important he is to you. Even though Taurus men don’t often discuss their feelings, they’re deeply emotional and passionate people! He’ll internalize the things you tell him, so if you tell him how important he is, he’ll understand that he has a major impact on you—and that you truly care.
- He’ll probably like giving gifts but might prefer receiving a sentimental gesture instead of something big and flashy from you.
- Try doing something from the heart to show him how important he is, like taking him on a date to where you first met, making him breakfast in bed, or writing him a love letter.
- If you get him a gift, think of something high-quality and practical—like a luxurious candle or a meal at his favorite restaurant.
- The more you gain his confidence, the more likely your Taurus guy will feel comfortable opening up and sharing those deep emotions he keeps hidden beneath the surface.

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What are Taurus men like in relationships?

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Taurus guys will show you how they feel with actions, not words. Your Taurus may have a hard time talking about his emotions. Instead, he’ll likely act on his feelings! You might find that he surprises you with a thoughtful gift or flowers just because he can or tackles a chore you’ve been needing to do because it’ll make your life easier. ^{[6]
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- However, this also means it might be difficult to talk things through when there’s a problem. He might refuse to discuss things, act indifferent, or even start shouting angrily.
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They’re intensely loyal and tend to prefer monogamous relationships. It often takes Taurus guys longer to choose a partner, but they’re committed once they do. They aren’t interested in playing games or dating around, and they don’t like being single; they want a long-term partner they can rely on, and they’ll go out of their way to shower that partner with devotion and care.
- Try not to play hard-to-get when dating a Taurus, even if the courtship process is a little slower than you’re used to. He just wants to make sure you’re really “the one!”
- Taurus guys are also super protective and like to keep tabs on what their partners are up to. They may even get jealous or overly possessive if they feel there’s a good reason to do so.
- Taurus guys who get jealous really just want to know that their relationship is secure— infidelity is a huge deal-breaker for them. Avoid flirting with other guys, and give your Taurus plenty of reassurance .
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They’re sensual and tend to enjoy physical pleasures (and activities). Out of all the zodiac signs, Taurus loves the sensation of an intimate touch the most. Thus, Taurus men tend to enjoy physical pleasure more than emotional pleasure and can be very sensual—especially in the bedroom. Give him lots of physical affection and indulge all of his senses during intimacy.
- A sensual environment can make intimacy that much more pleasurable for a Taurus guy. Use things like satin sheets, soft pillows, candles, incense, and mood music to elevate the experience!

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Positive Traits for Taurus Men

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Taurus men are known for their kind, gentle personalities. There’s a lot to love about Taurus guys, and unsurprisingly, they can make for extremely lovable partners. Aside from their unquestionable loyalty and taste for the finer things in life, Taurus men are also known to be:
- Peaceful. Taurus guys are quiet, thoughtful people and often prefer relaxation to navigating chaotic, bustling places. Expect a Taurus home to be the epitome of comfort and tranquility!
- Dependable. Taurus men strive to be reliable and helpful to everyone—from friends and family to their partners. They’ll show up when they say they will and always get the job done!
- Honest. You can always trust a Taurus man’s word because they greatly value truth and honesty. Taurus guys say what they mean and are always as good as their word.
- Level-headed. These men are the type to keep their cool in stressful situations. They’ll come up with a well-reasoned solution to a problem when everyone else is panicking because they’re just that sensible.

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Negative Traits for Taurus Men

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Taurus men are infamously stubborn. That’s because Taurus is a fixed earth sign, meaning they’re “stabilizers” of the zodiac—driven and dedicated but also stubborn. Taurus guys tend to get uncomfortable with change and prefer to do things their way, so compromise is the key to making things work with them! Other negative traits include:
- Perfectionistic. Taurus guys want everything (especially their work) to be absolutely perfect and may struggle to accept imperfection.
- Overindulgent. While enjoying luxury isn’t automatically a bad thing, pleasure-seeking Taurus can sometimes get too focused on indulging their desires and get a little lazy or inactive as a result.
- Possessive. When they feel insecure, Taurus can be possessive of both their partner and their belongings. They might even want you to check in constantly or try to spend all their time with you.

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Taurus Male Compatibility

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Taurus’ best matches are Virgo, Capricorn, Cancer, Pisces, and Scorpio. Virgo and Capricorn naturally get along great with Taurus because they share an element. They’re earth signs: practical and hardworking—they understand each other perfectly. Water signs Cancer, Pisces, and Scorpio can offer Taurus the emotional support and affection they need (and are attracted to Taurus' stable, dependable nature). ^{[7]
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- Libra may also be compatible with Taurus because they share a ruling planet (Venus) and, therefore, a mutual love of romance and luxury.
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Taurus’ most difficult matches may be Leo and Aquarius. Leo and Taurus love romantic gestures and luxury, but fiery Leo’s dramatic side (and desire to live in the spotlight) might be too exhausting for Taurus. On the other hand, the intellectual air sign Aquarius might come off as too distant and detached for Taurus—and because both are fixed signs, their stubbornness could clash. ^{[8]
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- However, neither pairing is impossible—they just require a little more time and effort. Compromise, understanding, and appreciation for each partner’s differences can help these relationships work.

Learn How to Date a Taurus Man with this Expert Series

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