Help, I have a crush on my best friend!

What if my relationship with my best friend is already very complicated. Should I tell and risk the friendship or just keep it on normal terms.

I have a crush on my best friend but it's confusing because I know she's gay too but she always hangs around her gay friends a lot. But I think she flirts with me too and I can't really tell because she's just a very positive and touchy person in general.

Do NOTHING unless you are ok with risking the loss of the friendship. Best advice out there. At the end of the day though, if it hurts too much to be around her BECAUSE you have feelings that go beyond friendship then perhaps the risk is worth it. If it's a no from her than you can lick your wounds, move on and heal. At the end of the day, you can't really be friends if you wouldn't be happy seeing her date someone else.

put a note at her desk telling her to meet up somware private and tell her how u feel if she shows up that's how I got my first girl it works

Same thing happened to me you just have to tell her and respect her feelings

This could be hard. I think most of you people answering are guys, but my bff had a crush on me. I completely flipped when I heard it. I didn't them, after they were still so nice to me I developed feelings for him. So basically, just spit it out, but be casual, say "Hey Sam(whatever her name is), I have to tell you something" don't say it too fast, once she gives eye contact to you just come in a little closer don't say anything just slightly touch her hand, if she pulls away just focus on being a good friend for her, if she is confused just bring your lips closer to her, she would probably figure you like her if she pushes back that means she needs space. *remember move slow*. If you can tell she is uncomfortable of confused say "I like you" softly *Only say this if you are questioning that if she likes you or not. If she seems like she likes you kiss her. If she get's mad at you for kissing her, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE! DO NOT crack a joke or avoid it. Or be like "Oh, i thought you were someone else" and run off. Be open, "Um...Sam I've been meaning to tell you, and I am sorry". Give her some space but show her that you are worth it. When she starts opening up to you remind her you are sorry but don't make it awkward, if you usually put your hand around her shoulder do it again, don't make it awkward.

I have this cruch on a guy i dont know too well, But everything says he likes me back. How do i aproch him without ruining our friendship?

I did this test for someone in my school. I am clueless if she likes me? What should i do

It’s fine just tell her you like her like 👍🏻

Me too

If she really was ur best friend, she wouldn’t ruin the friendship because of you confessing ,go for it❗️

Me Too! The best thing to is break it to them slowly,I think they will get the hint that way

what if it's an online friend that I really know ?

Idk if my friend likes me. She likes me as a "Close friend" not as a "Best friend".

observe her and as her whats her type .be carefull

I am dating my crush...

Kiss her

It is almost impossible for me to trying to not be obsessed and being engaged to one of other

i have a crush on my first girlfriends best friend, but i'm unsure if she likes me back. she talkes to me a lot, and she stares at me sometimes. what do you guys think?

Same! But we have activities weekly together for 1h and we chat everyday but it's just short chats... He's pretty cyuuuuute! Everyone and I mean EVERYONE ships us together but we always deny which one article here said not to... Hellppp!

i kinda feel like i like this person but idk it is like a realllly small crush

What if I have a crush on a grade 9 and I'm a grade 8

I have a giant crush on a boy in my school! we used to be extremley close last year and went trick or treating together last year, her also invited me this year! Dose he like me?

Ive already dated like ten people before but me and this love of my life I literally can't imagine not thinking about her!!🤔😍😘😎🤗🙂😋😁😗🤐

I can feel that! You'll need to personally confront her about this. ALONE

This can be tough🚸 you'll need help

I have a crush on my best friend and unfortunately, he is dating someone who is non-binary. I am extremely jealous of them and only want my best friend to myself. I tried telling him by writing a letter, but he didn't see it. I'm afraid to talk to him about it.

HELP I AM INTERESTED IN 3 PEOPLE. one of them is definitely platonic, and she's straight too, one of them will never happen because he's older than me, and the last one is very complicated. all of my friends and family members say he likes me and he does act different around me but i dont know how to make moves. any advice?

Think about it. Are you okay with being just friends. Does it hurt if you cant be more than friends. Is your friend dating anyone? Is your friend straight, gay, or Bi. Do you think she might like you back? Think about it and from me I believe in you. You can get her! Just try your best, and if for some reason it doesn't work out remember, it's okay to grief and there's more fish in the sea!

Just tell her your feelings. If she liked you back that's great, if she doesn't just continue being best friends, and move on.

You should tell her how you feel

How do I control my emotions better

trust me....im a girl and won't like if my best friend crushing on me. So just don't tell her anything abt this.

Exactly what I have too

That can be hard, but living in fear will only make you two grow more distant. Talk with her more, see if she's interested in anybody. When you tell her, make sure the mood is right and the atmosphere is comfortable.

Just look at how she acts with you. Maybe she blushes around you or smm. Also take the test (does she like me) see what you get

Ask her to go out. If she says yes then probably she likes you

Damn bro I mean ask them out before a holiday/break so even if they say no they’ll probably forget about it

I have intentions to female friends

I wish I had something helpful to say, but I'm in the same boat with you

speak to her and ask her your crush see if she says something or not

How do i tell them? Pls help me out here!

that's what I have

Hi I need ur help so my crush thinks I’m obsessed cause people are making it seem like that and now he has a gf so I don’t know what to do and nobody likes me

Hey bro just me i never felt that way but my best friend did and so she just found a time we were alone and said it i rejected her because we were in fourth grade at the time and yea it did ruin things just a bit but then we were fine so i say tell em how you feel.

my girl loves me what do I say

ask her if she likes anyone or thinks anyones attractive, maybe flirt with her see how she acts does she get uncomfortable or is amused. make sure to prioritie her and if you find out she does like you make sure you both are ready to commit and ready to transform your friendship into a relationship.

I say you should try to tell her!! She might feel the same way, and your crush knowing about your feelings might make u feel better about the situation!

idk if i have a crush on my best friend like when she messes with my hair im really nervous but that’s what best friend do right?

Guys helpppp. I'm really confused about my feelings right now but there is this one guy who is really nice to me. I thought he liked me ages ago and always think he's flirting, but then the next second he's talking to other girls and they're saying the same! I don't want to like him cause he's like that, but it feels like he's treating me differently. Probably not though but I don't know what to do. Should I make a move or something? He's just always jumping from girl to girl - is he a player or something??!

My crush knows that I like him but everything is the same before he knew I liked him

I am dating my best friend but its confusing to me and I honestly just need advice

Don't worry too much about it. Just tell her, and if she doesn't feel the same ask her if you can still be friends (without it being weird)

you got this good luck!

my crush wants to be my friend and also more and that scares me somehow

Just be there for her. Show her you care about her well-being. Above all, be yourself. Things usually work out for the better if you're being the best you can be.

my bestfriend is aroace and doesnt experience attraction. and I think I like her. its so hard bc ik she will never like me back.what do I do

omg! for the test I got "Your love potential is 100%." i know we are alike but what????! omggggggggggggggggggggg also he is my neighbor! im to shy around him tho....

I got 100% but I'm still unsure. how can I trust this one quiz? idk

Ok, I have been through this same thing. But plot twist I am the opposite, my best friend had a crush on me. At the time, I didn't like him. But know it is a different story. Never loose hope, and just if you mean that much to her she will want to keep you in her life. Trust me.

I agree with the note idea ;3

Tell her once you have gotten enough signs and when you ask her tell her its okay if not and i hope this doesn't ruin our friendship.

If you've been friends for a long time, I think you should definitely just talk to her about it. Be clear, be honest, and be bold.

IDK if my bestie likes me back. I just love her so much! I am a lesbian demisexual after all...

Honestly, just ask her. This has worked for people i know, but honestly im a hypocrite cuz i havent even asked my crush out myself... well if she says no, just try to keep it together.

try to impress her and if you feel confident enough over time then tell her your feelings!

uhm, I got he's into you but I can barely talk to him I'm wayyy to shy and nervous around him. plus he is always busy with his friends so I cannot really talk to him without his friends there......also I want to give him a note but idk if he will see it or like it...

ok I think my crush likes me because of all the signs. should I make the first move?? idk I'm super shy around him....should I make him a note? if yes then should I put my name or just put it as anonymous?

I say go for it she deserves it and so do you! and if she doesn't feel the same way then what is there to loose (other than your friend) but was she a real friend if she turns you down?

Yeah I get all of these! There is this guy I'm really into and we have a thing called WEB together and we have A LOT in common, but now idk how to talk to him because I have feelings

i have a crush on someone that my parents would not approve of but there kinda my closest and best friend. my parents know there name but not their age and would probobly ground me for it and they like me but there parents want them to date someone they dont like. what do i do?

I feel that, Personally I just say go for it, Its not like I ever could. Don't be like me go for it dude!

ok I have enough courage to give my crush a note that says "Do you like me?" does anyone support this? I for one think this is a good idea,but what do you guys think?

It says that he thinks I’m an irresistible mystery, but 43% got that, so I’m not sure. Could you add some quizzes that are like “Does he like 2 people” or something like that, I had one but now I can’t remember it… But thanks for the quiz!

If she's really your friend and she doesn't have the same romantic feelings she wouldn't stop talking to you for something like that.

I had the same problem but once I told him he just got closer with our friendship, and after a few weeks he asked me out. Honesty is always the key in a situation like this.

I like someone, but I am getting in trouble in class and sometimes make them nervous. So I've been trying, and I think they notice. We've been places outside of school, and she always laughs at me in a funny way. It's definitely flirting. But does she like me back? I need to know! This quiz helped somewhat, but...

Tell her your feelings you don’t know maybe she likes you to and if she doesn’t have feelings then give her space for a few days then talk about it to her and make sure to respect boundaries

I have a rl big crush on this boy called theo,buttt we are not best friends and ,friends’ is an overstatement, im not really pretty and know i don’t stand a chance with him but i know i like him and its hard not to, any advice?

look if you really like this person and there's a chance of her feeling the same way, then take a shot in the dark man

I think you should tell a close friend but not her. I have got a friend tell them for me. Sometimes work.

OK so I gave a note to my crush and he did not like that at all sooo T-T T-T

I had the same situation as you, bro, but it's much worse. Everyone know i used to have a crush on her but i just can say my crush for her is ended to hide my feelings. Recently, she has more skinships with me or it's just my imagination but i can't stop thinking 'bout it and don't know if we could be a couple, need advicesss

i need help! i like my long time good freind but my girl bestie likes him too! i want to tell them

I'm also in love with my best friend and told her about it. she said she liked me too. but i don't know about yours, they might find out so confront them about it

I thought I had a crush but now it seems like love with my ex friend. We had a fight because he thought I was into him before. Now insulting him is the only way that makes me happy.

I really like this guy who sits next to me, and I've kinda known him since 5th grade, but he thinks I like an eighth grader. Also, everyone says he doesn't date, even though he dated someone else.

Talk to her about how you feel and maybe she feels the same about you depending on how she acts and how close she is to you.

If you two have a mature relationship I think that it will survive you confessing your feelings to her. I've been best friends with my best friend for over a decade now and when I confessed my feelings to her, nothing changed. We still see hang out all the time. The longer you hold onto these feelings the worse you will feel, it's better to get it off your chest. Good luck!

What do i f I'm if he likes me and he just doesn't respond when people tell him and this other guy asked me out and I like both of them what do I dooooo

What do I do if I know my crush from both church and school and I catch her doing things such as : telling me the boy she likes and wants me to hint that she likes him without telling him and it sounds suspicious, staring at me as the last thing she sees before leaving, and also staring at me until i catch her. This girl is also in 7th grade. Please Help!!!

What do i do if my crush goes to both my church and middle school and doing suspicious things such as : telling me the boy she likes and asking me to hint it to him suspiciously (this boy is friend of mine), staring at me as the last thing she sees before leaving the building, staring at me until i catch her, and acting shy around me. Please Help!!!!!

Yoo I've been there before and I know that having a crush on your best friend is such an awful situation! You have all these feelings eating you up inside but then you're worried about messing up the friendship if you say anything. Maybe if your best friend has another friend that knows them well you could ask them for advice or insights into how your best friend feels about you. I personally think you should go for it.

I honestly think you should just tell her up front! Or maybe tell your other friends? I tried to do that, but I’m mega shy. If you’re less shy than me, tell your friends and ask them how to handle it.

I’d first say, it’s wonderful that you are in tune with how you feel. Second, I’d ask whether you want to take the friendship to the next level. If so, I’d encourage you to tell your best friend how you feel. Yes, it’s scary and a risk but if the best friend feels the same, a deeper relationship can develop. If the best friend doesn’t feel the same, that’s ok, and you need to decide if you can handle just having a friendship or if it will be too challenging knowing your feelings.

I know this goes against what most of the other comments are saying, but I'd caution you to really think before you confess your feelings, and if you're unsure about how it'll impact your relationship, it's safer to just not tell her (unless you're willing to sacrifice your friendship and have already come to terms with the fact that things may never be the same). Because what happened to me is I confessed my feelings to my best friend because all my other friends were encouraging me to open up to her. But when I did, she got really upset and thought that I was a fake friend who was just being friendly with her to get in a relationship with her. She said that she didn't want to be friends with me and then stopped talking to me. It was devastating...So yeah, just a word of caution.

I'm going through the same thing just that I am a girl and he is the boy

Ihave a crush on someone from the other class but i don't know that does he like me or not.Are there any signs that he might have a crush on me?