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Make a text conversation more fun and less weird
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It can be a bit intimidating to have a fun or interesting conversation via text, especially if you’re trying to win over a new friend or have your eye on a potential significant other. The key to being a great texting conversationalist is not to overthink it and to be comfortable bringing up whatever’s on your mind. This wikiHow article shows you a few ways you can make your text conversation more interesting and fun.
How to Be a Fun Texter
- Ask them things about themselves.
- Compliment them.
- Ask for their opinions on things.
- Reference topics they mentioned earlier.
- Use texting to make in person plans.
- Avoid boring or cliche conversations, like the weather.
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QuestionWhat if the person seems uninterested in texting you altogether and you seem to be the only person keeping the conversation going?Community AnswerHave you considered the possibility that means he or she most probably doesn't like texting? If that is the case, then the fact they even text you is a good sign. On the other hand, if this person isn't keeping in touch with you in any way whatsoever, then they may just not be interested in connecting with you.
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QuestionHow can I deal with people who don't text back immediately?Community AnswerPatience, my friend. They may not be texting back immediately because they don't want to text, or because they're busy doing other things. Not everyone has at phone at hand all the time.
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QuestionWhat do I do if I can't think of interesting things to say to keep the chat lively?Community AnswerSee what that person likes. If they feel passionate about the subject you guys will talk for hours.
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- If someone seems uninterested while you’re texting them, they may just not like texting. Try to make in person plans to talk, instead.Thanks
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- Avoid saying things like "mmhmm" "yea" "m'kay" or "lol" on one text. Instead say it like, "Yeah, sure, I can watch your dog tomorrow" or "Lol, I can't believe you did that!"
- Ask people specific questions about themselves while letting them drive the question.
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Warnings
- Do not text while driving. By doing so, you're endangering yourself, as well as those around you.Thanks
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References
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/articles/200403/the-art-the-compliment
- ↑ Julia McCurley. Certified Professional Matchmaker. Expert Interview. 30 September 2021.
- ↑ https://www.scienceofpeople.com/talk-to-anyone/
- ↑ https://www.npr.org/transcripts/1014019821
- ↑ https://www.scienceofpeople.com/conversation-starters-topics/
- ↑ https://hbr.org/2019/09/why-asking-for-advice-is-more-effective-than-asking-for-feedback
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