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Scorpio men are the dark horses of the zodiac—and they make passionate, intelligent, devoted partners. But this private, mystical water sign is also not the type to shout declarations of love from the rooftops. So how does
a Scorpio man
express his love? We consulted our team of expert astrologers to bring you all the gossip and details on what Scorpio men are like in love. Read on to figure out if your Scorpio man loves you (and how to show him you love him back).
This article is based on an interview with our astrologer and performance artist, Angel Eyedealism. Check out the full interview here.
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I went on a date with someone recently and they told me they were a Scorpio and idk if that's a red flag or not. I've heard that Scorpios are obsessive and difficult to be in a relationship with, is that facts or nah? I kinda wanna go on a second date but idk if I should so pls help
Scorpio is an obsessive sign. They're looking for someone to obsess over and they're going to provide a series of tests to gauge your loyalty to them. For example, they may play hard to get or act obsequious. If they sense that you're not matching their intense energy, they're gonna lose interest. Scorpio is also a very sensual sign, so if they not sensing that you're sexually interested in them, they will lose interest. So you would definitely need to engage in sex or intimacy with a Scorpio in order for them to fall for you. Scorpios want to dive deep into issues and topics. They're not a superficial sign, so they'll be turned off if you're very shallow. They like intensity and passion. If they don't feel engaged, enthralled, sexual, and intimate with you, then they're not going to have interest in you. So there has to be something intriguing. But also, if you provide a little bit of a mystery that they need to unravel, that will keep them pulling on the yarn forever. So don't give it all up right away! Leave a veil of mystery and then they will be intrigued and obsess over you because they always have to obsess.
If they're jealous or obsessive and you show even the tiniest bit of interest in other people, a Scorpio will show you their vulnerability (which is their most cherished prize). Scorpios like to keep their vulnerability to themselves, so if a Scorpio shows you their inner sensitivity, that means they trust you enough to love you. Without vulnerability, there is no intimacy, and that's why Scorpio is the sign of intimacy, because they like to lay bare of all things so that they can get inside.
Scorpios are all or nothing, do or die. But they're also the most distrustful sign, so if they show anything that indicates trust in you—like talking about marriage or moving in together—that means they are serious about you. And another sign they're serious about you is if they tell you their secrets. They see secrets as powerful weapons, so a Scorpio revealing their secrets means that they're very serious about you because they have trusted you with their secrets.
If they're jealous or obsessive and you show even the tiniest bit of interest in other people, a Scorpio will show you their vulnerability (which is their most cherished prize). Scorpios like to keep their vulnerability to themselves, so if a Scorpio shows you their inner sensitivity, that means they trust you enough to love you. Without vulnerability, there is no intimacy, and that's why Scorpio is the sign of intimacy, because they like to lay bare of all things so that they can get inside.
Scorpios are all or nothing, do or die. But they're also the most distrustful sign, so if they show anything that indicates trust in you—like talking about marriage or moving in together—that means they are serious about you. And another sign they're serious about you is if they tell you their secrets. They see secrets as powerful weapons, so a Scorpio revealing their secrets means that they're very serious about you because they have trusted you with their secrets.
As a Scorpio myself, I’d say dating a Scorpio isn’t necessarily "hard," but it can be intense. We value loyalty and trust the most, so if those things are broken, the relationship can be difficult. But if you're open, patient, and not afraid of vulnerability, you’ll find that dating a Scorpio can be incredibly rewarding.
Learn How to Attract a Scorpio Man with this Expert Series
Scorpio men are private, mysterious, and occasionally intimidating. We've put together this expert series to help you understand Scorpio behavior and attract the Scorpio man of your dreams.
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Know if a Scorpio Man Likes You
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How to Flirt with a Scorpio Man over Text (with Examples)
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Scorpio Man Compatibility: Which Sign Is the Best Match for Scorpio?
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Text a Scorpio Man
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11 Ways to Turn on a Scorpio Man through Text
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Common Signs a Scorpio Man is Playing You (& What to Do About It)
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References
- ↑ Angel Eyedealism. Astrologer & Performance Artist. Expert Interview. 23 December 2021.
- ↑ https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/horoscopes/a29244628/scorpio-traits/
- ↑ Angel Eyedealism. Astrologer & Performance Artist. Expert Interview. 8 December 2021.
- ↑ Angel Eyedealism. Astrologer & Performance Artist. Expert Interview. 8 December 2021.
- ↑ Angel Eyedealism. Astrologer & Performance Artist. Expert Interview. 8 December 2021.
- ↑ https://www.loveisrespect.org/resources/is-there-disrespectful-behavior-in-my-relationship/
- ↑ Angel Eyedealism. Astrologer & Performance Artist. Expert Interview. 8 December 2021.
- ↑ Angel Eyedealism. Astrologer & Performance Artist. Expert Interview. 8 December 2021.
- ↑ Angel Eyedealism. Astrologer & Performance Artist. Expert Interview. 8 December 2021.
- ↑ Angel Eyedealism. Astrologer & Performance Artist. Expert Interview. 8 December 2021.
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