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Falling in love with someone is one thing, but keeping them in love with you is a whole other story. As fun and wonderful as relationships are, they require work and cultivation to keep the spark alive. If you really love a man, you probably want to keep him in love with you, too. Here are some tips on how to keep his love for you strong while also remaining true to yourself.
Quick Tips to Keep a Man
- Surprise him with little gifts and gestures.
- Suggest new activities and experiences to try together.
- Give him little touches often.
- Tell him every day how much you love him.
- Listen to him intently when he needs to vent or just talk.
- Let him have his space when he needs it.
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QuestionHow can I win a man's heart forever?John Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.Offer him nice words of affirmation! Try to understand his love language, as it informs you of what he needs. Also, acknowledge and appreciate everything he does for you so that he feels respected and adored in the relationship.
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QuestionHow do you make your man want you more?John Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.Everybody needs different kinds of love! Since there are different ways of communicating love — like words of affirmation, touch, and acts of service, for example —, you should know your partner's love languages to help fulfill them.
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QuestionHow can I make my relationship strong and last long?John Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.No matter how great your relationship is, fighting can kill the attraction. If you’re fighting all the time, the chemistry starts to change and if it doesn't get healed, it will build-up over time and usually turns into a breakout. So, try to do your best to listen and resolve conflicts in a productive way to help your relationship long-term.
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