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What's the most romantic thing a man can do?

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Try being spontaneous and anticipate your partner's needs! Just surprising your partner with a fun note like "I made you lunch today" or "I'm going to give you a massage when you get home from work" can be very thoughtful and romantic.

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How can I help my girlfriend?

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Try to take a few things off her plate without asking. You might do a load of laundry for her or make her dinner—even small surprises help remind her that you care.

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What romantic things can I do for my girlfriend?

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Participate in an activity that she really likes, even if it isn't your thing. For instance, if she's a fan of yoga, you could go with her to her next yoga session.

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How do I help my husband to be more romantic?

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Try showing him this article! You could also try telling him directly the things that you find romantic, and ask him what you can do that he would think is romantic, too. Everyone has their own love language, so it's important for you and your partner to both learn how to show each other that you care.

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How do you cope with a Christian girl who has bad temper, insulting/abusive behaviour, a loud voice, and strong head. When you say "baby calm down or shut up" she replies you before you even land "No

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Most people don't like being told to calm down or shut up, so saying those things is likely to make the situation worse. Try saying something like, "You seem like you're feeling upset. Is there anything I can do that would help you feel better?"

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My wife says I am not romantic as I love my work and give more priority to work and other short period of time I get I try to relax myself by watching and playing sports.. So can you please suggest me

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Try to set aside one day a week where you make time for your wife in a way that she'll find romantic. Also, don't underestimate the power of little gestures - try picking up her favorite snack the next time you stop for gas, for instance, or compliment her when she isn't expecting it! Those things can really add up over time.

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