Q&A for How to Find Out if a Girl Is Mad at You

You probably don't want to criticize her, so don't accuse her of being irritated. What you really should do is to make it about yourself. Tell her that you're sensing that maybe she's upset and ask if everything is okay. That's a gentler approach that should remove her from the defensive stance.

That's a little harder to tell if she's not direct, given that it's the body language that shows some subtle signs of anger, like an upset look or a sudden shift in energy. When in doubt, ask. Obviously, do it tactfully.

No, that means she's thinking about it. Don't push her to make a decision before she's ready.

Remember that forgiveness takes time and your friend may just need some space so she can be open to forgiving you. You should make an effort to show her that you are sorry for what you did and stay humble when you are around her. You may want to look at http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Amends for more information.

If she hasn't replied to your declarations of love, she's not interested. It's been two years. If she liked you back, she would have told you by now. It would be best to move on and find someone else.

You should apologize. Girls love it when you apologize. Say that you won't do whatever you did and ask for forgiveness.

Yeah, she's mad. Try to explain to her that you were just answering someone's question, and it meant nothing. Tell her that she's the one you care about, and there's no one else. Then just give her a little space to get over it. You didn't do anything wrong, so try not to worry too much.

Have you asked her what's wrong? If she won't tell you or you can't figure it out, try to remember everything that's happened recently or that you said. Think through the details. Sometimes girl can get offended by something that seems really small or insignificant.

Her description of the problem seems to indicate that it's not you, but who knows - she could be being passive-aggressive or trying to push you away, whether because you upset her somehow or because she's not interested in the relationship anymore and doesn't want to say so outright. There's no reason for her to be cold to you if you haven't done anything wrong. If she needs some space to deal with her personal issues, she should be able to tell you so kindly. Try to let her know that you would like some clarity on where your relationship stands and would like to know when/whether she might be able to talk to you again.

There are a number of possibilities with this one. She might be genuinely angry with you, or she might just need some space. Maybe she's bored with you. Perhaps you're trying to go too fast with a relationship or perhaps you said something that scared or disgusted her. It's really all down to your previous actions. If you have been insensitive, perverted, or awkward, those are all reasons why she might have disappeared. If you haven't done anything, don't expect the worst and dramatize the situation or be too clingy. There are other plausible reasons she could be unresponsive that have nothing to do with emotions. She could have just lost her charger.

Be nice to her and ask her in person. If she still won't tell you, then give her a little space. After a bit, you could pretend nothing happened or say you are sorry for whatever you've done.

If you're asking yourself that question, then it is most likely not a good idea.

Become friends with her friends. If you sort of shimmie your way into her friendships, you're hanging out with her more often.

She might be mad about something she's not ready to talk about, or she might be upset about something else that has nothing to do with you. If you've tried to talk to her and she hasn't responded, just give her some space and try not to worry for now.

Probably not. If she's that mad, just give her some space for a while. Once she's calmed down, try to apologize again. If whatever you said/did wasn't that bad, she should forgive you.

Maybe you could bring her flowers or chocolate. A small gesture like this might make her more likely to talk to you, at least so she can explain what's wrong. If you did something to hurt her, apologize for it. If you have any mutual friends, you could also try asking one of them to ask her why she's upset with you.

Staring and laughter can indicate a romantic interest, but you should also look for other signs that the girl likes you. Look at http://www.wikihow.com/Know-if-a-Girl-Likes-You for more information.

It could mean she is mad, or she could be joking around with you. If you are unsure, just ask her.

Try asking her if something is wrong or if you did anything to upset her or hurt her feelings.

Of course, it's anyone's guess why she may be angry, or maybe you just misinterpreted this. However, it seems like she is mad because she showed interest and you didn't respond in time. It is not often that a woman will actually confirm "if you asked me out now, I would say yes", so when she does do it, it can be irritating, infuriating and frustrating if you do not respond - regardless of whether you were on vacation. Now, this is a lesson of life, of course, and I mean for her. Just because she's interested doesn't automatically mean she'll get you, though some women seem to assume this. If you want a relationship with her, talk to her. Ask why she's angry.

It doesn't matter if you aren't the one who needs to apologize. If you just want her to be your friend again, apologize sincerely. If not, just wait it out, don't be mean, and avoid her until she apologizes.

She might be mad, or there might be something else going on in her life that is upsetting her or preventing her from responding to your emails. Try to think of any reason she might have to be upset with you, or just ask her if she's mad.

Make sure you're not being manipulated/ Saying things like "Do this or I'm breaking up with you" is extremely unfair. You do not exist to serve her and cater to her needs. It's also no way to win an argument: "Say I'm right and you're wrong or I'm breaking up with you." She wants to be in a relationship with you, and that love should be unconditional. Explain that to her. If she does still love her ex, if she does manipulate you, or if she doesn't learn why threatening to break up is unfair, find a new love.

Apologize to your girlfriend and make sure she knows you mean it. Explain why you asked her sister.

It depends, really. What tone of voice did she say it in? Was it a normal reply, or was it in a passive aggressive or annoyed tone? If it sounded normal, the chances are that she isn't mad at you.

You can ask her how she feels and if she's still mad at you. You can also say that you need a more clear understanding of where you two stand and that by not talking to you and then all the sudden talking to you has become confusing. Just ask her what she is doing.

If you kept confessing and confessing and now she isn't replying, she probably feels that her saying "No" wasn't respected by you. I would literally not communicate with her for a week or two. No texts, calls, in-person you should acknowledge and nod hello but don't run over and corner her. After some time has passed for both of you, you can reach out and say: "Just wanted to let you know that I apologize again for coming off so strongly. I care about you, but I respect that you aren't interested in dating. If you'd like to be friends, I am willing to try that. If not, I'm very sorry and I wish you all the best". Just that straightforward.