Q&A for How to Impress a Girl

If you go ahead and open the door for her, offer her a compliment, or do certain things to make her comfortable, you will be more impressive. Besides this, you should give her a chance to talk and not dominate the conversation.

Plan to have a date in a public space. Know where you are best as a dater. Choose a place where you know you can make your best presentation.

You should make some effort to dress up nicely to impress a girl at your first meeting. It is like an interview where you have to make a good impression by dressing appropriately.

Be polite and friendly to her, while respecting her choice. Don't stop being her friend. If things do go wrong, she'll remember that you remained friendly and respectful and she may just come to you in a time of need. Don't do anything to break them up, it's too risky and it's better to let things take their course.

Keep talking and ask her leading questions; finding a topic she is interested in and comfortable with will help immensely. Lastly, remember to respect her interest and privacy.

You can't rush a girl to decide on anything. It'll come eventually and if you don't like her choice or her lack of decision, you cant do much to change that. Stand back and enjoy the time you're spending with her; the less you focus on getting her to love you, the more she'll feel that she's free to make the right choice and not a pressured one.

Boys who act badly around a girl show that you're trying to catch her attention to let her know "hey I exist!". Start trying to change the way you act around her. If you don't, then she'll be turned off, because a guy who isn't "nice" is like saying he isn't good boyfriend material. Just try to be nicer and be kind. If she truly cares about you, then she'll notice the change.

Try leaving noticeable but humble clues, but don't become invasive. For example, ask what her favorite color is, what she hopes to do with her life, where she would love most to travel in the world, etc. Then remember what she tells you and be sure to raise conversations about those topics or create something based on those things to surprise her, such as a travel dream journal or make her a bracelet in her favorite color. These things will impress her.

She might not like you as a friend. If she actually considers you as a friend, she would start or carry conversations with you. Find interests that you both have in common. If you can't think of any, or she still won't talk to you, you could ask for help with homework. Asking for help would probably get her to talk.

Look at her, not stare, just look. When she looks at you, smile a bit, not too happily from ear to ear, but more in the "Hey, I like what is see, do you too?" way. If she smiles back, you can approach her. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

You could tell her that you fancy her and show her what she means to you. But don't keep asking or moan at her choice! If she says no, then she's not the one for you. However, if you don't ask her, you won't know if she happens to feel the same way about you. Since you've never told her, she may not think you like her. So asking her would be a good choice. And play it calm! Become friends. As your friendship goes deeper, she may come to realize that she likes you better. Focus most on being her friend above all else, and let time do the rest.

Respect her feelings. If she's not interested in dating, you have to accept that. But do your best to impress her and don't hide how you feel, otherwise she'll never know.

Analyse the relationship she is already in. If you think you can be a better partner to her, then there's no harm in simply trying to impress her. She can make up her own mind about it.

Be very, very careful here. Take it very slowly and respect her boundaries, otherwise she might break up with you. Never, ever pressure her into sex.

You need to respect the boundaries she has set for herself. Maybe she will change her mind about dating later, but you should not push her to like you or date you.

Give her a big hug and say "You are the one I love, no matter what". Tell her that you love her, that she is an important presence in your life and that you're happy to wait until she changes her mind. Then accept her friendship. It may take time but the fact that you didn't push her, didn't throw a tantrum and didn't neglect her but instead respected her decision and still offered love, will weigh heavily in her mind and will, as the article is all about, impress her.

If you want to be nice to her and not make fun of her, find a mutual interest or hobby. If she sees or hears something about the subject and she wants to talk about it, she'll come to you first, because you know your stuff. Also, hold the door open for her and if she has a problem, try everything you can to solve it with her, not for her, but with her. She'll see you as the interesting problem solver instead of the macho guy who likes himself more then he likes her.

Try to get accepted by the group as an okay guy. After the group knows and likes you, you'll be able to try to get closer to her. This may take time, so focus on this being there for a time.

You just feel it. And along with it, your partner too will.

Hang out with her (or at least ask her to), but do it in a group. If you hang out with a group of four to five people, then you won't run out of conversation material and can have other people's opinions too, if you talk about things she likes to do and things she has done, it should transfer to liking you. If not, she isn't going to be your girlfriend.

Continue being her friend and let her think about what you said. She might just change her mid and start to grow a more-than-friend liking to you. In the meantime though, actually be a good friend and don't expect miracles. Sometimes being a friend is more forever than fleeting romance.

Be sure you have a good relationship with her, she feels safe with you and enjoys being with you, know what she likes, then ask her out.

Talk to her and ask her what she's feeling. Mention that you feel that she's been distant and mention your concerns. Remember that a relationship is a consensual, shared experience and you cannot force it.

Use the word "date" (or admit that you "like" her) - you don't want her to think it's just a friendly hangout. If she says no and you're feeling hurt, spend a couple weeks apart before going back to friendly activities.

If she's not the type to be impressed with an over the top display, concentrate on the small interactions. Dress nicely, pay her compliments, and listen attentively.

If your friend thinks you are gross, then try spending time improving her opinion of you. Also, freshen up, take a shower, and brush your teeth. Get rid of some things other people may find disturbing, and dress for success.

Certainly! If you're both interested in each other and want to try a relationship, go for it. Just be sure you understand her special needs before you start and learn how to interact with her in a positive and respectful way.

She's made it clear she's not interested. At this point, pursuing her is just going to lead to pain.

Make her time special. For example send her gifts and participate in what she likes to do.

I would take it slow if she's not interested in you. She might not be interested in dating you, but maybe she's still willing to be friends with you. Try being nice to her and befriend her first, then maybe her attitude will change. When you think the time is right, ask her out -- but be aware that doing so could ruin your friendship.