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What do you do when you meet your crush?

Christina Jay, NLP
Dating & Relationship Coach
Christina Jay is a Matchmaker and Certified Life Coach based in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. Christina is the founder of Preferred Match (preferredmatch.ca), her matchmaking service that finds love for successful and elite individuals. She has over 10 years of coaching experience, earned her NLP (Neuro-linguistic Programming) certification through NLP Canada Training, and has a BA in Business Administration from Brock University.

Christina Jay, NLP

Dating & Relationship Coach

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No matter how nervous you feel, walk towards your crush with confidence. Stand up straight, relax, and smile. Being open and confident as you approach them will put both them and you at ease

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I am 14 years old and I have a crush in my school. I always find her in a group. How do I approach her?

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Bring a friend along with you. Walk up to the group and say something casual like, "Hey, what's up? Can you guys believe how hard that math test was?" Talk to the group as a whole, but make sure to keep your focus on her. Single her out by saying something like, "How do you think it went, Rachel?" Stay relaxed, make eye contact, and smile—you can do this!

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How do you approach your crush for the first time?

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Build up your confidence by double-checking your hair and clothes to make sure they look good before you walk up to your crush. Don't give yourself time to get nervous and chicken out by starting to walk towards them as soon as you see them. When you get near them, smile, introduce yourself, and say a casual hello. Play it cool and say something like, "Hey, I'm Sarah, I don't think we've met before."

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What do you say to your crush?

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An easy way to start a conversation with your crush is to simply say hello and introduce yourself. Say something like, "Hi, my name is Chris, what's yours?" That will get them to tell you who they are to break the ice. You can then keep the conversation going by asking lots of questions. Ask them questions about themselves to show them that you're interested in their life. For example, ask them about their hobbies, or their favorite music or movies. They'll keep talking and you'll get to know them better!

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How do you flirt over text?

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An easy way to break the ice over text and get a conversation going is to send your crush funny gifs or memes, especially if you send one that references an inside joke between you two. For example, if you both like Jurrasic Park, you can send a funny meme about dinosaurs. You can also tease them playfully and use emojis to flirt casually with them. For example, you could say something like, "Nice outfit today. Does your mom pick out all of your clothes?" Then, send them a winking face emoji to show them you're messing with them.

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