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One day everything is totally fine in your relationship, and the next day your guy is acting cold. Feeling your partner pull away can be scary, but rest assured that you can turn the tables and make him come running back to you. For our best tips on reversing the situation and fixing your relationship, keep reading!
Things You Should Know
- Ask him what’s going on without getting upset. Send a message like, “Hey, is everything ok with work?”
- Flip the script by asking him to put the relationship on pause. This will send him into panic mode and have him running after you.
- Give him the space that he wants and focus on yourself by hanging out with friends and diving back into your hobbies.
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QuestionHow do you get someone back who is pulling away?Lauren Sanders is a Professional Matchmaker, Dating Coach, and the Founder of Dating for the Soul. With over four years of experience, she specializes in helping singles find love. Lauren is also the author of Lipstick Faith: A Collection of Inspirational Writings and Life Lessons, You Deserve the World, Rainbows and Strawberries: 100 Devotions for the Brighter Side of Life, and Let's Go Outside Mommy. Lauren holds BS from Dillard University and a Masters from The University of North Georgia.Communicate your feelings with them and ask what you can do to improve the relationship. You may also want to suggest couples' therapy. It may also help to return to the things you did in the beginning phases of the relationship and stopped doing. In order to keep a relationship healthy, one must continue doing the things they did when they first met the person. Once these things stop, people tend to pull away.
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