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Scorpio men, born between Oct 23rd and Nov 21st, are creative, complex, and totally committed. When you're dating a Scorpio man, he may seem like an unsolvable mystery. And yes, Scorpios are a tough nut to crack. But like all signs, they're easy to figure out when you have the right intel. We're giving you all the info you need. From his behaviors in love to his favorite things in bed, read on to learn how to understand a Scorpio man.
Things You Should Know
- As water signs, Scorpios are deeply passionate, empathetic, and sensitive.
- When a Scorpio man is into you, he will be intensely focused on you, ask deep questions, and seem to be omnipresent.
- In a relationship, Scorpios want to go deep. They value things like shared creative pursuits and deep intimate conversation with their partner.
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In love, there's no sign as devoted as Scorpio. If you wiggle your way into a Scorpio’s heart, you’ve got a knight in shining armor for the ages. He’ll defend you till the end, always be there when you need it, and stick around, even when times get tough. He expects the same loyalty in his partners, so do your best not to drop the ball. [3] X Research source
- Show him that you’re the definition of faithful. Never flirt to make a Scorpio jealous. It'll probably work too well, and he make kick you to the curb in retaliation.
- Be there when he succeeds—and when he fails. If you can prove that you’re a real ride or die , you’ll have his heart forever.
- If someone talks behind his back, defend your Scorpio crush. When word gets back to him, he'll be impressed.
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Intense and passionate, Scorpios create life-changing romance. Expect dream dates, serenades, and days spent in bed. He’s going to make sure you feel seen and adored, and when it comes to your relationship, he won’t settle for “simple.” Scorpios are known for being totally magnetic, too; so when you spend time with him, you'll definitely feel sparks. [4] X Research source
- Scorpio will remember tiny details about you, and then bring them up later in sweet, thoughtful ways (like with a gorgeous gift that’s totally perfect for you!).
- He isn't afraid to say exactly how much he cares. Nothing gets watered down—Scorpio will tell you your eyes shine like the sea if that’s what he really thinks.
- Scorpio will want nothing more than to spend 24/7 with their love. You’ll feel like you two share your own special planet.
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Scorpio is an extremely sensitive sign—so be careful with your words. With all of his emotional intelligence and vulnerability, Scorpio is super tuned in to his feelings (which makes him great for heart to hearts!). But on the flip side, when some guys might brush something off as NBD, Scorpio could end up feeling seriously hurt. Even the smallest things, like a little constructive criticism, can cause major rifts in a Scorpio's relationship.
- He’ll still want to know that he can trust you to be honest. But if you have something tough to share, make sure you sugarcoat it for him.
- Offer him tons of reassurance when he needs it. Remind him that you still think he’s the best—even if you need a night away for yourself.
- On the plus side, his sensitivity makes him an amazing confidant and source of comfort. When you’re struggling with something, he’ll probably know exactly what to say.
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In love, Scorpio might be a little too comfortable with mind games. He's extremely quick, strategic, and empathetic—he may understand others' feelings better than they do themselves. But because he's so untrusting, Scorpio may not always use his powers for good. To get a sense of his partner's true loyalties, he may resort to "testing" them.
- A Scorpio might tell you a secret just to see whether you let it slip. Assume that everything he shares with you is totally classified.
- A Scorpio might not text you for a couple days just to see how much you really care. When he finally reaches out make sure he knows that you're still into him.
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QuestionWhat can you do to make a Scorpio guy be happy with you?This answer was written by one of our trained team of researchers who validated it for accuracy and comprehensiveness.wikiHow Staff EditorStaff AnswerShare a secret that you haven't told to anyone else. He'll love that you trust him enough to be super vulnerable!
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QuestionHow do I get a Scorpio man to notice me If I'm an Aries and he's older?This answer was written by one of our trained team of researchers who validated it for accuracy and comprehensiveness.wikiHow Staff EditorStaff AnswerScorpios are attracted to Aries because of their passionate nature. You probably care a ton about your personal goals and your loved ones; show Scorpio this side of you! He'll find those qualities totally amazing.
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QuestionWhich type of person is a perfect match for a Scorpio?Community AnswerIt's important to be loyal to the hilt and never betray your Scorpio man. This includes backing him publicly even if you know he is wrong (sort it out later). Never put him down in front of others and always be ready to tell people how great he is. He will also expect you to be independent and not clingy, so have your own interests to pursue, as long as you're not seeing other people though as he can be very jealous.
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References
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/in-it-together/201709/emotional-connection
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/fulfillment-at-any-age/201510/should-you-follow-your-heart-or-your-head
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- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/articles/200409/the-truth-about-compatibility
- ↑ https://www.scienceofpeople.com/someone-likes-you/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-modern-heart/202112/9-reasons-why-many-couples-look-alike
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/contemplating-divorce/201712/what-gifts-your-spouse-say-about-your-marriage
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