What Are Some Interesting Topics to Discuss in a Group?

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Whether you’re with friends, coworkers, or family members, keeping up a lively discussion will make your time together much more fun. Keeping a few conversation topics in your back pocket is a great way to introduce new ideas and get the group talking. Try pulling these out at the next dinner party or get-together to keep things interesting and learn more about each other.


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Pop culture

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  1. Spend some time chatting about what everyone’s been watching lately to catch up on the latest popular culture. [1] If there’s something you haven’t seen, take a few recommendations for when you get home. [2]
    • You could say something like, “So, what’s everyone been watching lately?”
    • Or, “I heard about this new podcast on true crime. Has anyone listened to it?”
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Wacky internet stories

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  1. Maybe the elephants at your local zoo made friends with seagulls flying by. Perhaps you’ve discovered a celebrity’s new Instagram account where they post crazy videos. Talk about what you’ve seen online to spark a fun, interesting conversation. [3]
    • Say something like, “Did anyone see the video of the baby otter holding hands with its mom?”
    • Or, “I found the funniest video of Justin Bieber dancing on TikTok.”
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Good books

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  1. You can talk about a novel, an autobiography, or even a comic book that you liked. [4] Ask others to chime in with their favorite books or authors to keep the convo going. [5]
    • Try saying something like, “Has anyone read that new Stephen King book? I heard it was really scary.”
    • Or, “I just finished reading The Hobbit. The book is way better than the movie!”
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New recipes

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  1. Swap stories about what you made for dinner or your latest and yummiest baked good. [6] Talk about your techniques for picking new recipes or any websites you’ve found that have good ones to try. [7]
    • You could say something like, “I baked the most amazing cookies yesterday. The recipe was super easy, too!”
    • Or, “Has anyone made anything good lately? I feel like I’ve only been eating takeout, and I need some inspiration.”
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Travel experiences

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  1. You can learn more about other states, cities, and even countries! Don’t be afraid to share some of your own travel stories, too. [8]
    • Bring it up by saying something like, “Where in the world have you experienced the most culture shock?”
    • Or, “Which country has the best food?”
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Old memories

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  1. Ask the group about their childhood homes, where they grew up, or what their siblings are like. You never know—you might just have something in common! [9]
    • Ask something like, “So did everyone grow up in the area?”
    • Or, “Are you the oldest, youngest, or middle child?”
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Plans for the future

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  1. If any members of the group have fun stuff in the works, ask them about it! They could be moving, switching careers, having kids, or going back to school. [10]
    • You could ask something like, “So, what’s next for you all? What do you have going on?”
    • Or, “I’m thinking of moving to Dallas. Have any of you ever been there?”
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Hobbies

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  1. Ask the group about what they do for fun outside of jobs and responsibilities. [11] If you know the people well, you could even ask them specific questions. [12]
    • For example, you could say, “What have you all been doing for fun?”
    • Or, “I heard that you two have gone boating a lot lately. How’s that been?”
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Work experience

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  1. You can ask the group about their first jobs, their degrees, and what they want to do next. Most people spend a lot of time at work, so they usually have a lot to say about it. [13]
    • Try saying something like, “How’d you get into the field of work that you’re in?”
    • Or, “What’s next for everyone’s careers?”
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Relationships

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  1. Get to know a little more about what’s going on in their lives: did their dad just get a promotion? Is their girlfriend moving in with them? You can propose the question to one specific person or to the group. [14]
    • You could say something like, “So, how’s everyone’s family doing?”
    • Or, “Hey, how’s your dad been lately?”
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  1. If you aren’t familiar with everyone there, ask how they all know each other. There’s usually a fun story to go along with how people met, and you might even learn something new about your friends. [15]
    • You could say something like, “So, how do you all know each other?”
    • Or, “Brad and I met at a party in college. How do you all know him?”
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Hypothetical scenarios

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  1. It’s always fun to have a few of these in your back pocket. Try asking things like: [16]
    • “If everything was legal for a day, what would you do?”
    • “If you had to live the rest of your life as an animal, which one would you pick?”
    • “Would you rather eat pizza or hot dogs for every meal?”
    • Reader Poll: We asked 1176 wikiHow readers and 48% of them agreed that their favorite way to break the ice is by asking funny or silly questions [Take Poll] . So, these wacky questions are a great way to get a conversation started in a group setting!

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    If I don’t want to talk but I have to talk. then what should I do?
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    You can start off by smiling and saying hello, then by introducing yourself to anyone you don't know ("Hi, I'm [insert your name]; it's nice to meet you). You can ask one of the questions suggested in the article to get the conversation started. You could resort to riddles to get people to talk. Just contribute to the conversation when asked a question or when adding comments; you don't necessarily have to do all the talking. Listening helps a great deal.
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      2. ↑ https://www.countryliving.com/life/a44359369/conversation-starters/
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      3. ↑ https://www.businessinsider.com/how-to-skip-small-talk-and-have-deep-conversations-2015-12#talk-about-something-specific-youre-working-on-8
      4. ↑ https://www.inc.com/jessica-stillman/10-memorable-and-professional-networking-conversat.html
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      6. ↑ https://www.youtube.com/watch?t=115&v=QXiAPiw7vfc&feature=youtu.be
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