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Do you find yourself feeling attracted to older men? You might be interested in figuring out why; is it psychological, or something else entirely? The truth is, you can’t control who you’re attracted to. And even though stereotypes around older/younger relationships do exist, you should know that your feelings are totally normal. We’re here to help you figure yourself out. To learn why you’re attracted to older men (and what to do about it), read on.
Things You Should Know
- Being attracted to older men is totally normal, and even though stigmas around age-gap relationships exist, you should follow your heart.
- Typically, young people like the experience and maturity of older men. After years of dating around, older guys tend to know what they want.
- Or, they might be interested in older men's security, refined look, or their sexual experience.
- If you want to stop dating older men, understanding your attraction to them can help. For instance, you can look for the same qualities in men your own age instead.
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