Q&A for How to Cope With Liking a Person Who Disrespects You

If he comes clean, apologizes, and you believe he won't do it again, you could forgive him and try to move past it. Otherwise, if you have any self-respect, you should dump him. You deserve to be treated better than that.

Laugh it out after he picks on you. If he calls you names, say "Thank you, I try." If you don't let yourself get ruffled, your mocker won't have any incentive to keep picking on you.

Well, if the person who you like starts to avoid you, it could potentially be one of two things. This person could be avoiding you because they don't like you anymore, or because they didn't like you from the beginning and you didn't get the hint. The best solution is to talk to them about it and to tell them how you feel about the situation.

His teasing is probably a sign that he still likes you. Remind yourself why he became your "ex" in the first place so you don't end up rekindling this relationship. Tell him if he can't be polite when speaking to you he should probably keep his distance.

If you have a crush on a person you need to take into account if what she has done is acceptable for her to be with you. You could have a crush on the hottest woman in the world, but if she is a murderer, would you forgive her? Now of course this isn't that serious, but I feel you should take into account if she has redeemed herself enough, and if your friends wouldn't mind the prospect of you and her as a thing. If you've forgiven her and think she's worthy of you, that's fine.

It means that he likes being around you. He feels like he can be himself without you judging him.

Picking on you, especially if it's every day, is a clear sign of a lack of respect. You should never accept any disrespect. If it hurts you or makes you feel uncomfortable, you'll have to stand up for yourself and let them know their behavior is unacceptable.

Relationships are a special kind of friendship. Friendships are based on trust and respect, among other things. He should not be putting you down, not even once, not even as a joke. Tell him firmly that you don't like his behavior. You have a right to demand respect. It doesn't mean the relationship should be over; see it as a chance to grow together.

Tell him to stop and that he is being a bully by disrespecting you. Warn him that you will tell an adult if he doesn't stop. Try not to give him any reactions past telling him these things.

You started to have feelings for her AFTER having sex? Sounds backwards to me. In any case, she may feel ashamed and uncomfortable having done that, so you may need to give her time to figure out how she feels. Reassuring her of your affection would probably help.