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    How do you flirt over text?
    Cher Gopman
    Dating Coach
    Cher Gopman is the Founder of NYC Wingwoman LLC, a date coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Cher is a Certified Life Coach, a former psychiatric nurse, and her work has been featured on Inside Edition, Fox, ABC, VH1, and The New York Post.
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    Keep the conversation fun. If you keep things lighthearted, the other person will be more likely to want to keep talking to you. Talk to your crush about fun, easy topics (like school or hobbies) but don't talk about serious topics because this might make the conversation awkward.
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    What should I text a girl I like?
    Cher Gopman
    Dating Coach
    Cher Gopman is the Founder of NYC Wingwoman LLC, a date coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Cher is a Certified Life Coach, a former psychiatric nurse, and her work has been featured on Inside Edition, Fox, ABC, VH1, and The New York Post.
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    Let her know when things remind you of her. This is a great way to show interest in another person because it lets them know that you think about them. You might, for instance, text a girl you like when you hear a song that reminds you of her or if you're watching a TV show you know she likes.
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    What can I text a girl to make her smile?
    Cher Gopman
    Dating Coach
    Cher Gopman is the Founder of NYC Wingwoman LLC, a date coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Cher is a Certified Life Coach, a former psychiatric nurse, and her work has been featured on Inside Edition, Fox, ABC, VH1, and The New York Post.
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    Give her a compliment and put an emoji at the end of your message. Make sure the compliment is genuine, like "Your science presentation really impressed me!" Also, don't overuse emojis. Try putting just one or two at the end of a message.
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    What if someone has a crush on you but they won't admit it? Do you flirt with them or do you leave it up to them to flirt with you?
    Hannah Madden
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    If you think someone has a crush on you, you can try flirting with them to see how they react. If they don't flirt back or they seem uninterested, they might not actually have a crush on you.
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    What if my crush doesn't like me?
    Hannah Madden
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    Not everyone that you like is going to like you back, and that's okay. Try to accept that your crush doesn't feel the same way about you and move onto someone else who likes you for who you are.
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    What if the person you like is very shy and doesn't talk much?
    Hannah Madden
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    It can be hard to tell if someone shy likes you back. Try talking to them one on one when there aren't many people around so they don't feel so nervous. Or, get their number and chat with them over text so they don't feel the pressure of an in-person conversation.
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    What do I do if I feel like my crush knows I like him?
    Hannah Madden
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    If your crush knows you like him, great! Now you don't have to send out so many signals. You can either take a direct approach and ask him out, or you can flirt with him some more to see if he reciprocates.
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    When you want to approach him for the first time and you have been texting, how do you go about it?
    Hannah Madden
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    If you've been texting for a while, you might have come up with an inside joke or two. Try going up to your crush and opening with something you were just texting about. It might feel a little awkward at first, but once you two start talking, the conversation will flow.
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