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What are some signs that my relationship might not work?

Moshe Ratson, MFT, PCC
Relationship Therapist
Moshe Ratson is the Executive Director of spiral2grow Marriage & Family Therapy, a coaching and therapy clinic in New York City. Moshe is an International Coach Federation accredited Professional Certified Coach (PCC). He received his MS in Marriage and Family Therapy from Iona College. Moshe is a clinical member of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT), and a member of the International Coach Federation (ICF).

Moshe Ratson, MFT, PCC

Relationship Therapist

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Ask yourself if you're emotionally present in the relationship or if you have any needs that your partner doesn't fulfill. You can also question your expectations and what aspects of your relationship work.

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I live with my partner and I need to tell her that I don't want to get re-married. What should I do?

Tasha Rube, LMSW
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Tasha Rube is a Licensed Social Worker based in Kansas City, Kansas. Tasha is affiliated with the Dwight D. Eisenhower VA Medical Center in Leavenworth, Kansas. She received her Masters of Social Work (MSW) from the University of Missouri in 2014.

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The most important thing is not to lead her on. Don't let her think you're interested in getting re-married if you're really not. If this is how you truly feel, you should let her know with as much honesty and respect as possible.

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My partner keeps talking me out of making the final break. How can I leave him without being convinced not to?

Tasha Rube, LMSW
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Be honest and straightforward with your partner. Let them know how you feel and what you want. If this is a breakup, your best bet is to be as forthcoming as possible with your feelings. Take care of yourself and be truthful to YOU.

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I'm pregnant, but the guy won't text me back. What should I do?

Tasha Rube, LMSW
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Licensed Master Social Worker

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If he knows that you're pregnant and won't communicate with you, reach out for support from your family and his. Just because he doesn't want a relationship with his child, doesn't mean his family knows about the situation and feels the same way. Surround yourself with as much family, friends, and community support as you can.

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