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You want to reach out to someone before their surgery, but finding the right words can be difficult. Whether you're calling, texting, or sending a card, a little positive encouragement can really make the person feel supported. In this article, we'll give you thoughtful phrases that someone going through surgery is sure to appreciate.

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"The wish for healing has always been half of health." – Lucius Annaeus

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  1. Sometimes, there's the perfect quote for the situation. Look for uplifting quotes by the person's favorite author—they'll appreciate that you hunted down words of encouragement. If you're still stuck, consider using one of these great quotes:
    • “Tough times never last, but tough people do.” – Robert H Schuller
    • "You're in pretty good shape for the shape you are in." – Dr. Seuss
    • “Be strong because things will get better. It may be stormy now but it never rains forever.” – Evan Carmichael
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"Hurry up and get better—we need to hang out soon!"

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"You're so special to me. I hope you feel better soon."

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  1. Emotions run high before surgery, but this can make it a good time to share how you feel. Talk about a special memory the two of you have or just let them know they're important to you. You could say: [10]
    • "We've been friends since we were kids, so I know you've totally got this!"
    • "I'm so thankful to have you in my life. Praying for a quick recovery."
    • "You're so caring and you always look after everyone else. Give us a chance to look after you!"
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"Looking forward to seeing you healthy soon."

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    What if I don't want them to get better?
    Lucy (parabola) Boyter
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    You should still be respectful because with their surgery they would have gone though a lot. You can send them a neutral text message "I heard you were not well", or mail them a letter and get them a small gift.
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    What kind of surgery is life-threatening?
    Community Answer
    Many can be. For example, heart surgery, brain surgery or cancer surgery.
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    What if they have brain damage and can't remember me?
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    Be kind. Introduce yourself and start bonding all over again!
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