It’s not anyone’s idea of a good time to get in a fight on the street, but sometimes, it’s inevitable. Maybe you run into a drunk guy at the bar, or maybe someone belligerent follows you home. Whatever the case may be, we’ll tell you exactly how to win a street fight with some simple self defense techniques that anyone can do. We’ll also give you strategies for defusing a fight before it happens so you can (hopefully) avoid it in the future.
Things You Should Know
- To defend yourself in a street fight, stand with your feet apart and keep 1 hand up to protect your face. Use your free hand to punch your opponent.
- Aim for soft, painful areas, like the eyes, solar plexus, and groin. Once your opponent is immobile, run away.
- Defuse a fight by complimenting the other person or apologizing to them.
- If your attacker is persistent, call out for help or run away to a safe spot to avoid a fight.
Steps
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Stand with your feet apart and knees slightly bent. Stand with one leg slightly behind you and one leg in front with your knees slightly bent. From here, you can easily wind up for a punch or crouch to defend yourself. [1] X Research source
- A fighting stance is much safer than just standing with your feet hip-width apart. When you stand normally, you have much less range and mobility than if you take a fighting stance.
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Keep 1 hand up to protect your face. When most people pick a fight with a stranger on the street, they’re going to aim for the face when they punch. Throughout the fight, no matter what you’re doing, keep your non-dominant hand up near your face to protect your head. Bend your arm to create a triangle with your elbow to protect your throat as well. [2] X Research source
- If your attacker is punching you, you can use both hands to protect your face. However, usually you want to keep 1 hand free so you can punch back.
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Stand an arm’s length away from your attacker. The closer you stand to your opponent, the more opportunities they have to hit you. If someone comes at you, try to stay away from them, at least an arm’s length away, so they have a harder time reaching you. [3] X Research source
- Be aware of your surroundings, too. If you get backed into a corner and you can’t escape or move backwards, it’s very likely that your opponent will win this fight.
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Use your free hand to swing a punch . To disable your opponent, keep 1 hand up by your face to protect yourself. With your free hand, swing a wide punch toward your opponent, aiming for wherever you can hit them. Keep in mind that they will most likely still be punching at you, so keep your defenses up the entire time. [4] X Research source
- As you punch, keep your hand in a tight fist with your thumb on the outside of your fingers. That way, you’ll hit your opponent with your knuckles without hurting your fingers too much.
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Aim for soft spots on your opponent’s body. The eyes, groin, solar plexus, and throat are all ideal spots to punch your attacker. [5] X Expert Source Adrian Tandez
Self Defense Trainer Expert Interview. 24 July 2019. These spots are soft, so they won’t hurt your hand, but they’re super painful when hit, and may disable whoever you’re fighting. [6] X Research source- Stay away from any hard areas on your opponent’s body, like their skull or their jaw. These likely won’t hurt your opponent enough to stop them, and they could hurt your hand pretty badly.
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Kick at their knees and shins to make them collapse. If you can’t land a solid punch to your opponent’s upper body, move onto their lower body. Aim your foot at their knees or their shins to distract them and make them fall down. [7] X Research source
- Even kicking your opponent’s groin is acceptable in a street fight. The goal is to get away as fast as possible, and a swift kick to the groin can stop someone in their tracks.
- You can disable your opponent even faster by punching their upper body, then quickly kicking at their lower body. It’s pretty hard to defend your entire body at once, and they may not have enough time to recover to defend themselves properly.
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Twist their arm if they grab you. If your opponent steps forward to grab your shirt or your neck, switch strategies. Grab their hand and quickly twist their arm downwards to make them lean over. Then you can let go and run away. [8] X Research source
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Run away once your opponent is immobile. “Winning” a street fight is all about getting away from your attacker as quickly as possible. Once your opponent is no longer actively attacking you, it’s time to get out of there. Sprint away from the fight as quickly as you can, and head toward a populated area with other people around. [9] X Research source
- If your attacker starts following you, yell for help and call the authorities as fast as you can.
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Apologize if the person feels slighted by you. Maybe you accidentally bumped into someone at the bar, or maybe you spilled your drink on someone’s shirt. If a person is getting aggressive with you because they think you insulted them, just say you’re sorry and quickly walk away. [10] X Research source
- “Hey, sorry about that. I really didn’t mean to. Can I grab you some napkins?”
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Defuse the situation with a compliment. A quick way to get out of a fight is to pay someone a compliment. If someone’s getting super angry or mad at you, tell them something you like about them. Make sure you sound sincere so they don’t think you’re being sarcastic or trying to rile them up. [11] X Research source
- For instance, you might say, “Hey man, we’re cool. By the way, I like that shirt you’ve got on. Where’d you get it?”
- If you go this route, watch your tone so that the other person doesn’t think you’re making fun of them. Stay lighthearted and sincere without laughing or smiling.
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Yell for help from others. Other people can help protect you from an aggressive attacker. If the person is still coming at you and they aren’t backing down, it’s time to yell for help. Call out for other people, either strangers or your friends, to come help you out. [12] X Research source
- Fighting a stranger shouldn’t be taken lightly. You never know if a stranger has a weapon on them, and you could get seriously hurt during a fight.
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Walk away from the fight if you can. The best way to avoid an angry person is to get out of their sight. Head as far away as you possibly can, and get around a large group of people. The faster you can leave the situation, the safer you’ll be. [13] X Research source
- Never head to a secluded area without other people around. If your attacker is persistent, they may follow you.
EXPERT TIPSelf-Defense SpecialistDerrek Hofrichter is a Self-Defense Specialist and the Founder of EVKM Self Defense & Fitness in Tempe, Arizona. Derrek specializes in Krav Maga, Personal Safety, and Boxing. Derrek is a Krav Maga Third Degree Black Belt, a Senior Certified Krav Maga Instructor, and a Krav Maga Alliance Executive Board, and Training Team Member. EVKM Self Defense & Fitness was named the 2014 Krav Maga Alliance School of the Year and the 2017 Best Gym/Workout Studio in Phoenix. Derrek was named as one of the top 30 Health and Fitness Leaders in Arizona under the age of 40 by The Arizona Republic and azcentral.com in 2018. He also holds a BA in Government Public Policy from Patrick Henry College.Attempt escape in dangerous situations. Before even considering an altercation, try to find an escape route. Look for exits or avenues away from the danger.
Expert Q&A
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QuestionWhat is the easiest way to beat someone if you're being attacked?Adrian Tandez is a Martial Arts and Self-Defense Specialist based in Mountain View, California. He is the founder, owner, and head instructor of the Warrior Combat Arts Academy, a world-renowned self-defense training center. He started the academy in 2005. Adrian has earned the titles of Guro (teacher in Filipino) and SiFu (master in Cantonese) from his certifications and years of martial arts training. Trained under the renowned martial artist Dan Inosanto, Adrian is a certified instructor in Bruce Lee's Jeet Kune Do, Filipino Martial Arts, and Silat, among other things. He has had over 30 years of martial arts experience.Target the soft spots on their body to incapacitate them. For example, attack their face, temples, throat, kidneys, and solar plexus.
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QuestionHow do you win a street fight if they have a weapon but you don't?Adrian Tandez is a Martial Arts and Self-Defense Specialist based in Mountain View, California. He is the founder, owner, and head instructor of the Warrior Combat Arts Academy, a world-renowned self-defense training center. He started the academy in 2005. Adrian has earned the titles of Guro (teacher in Filipino) and SiFu (master in Cantonese) from his certifications and years of martial arts training. Trained under the renowned martial artist Dan Inosanto, Adrian is a certified instructor in Bruce Lee's Jeet Kune Do, Filipino Martial Arts, and Silat, among other things. He has had over 30 years of martial arts experience.Look for anything that you can use to defend yourself, such as a broom handle, a bat, or garbage can cover.
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QuestionWhat do you do if your opponent has a knife?Adrian Tandez is a Martial Arts and Self-Defense Specialist based in Mountain View, California. He is the founder, owner, and head instructor of the Warrior Combat Arts Academy, a world-renowned self-defense training center. He started the academy in 2005. Adrian has earned the titles of Guro (teacher in Filipino) and SiFu (master in Cantonese) from his certifications and years of martial arts training. Trained under the renowned martial artist Dan Inosanto, Adrian is a certified instructor in Bruce Lee's Jeet Kune Do, Filipino Martial Arts, and Silat, among other things. He has had over 30 years of martial arts experience.If you’re forced into a knife fight, you need to disarm your opponent quickly. If you can, take the knife from your attacker. While fighting, cover your vital organs, face, and throat. Keep your feet moving and use obstacles. Don’t make it easy for your attacker to injure you.
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Tips
- If you're fighting more than one opponent, attack the one closest to you first. If you get one or more opponents down, run. Sometimes, taking out just one can scare the others off.Thanks
- Learning a martial art can prepare you to win a street fight if you're pushed into a corner. Choose a fighting style that teaches strikes, hand-to-hand combat and ground fighting so you can be effective on your feet and or on the ground.Thanks
Warnings
- Fighting others in the street is dangerous, and in some cases, illegal. Do your best to avoid street fights at all costs.Thanks
References
- ↑ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Vt_MxVHQN4&t=224s
- ↑ https://www.mma-today.com/how-to-win-a-fight/
- ↑ https://www.mma-today.com/how-to-win-a-fight/
- ↑ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Vt_MxVHQN4&t=294s
- ↑ Adrian Tandez. Self Defense Trainer. Expert Interview. 24 July 2019.
- ↑ https://www.mma-today.com/how-to-win-a-fight/
- ↑ https://www.mma-today.com/how-to-win-a-fight/
- ↑ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aq3mnDRVIq0&t=113s
- ↑ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Vt_MxVHQN4&t=304s
- ↑ https://www.cisa.gov/sites/default/files/2022-11/De-Escalation_Final%20508%20%2809.21.21%29.pdf
- ↑ https://www.cisa.gov/sites/default/files/2022-11/De-Escalation_Final%20508%20%2809.21.21%29.pdf
- ↑ https://www.gq-magazine.co.uk/article/bear-grylls-how-to-fight-self-defence
- ↑ https://www.gq-magazine.co.uk/article/fist-fight-how-to-avoid
About This Article
If you want to win a street fight, focus on attacking your opponent's weak spots, like the face, temples, throat, and kidneys. You can punch, scratch, bite, claw, spit, or pull the hair of your aggressor to gain the upper hand. Also, look around for any objects that you can use as weapons—you're defending yourself, so there are no rules. Be as loud as possible during the fight, which will hopefully get the attention of anyone nearby who can help you. For example, you can yell something like, "Help, this guy is trying to hurt me!" or "I need help, someone call the police!" If you are outmatched or outnumbered, try to run away at the first opportunity you get towards a public, well-lit area. To learn about other attack moves you can try in a street fight, read on!
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