How to Tell Someone You Don't Want to Go on Another Date

Although it can be awkward to tell someone you don’t want to go on another date, it’s best to be polite and direct. If you want to tell them in person, communicate clearly and directly rather than using euphemisms to avoid confusion. For example, you could say, “I had fun on our date last week, but I want to be honest. I think we’ll be better suited to other people, so I don’t think a second date is best.” Make sure you treat them with respect as you tell them to avoid any unnecessary hurt. You don’t need to reciprocate their feelings, but being kind and polite as you tell them so goes a long way. If you’d prefer to send a text to tell someone you don’t want to go on another date, start with a compliment and keep your message straightforward. For example, you could say, “Thanks for our date last week, I had a good time. However, I didn’t feel much of a spark between us that would make me interested in a second date.” For more tips from our Relationship co-author, like how to remain friends, read on!