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Learn to comfort a loved one coping with the death of a mother
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Has someone close to you lost their mom and you aren’t sure what to say? Situations like this are emotionally tricky, but offering kind words and support can really make a huge difference when trying to help someone who’s grieving. If you’re wondering what to say when someone’s mom dies, we’ve got you covered with the most effective condolence messages. Read on for our complete guide.
Ways to Say Condolences for the Loss of Your Mother
- Offer a simple, yet sincere apology like “I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m sending you and your family all my love.”
- If you don’t know what to say, it’s okay to express that. You could say, “I’m at a loss for words. Is there anything I can do to support you?”
- If you can, share positive memories of your friend’s mom. “I can’t believe it. Your mom was such a smart and caring person. I’ll never forget that.”
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Sample Texts and Letter to Send Someone Whose Mom Died
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- When your friend is grieving, avoid trying to “fix” the situation. There may be nothing you can do to make things feel okay for them. Instead, focus on just offering your presence and sympathy.Thanks
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Expert Interview
Thanks for reading our article! If you’d like to learn more about grieving, check out our in-depth interview with Ken Breniman, LCSW, C-IAYT .
References
- ↑ https://www.vumc.org/health-wellness/news-resource-articles/what-do-i-say-when-someone-grieving
- ↑ https://www.vumc.org/health-wellness/news-resource-articles/what-do-i-say-when-someone-grieving
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/grief/coping-with-grief-and-loss.htm
- ↑ https://www.health.harvard.edu/mind-and-mood/ways-to-support-someone-who-is-grieving
- ↑ https://www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/health/servicesandsupport/grief-how-to-support-the-bereaved
- ↑ https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/death.html
- ↑ https://positivepsychology.com/grief-counseling/
- ↑ https://www.unicef.org/parenting/child-care/how-talk-your-children-about-death-loved-one
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/grief/bereavement-grieving-the-death-of-a-loved-one.htm
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